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In the past, after tea and dinner, people could always hear them casually saying a saying when chatting, which did not sound very good, but contained a lot of truth. For example, the rural elderly often say: "The son is like a mother, the golden brick wall; the daughter is like Lao Tzu, but wears a leather jacket", so what does this sentence really mean?
Just because of a common saying, pregnant women are full of expectations for the gender of the baby
There is a female friend around the bud mother, her own appearance is online, but the husband she is looking for is plain,For this reason, this friend does not want to have a daughter in the future when she is pregnant, thinking that "the daughter follows the father", which directly affects the appearance.
In this regard, when the friend is pregnant, he always silently reads the gender of the child in his heart, hoping that he can give birth to a son and inherit his excellent genes in the future.
But in the end, it was not as desired, a few days ago the friend just gave birth, is a daughter, for this relatives and friends to visit, but also said that the child looks like the father, do not know whether it is a psychological effect or true, friends also look at the child more like the father.
And when we jokingly let a friend have another "pull back a round", the friend said: I am not born, I am afraid that having another daughter is exactly the same as my husband.
In life, we often say: "Daughters are like fathers, sons are like mothers". The resemblance here does not all refer to appearance, but also personality.
As the saying goes: "The son is like a mother, and the golden brick wall is built", who is the child to follow?
"Sons are like mothers, and gold bricks are built on walls", and the image here does not refer only to appearance.
1) IQ aspect
According to scientific research, a mother's iq on her child is greater than that of a father, or even three times higher, especially for her son.
Therefore, those who are more intelligent mothers, the IQ of the sons born is generally not low, and the IQ will play a big role in future learning and employment, and naturally there will be more interest in the future.
2) Personality aspect
In addition, in terms of appearance, if the "son follows the mother", the appearance can have the femininity of the mother and the woman, and at the same time have the masculinity of the father, and the two are combined with each other, which can play the role of "soft and rigid".
Now we always laugh at a boy with a "woman's face" and think that it will be "feminine", but in fact, in ancient times, "boy and girl" was a symbol of wealth, and it was called the potential of "being a big official".
This is because those who had culture in ancient times, especially those who looked good, had more chances of success, and those who were not good-looking, even if they were talented, may not have a head day because of their looks.
3) Personality aspect
The son is like a mother in terms of personality, he can be strong and soft in doing things, he knows how to advance and retreat, he knows the gains and losses, such a person is a person who can do great things on the road in the future, and will have a future in the future.
It can be seen that the similarity between boys and mothers is not empty, just like the ancients said, combining these advantages in one, naturally like "gold brick wall", and becoming rich and expensive in the future.
In fact, children are more inclined to be like dads
From a scientific point of view, children are a synthesis of parental appearance, and naturally they will not simply favor one side genetically, but in people's mouths, children seem to be more inclined to favor their fathers.
Foreign scientists have done relevant research, and the experimental results show that whether it is a mother or a father, most of them think that children are more like fathers.
In fact, in life, those relatives and friends who come to visit the mother are also inclined to say that the child is like a father, whether it is a baby boy or a baby girl, whether this is the case or not, after all, when the child is just born, the father likes to hear the child say like himself (after all, this can rule out the possibility of being a happy father).
Of course, in the family, the person who does not care the child's appearance is estimated to be the child's grandmother, because no matter who the child looks like, the child is her own grandson.
Bud Care Mom wants to say:
Every parent naturally has good wishes for their children, hoping that their children will eat and drink in the future and live a life of great wealth and wealth.
No matter who the child looks like, for those newborn babies, it is actually difficult to judge who the child looks like, because many organs are not yet fully developed.
So many times, who the child looks like is completely intuitive, or what is said is a "compliment". Therefore, the appearance of children at birth is not counted, after all, "female eldest eighteen changes", when they grow up, they are all good-looking children.