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Recently, there was such a news on the Internet: a college entrance examination candidate in Mianyang City, Sichuan Province, the day before the college entrance examination, his father died of esophageal cancer, and his mother and brother also died when the candidate was young, and the candidates still took the college entrance examination under the pressure of the death of "three relatives". And after taking the college entrance examination, he properly arranged his father's funeral, and then seized the time to find a summer vacation job and work hard for his next living expenses and tuition fees. During the period, the volunteer filling after the college entrance examination was completed by its homeroom teacher, where the candidate did summer vacation work, the boss said: "Welcome him back to work at any time", the government issued a student loan for the candidate, and people from all walks of life in the society also donated their love and actively donated after knowing the tragic fate of the candidate. However, the donation from the society was politely rejected by the candidate, who in his own words wanted to be self-reliant.
When I saw this report, my heart was full of mixed feelings, and at the same time, a sense of admiration surged into my heart.
In fact, at my age, I know very little about this kind of loss of parents, once thought, don't be stupid, this kind of orphan plot will only appear in the TV series, and now such a society, the country is strong, the society is stable, where there is that kind of orphan person, at most the life is a little bitter, a little difficult.
Knowing that such a thing really appeared in the news, my thinking was completely subverted. At the same time, I also suddenly understood some life principles from this candidate. I feel the need to share it with you.
Some fates cannot be fought, and some fates must be mastered by oneself
In order to show their pride, people will say such a sentence, life and death have a destiny, and wealth is in the sky
I actually don't agree with this sentence, I think that life and death have a destiny, and wealth lies in myself.
In today's social state, life and death are in a normal state of life, and the decision is not up to you, but in heaven, which is irrefutable. Cancer, car accidents, natural death are all things you can't decide, you can't foresee when you're going to die, it's only up to fate. So life and death have a destiny. Just like the candidate's parents, if life and death are decided by the candidate's parents and brothers, I believe that his father must want to watch his child enter the college entrance examination, his mother must want to watch his child grow up healthy and happy, and his brother must want to play with him and insult. Unfortunately, fate is in charge of life and death.
Fate is sometimes cruel, and we can only go with the flow and live in the present.
The loss of parents may make some people feel lost, feel lost home, lost dependence, and lost confidence in the next life, and compromised to fate.
And our candidate didn't.
After settling down with his father, he immediately threw himself into the life of a summer vacation worker, preparing for his next tuition and living expenses. Because he understands two truths: First, in the next life, he can only rely on himself, all suffering, all sins can only be carried by himself, and no one will bear it for him. The second is that he has no time to waste in sadness and despair, and the next fate cannot be passed by sadness and despair, and his future fate, what kind of life he wants to live, and what kind of people he wants to associate with are all in his own hands. But this fate can be changed a little bit with a little effort, and the decision is entirely in our own hands.
I once saw a user on today's headlines say this: "Some people know what they want and where their direction is, but they don't want to act, they don't have the courage to face their lives, and finally comfort themselves in doing nothing: ordinary is precious."
Oh, yes! How many people are deceiving themselves, obviously do not have the courage to act, but they want to say that they are ordinary and precious, and in the end, they have a life of doing nothing. Wait until the end of your life to regret your life's inaction.
The fate of the candidate is undoubtedly tragic, but the candidate is still in such a tragic fate, tenacious resistance, his heart is strong, I believe that under the support of such a strong heart, there is no difficulty in the rest of his life to crush him.
There is good and evil in society, but there is always more good than evil
Candidates have such a thing, but also the fastest speed to adjust the state, work to earn tuition, living expenses, I believe that no one does not admire this strong. However, when countless people have sympathy for him, some people have reached out to him, when dealing with his father's funeral, the teacher completed the volunteer application for him, after handling the funeral, he was doing summer vacation work, the boss said that he was welcome to come back to work at any time, the government applied for a student loan for him, and the society was also donating money for him.
There was such a social experiment on YouTube that touched hundreds of millions of viewers around the world.
In China, an actor plays a roadside scavenger, dragging a broken sack full of plastic bottles, holding two steamed buns in his hand, asking for water from house to house, he thinks the steamed buns are too choked, and if he wants to order water, he swallows the steamed buns.
The result of this short film is very heartwarming: some merchants poured him hot water, some merchants gave him drinks, some merchants gave him hot water and gave pickles at the same time, and some catering merchants even threw away his steamed buns, and then gave him a bowl of clean and hygienic and steaming rice bowls.
This short video has seen a lot of people crying, including me. Foreign netizens have left messages: "Praise for your kindness", "Oh my God, what a kind person", "If this is in the United States, you will be ruthlessly driven away by the merchants"...
This friend later told me that she would never forget the boss's gesture of begging him at that time, and she would solve the resentment in her heart for thousands of years.
There is good and evil in society, but there is always more good than evil, and good can always overcome evil.
The dark years you experience will eventually forge your strong life
Ma Yun was rejected by Harvard ten times before success, looking for a job to go to KFC for an interview, 15 people only he was not admitted, and finally Harvard asked him to give a speech to students, KFC had to make money through Ma Yun's hunger.
Before ren zhengfei founded Huawei, he used to ride a tricycle to deliver goods for others.
When Jay Chou became the king of Asian music, no one wanted to sing the lyrics he wrote
Before Becoming President of South Africa, Mandela spent 27 years in prison
Everyone's success is not accidental, how much they have achieved, behind them are paid a sweat proportional to income.
I know a guy who chose to change careers when he graduated from college and joined an education company to run a new media business. The department is a new department that the company has just established, no manager, no supervisor, no guidance, all of which is his own groping, conscientious, three months to survive to the regular, not to say how much achievements, but the company's public account operation of a small success. In the end, the company dismissed him on the grounds that he was inappropriate.
He was devastated and knew in his heart that he was being used as an experiment. So he secretly decided to conquer the company
After ten years of groping in the education new media industry, he successfully sat in the position of manager and began to squeeze the previous company to seize his market share, during which time the company's boss came to dig people and found that the talent he was pursuing was his previously dismissed self. That's when he understood he had succeeded.
Similarly, I believe that this candidate can still regain his strength after experiencing such a life event, and this perseverance is beyond the reach of ordinary people. The strength of his heart will be the cornerstone of his future success, and the darkness he experiences will eventually forge his powerful life and the sword of resistance with fate.
There will always be darkness in life, but the dawn will always come
Write at the end
Sometimes we feel that the world is bad, and everyone abandons themselves and targets themselves, but sometimes we feel that the world is beautiful and that people are amiable.
When you're in a good mood, everything is good; when you're in a bad mood, you feel like the whole world is against you. Life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten, what kind of mentality to face life, life will give you what kind of results
Difficulties will not defeat you, they will only trip you up, and it is you who will defeat you, it is your own abandonment
There is a saying that is quite correct, the self-helper Tensuke, a person who even gives up on himself, then who can help him?
I believe that this teenager will definitely make a difference in the future. For I have seen his indomitable, unyielding gesture of not bowing to fate.
Teenagers must make a difference in the future. For I have seen his indomitable, unyielding gesture of not bowing to fate.