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Li Dahai and his mother lived in an 18-square-meter house, borrowed money from his father Li Chengru to buy a house, and was rejected Li Chengru refused to lend money to his son for his own reasons, telling his son not to do things that could not be achieved without ability, there was no mistake, Li Da wanted to take advantage of the house price reduction to buy a house for his mother, but the father and son's ideas were not at a point, and they could not reach the same. In fact, Li Dahai has been very sensible since he was a child under the education of his mother, and he is distressed by his mother, and he wants to buy a house for his mother, which is nothing more than wanting his mother to live better and improve the living environment, which is also a kind of filial piety. You can have time to pay back the money slowly, but you don't necessarily have time to slowly fulfill filial piety, your mother grows old day by day, the rest of your life is subtraction, and filial piety must be done early.

author：Lotus incense hits people

Mr. Li said he spent his childhood in an alley in Beijing and lived with his mother in an 18-square-meter house for 28 years.

Why Li Dahai is bent on buying a house for his mother, and even opens his mouth to borrow money from his father, looking at his growth experience, he can understand and support him, and he is touched by Li Dahai's filial piety.

Li Dahai and his mother lived in an 18-square-meter house, borrowed money from his father Li Chengru to buy a house, and was rejected Li Chengru refused to lend money to his son for his own reasons, telling his son not to do things that could not be achieved without ability, there was no mistake, Li Da wanted to take advantage of the house price reduction to buy a house for his mother, but the father and son's ideas were not at a point, and they could not reach the same. In fact, Li Dahai has been very sensible since he was a child under the education of his mother, and he is distressed by his mother, and he wants to buy a house for his mother, which is nothing more than wanting his mother to live better and improve the living environment, which is also a kind of filial piety. You can have time to pay back the money slowly, but you don't necessarily have time to slowly fulfill filial piety, your mother grows old day by day, the rest of your life is subtraction, and filial piety must be done early.

Li Dahai and his mother lived in the 18 square meter house for 28 years, the condition of the house is really poor, the kitchen is shared with the four uncles, and the bathroom is a public toilet in the hutong.

Li Dahai said that when he was a child, his father was not around, he rarely saw his father, only his mother was a relative, and he could not do without his mother.

After his parents divorced, Li Dahai's mother was more financially strapped, but chose to send Li Dahai to a better boarding school, which cost more, so that the financial pressure was even greater.

Li Dahai spent the most painful 4 and a half years in boarding school, in school, every night with a pillow towel folded into a small doll, every night crying, crying for 4 and a half years.

Li Dahai can not leave his mother, his mother is also worried about him, Li Dahai is at school, sometimes see his mother standing outside the window, his heart is very sad, but Li Dahai chose to pretend not to see his mother, did not dare to look at his mother, afraid of looking at both people can not help but cry.

Li Dahai's mother is a Huimin, Li Dahai followed his mother is also a Huimin, there is no Huimin food in the school, just follow the current, eat some rice porridge and vegetables, go to junior high school, the height is only 146cm.

Every time he went home on the weekend, Li Dahai's mother always cooked a lot of money to make up for Li Dahai, and Li Dahai knew that it was his mother who only ate her own flapjacks every day, saving money and saving it for him to supplement food on the weekend.

Li Dahai and his mother lived in an 18-square-meter house, borrowed money from his father Li Chengru to buy a house, and was rejected Li Chengru refused to lend money to his son for his own reasons, telling his son not to do things that could not be achieved without ability, there was no mistake, Li Da wanted to take advantage of the house price reduction to buy a house for his mother, but the father and son's ideas were not at a point, and they could not reach the same. In fact, Li Dahai has been very sensible since he was a child under the education of his mother, and he is distressed by his mother, and he wants to buy a house for his mother, which is nothing more than wanting his mother to live better and improve the living environment, which is also a kind of filial piety. You can have time to pay back the money slowly, but you don't necessarily have time to slowly fulfill filial piety, your mother grows old day by day, the rest of your life is subtraction, and filial piety must be done early.

Li Dahai's mother, for several years, rode a bicycle to work every day, and in the winter, her feet were frozen, and after freezing, she was painful and uncomfortable, Li Dahai looked in her eyes and remembered in her heart.

When he was in junior high school, Li Dahai did the proudest thing, using the money he saved when he was a child to buy a pair of sneakers that were more expensive and better at that time to make a birthday gift for his mother.

Pressure is not enough money, the difference of more than 10 yuan, Li Dahai went to the store several times, each time he asked when to discount, the day before his mother's birthday, Li Dahai, who had not yet bought shoes, was very anxious, and went to the store, asking the aunt of the store whether to discount.

The store aunt said: "You have come many times, every time you ask whether to discount, but do not buy, this is a pair of women's shoes, who do you buy for", Li Dahai said: "I want to buy for my mother, make birthday gifts for my mother, tomorrow is my mother's birthday." ”

The conversation between Li Dahai and the store aunt was overheard by a customer, who was touched by Li Dahai's filial piety and asked Li Dahai to buy it with his membership card, which could be discounted, and finally Li Dahai bought shoes as he wished.

Li Dahai took his shoes home and said: "Mom, this is my birthday gift to you, your waist is not good, your feet can't be frozen", Li Dahai's mother was touched and hurt, and took Li Dahai into her arms and cried.

Because it is a birthday gift sent by his son, Li Dahai's mother is always reluctant to wear it, only on weekends and festivals, Li Dahai wears it when he is at home, usually take his shoes out to see, reluctant to wear.

Li Dahai liked Transformers when he was a child, reluctant to use the old money to buy Transformers, but willing to use them to buy shoes for his mother, sensible Li Dahai knew that his mother was in financial difficulties, and always told his mother that he did not like Transformers and did not have to buy them.

[Until Li Dahai grew up, Li Dahai's mother bought a Transformer to give to her son on the show, fulfilled her son's childhood wish, and borrowed Transformer to wish her son a successful career.] 】
Li Dahai and his mother lived in an 18-square-meter house, borrowed money from his father Li Chengru to buy a house, and was rejected Li Chengru refused to lend money to his son for his own reasons, telling his son not to do things that could not be achieved without ability, there was no mistake, Li Da wanted to take advantage of the house price reduction to buy a house for his mother, but the father and son's ideas were not at a point, and they could not reach the same. In fact, Li Dahai has been very sensible since he was a child under the education of his mother, and he is distressed by his mother, and he wants to buy a house for his mother, which is nothing more than wanting his mother to live better and improve the living environment, which is also a kind of filial piety. You can have time to pay back the money slowly, but you don't necessarily have time to slowly fulfill filial piety, your mother grows old day by day, the rest of your life is subtraction, and filial piety must be done early.

Li Dahai is very sensible, in order to share the burden on his mother's shoulders, winter and summer vacations, he has gone to work, sold pizza in a pizzeria, sold glasses in glasses, delivered takeaways on snowy days, and sang songs in bars...

Li Dahai has been living with his mother since he was a child, relying on each other for his life, understanding his mother's suffering, and his mother's not easy.

Li Dahai grew up, but his mother was old.

One year, Beijing house prices fell, Li Dahai wanted to buy a better house for his mother, Li Dahai went to see a lot of houses, because his savings were not enough, decided to borrow money from his father Li Chengru, and wanted to call a loan note to his father, this is the first time Li Dahai borrowed money from his father, before opening his mouth, he thought that his father should borrow, but he did not expect to be rejected by his father in the end.

Li Dahai said that his father refused, and said: "This matter is not something you should do, you do not have this ability, do not do this thing, I will not lend you money." ”

Li Dahai and his mother lived in an 18-square-meter house, borrowed money from his father Li Chengru to buy a house, and was rejected Li Chengru refused to lend money to his son for his own reasons, telling his son not to do things that could not be achieved without ability, there was no mistake, Li Da wanted to take advantage of the house price reduction to buy a house for his mother, but the father and son's ideas were not at a point, and they could not reach the same. In fact, Li Dahai has been very sensible since he was a child under the education of his mother, and he is distressed by his mother, and he wants to buy a house for his mother, which is nothing more than wanting his mother to live better and improve the living environment, which is also a kind of filial piety. You can have time to pay back the money slowly, but you don't necessarily have time to slowly fulfill filial piety, your mother grows old day by day, the rest of your life is subtraction, and filial piety must be done early.

Li Dahai once sighed that at this time, his father did not help himself, and who else in this world could help him.

Despite this, Li Dahai was tolerant and worked hard to repair the relationship with his father, which was inseparable from his mother's education.

Since childhood, Li Dahai's mother has taught him not to resent his father, because no matter what, Li Chengru is his father, his body is shedding his father's blood, blood relations have always been, Li Dahai's mother has always encouraged and supported Li Dahai and his father to repair their feelings, every year Chinese New Year's Eve ask Li Dahai to accompany his father.

Li Dahai has lacked father's love since he was a child, but he does not lack maternal love, rarely accompanied by his father, but has his mother to take care of him all the way, teaching him to understand the great truth of life, kindness and love, tolerance and generosity, and learning to be grateful.

Li Dahai and his mother lived in an 18-square-meter house, borrowed money from his father Li Chengru to buy a house, and was rejected Li Chengru refused to lend money to his son for his own reasons, telling his son not to do things that could not be achieved without ability, there was no mistake, Li Da wanted to take advantage of the house price reduction to buy a house for his mother, but the father and son's ideas were not at a point, and they could not reach the same. In fact, Li Dahai has been very sensible since he was a child under the education of his mother, and he is distressed by his mother, and he wants to buy a house for his mother, which is nothing more than wanting his mother to live better and improve the living environment, which is also a kind of filial piety. You can have time to pay back the money slowly, but you don't necessarily have time to slowly fulfill filial piety, your mother grows old day by day, the rest of your life is subtraction, and filial piety must be done early.

Li Chengru did not lend money to his son, but later he also felt that he was busy with business and career, there was no time to accompany his son to grow, no matter in what aspect, he owed a lot to his son, always wanted to make up for his son, once wanted to buy 1 million cars for his son, although his son Li Dahai accepted his father's kindness, he chose to buy a car of more than 200,000 yuan.

Between Li Chengru and his son Li Dahai, no matter what he has experienced, but the father and son are father and son after all, the blood relationship has always been there, and the father and son have also been working hard to repair their feelings and make the relationship good.

May the relationship between Li Chengru and Li Dahai get better and better!

Li Dahai has been working hard, and one day, he will become capable and become more excellent.

Li Dahai and his mother lived in an 18-square-meter house, borrowed money from his father Li Chengru to buy a house, and was rejected Li Chengru refused to lend money to his son for his own reasons, telling his son not to do things that could not be achieved without ability, there was no mistake, Li Da wanted to take advantage of the house price reduction to buy a house for his mother, but the father and son's ideas were not at a point, and they could not reach the same. In fact, Li Dahai has been very sensible since he was a child under the education of his mother, and he is distressed by his mother, and he wants to buy a house for his mother, which is nothing more than wanting his mother to live better and improve the living environment, which is also a kind of filial piety. You can have time to pay back the money slowly, but you don't necessarily have time to slowly fulfill filial piety, your mother grows old day by day, the rest of your life is subtraction, and filial piety must be done early.

Conclusion:

Most fathers, when the child is young, choose to work hard, busy with work and career, no time or little time to accompany the child to grow, in order to live, sometimes fish and bear paws can not have both, can be understood, but still hope to try to take some time to accompany the child, do not let the father love absent.

The lack of paternal love when you are a child does not mean that there is no paternal love, and being rejected by the father does not necessarily mean not loving, but the way of love is different, and fathers and sons should understand and tolerate each other.

Between father and son, no matter what they have experienced, they can still work hard to repair their feelings, which is good, after all, the blood relationship has always been.

No matter what a person has experienced in life, he must learn to be grateful and learn to be tolerant.

Honor your parents and do your filial piety as soon as possible!

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