Interesting parents have become a luxury for children

Wen 丨 Fish Dad Image source: The movie "My Neighbor Totoro"

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Nowadays, the word interesting has become particularly eye-catching.

And children pay more attention to this.

For example, if I pick a bedtime storybook for a little fish, will he ask me if it is interesting?

Accompany him to the movies, will also ask me if it is interesting?

So those interesting storybooks, he read over and over again, sometimes he would be so excited that his little face turned red, and he was anxious to tell his friends about the recommendations, for fear of being missed.

And what about boring books, he listened to half of them and urged me to finish quickly.

Don't look at the young age of the children, they also have their own book selection criteria.

And fun became a key indicator.

During parent-child reading exchanges, many mothers asked me, "I don't know how to tell picture books to my children, let alone tell stories well, because I myself feel that it is not interesting to tell, and children do not like to listen to them." ”

How to make a book interesting.

It really takes a lot of thought.

When reading picture books, not only rely on reading aloud, but also have expressions, and it is best to bring some body movements when needed.

When reading, you can also add some tone changes, which can reflect the identity of the characters and the interest of the dialogue.

This way the child can integrate into the plot faster.

Therefore, you will find that parents who often read picture books to their children have basically practiced a ventriloquist skill.

Learn the sounds of various animals, and there are different patterns.

If you just read the past like a machine, plain as water, even if you read a word, the child will reject it.

Because it's boring.

More than just reading.

In many ways, interesting parents are increasingly needed.

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Mr. Zhou Guoping said, "There are some serious parents, who are very bored themselves, who punish their children when they see them naughty, and are indifferent when they hear their children's funny words, and I really feel wronged for their children."

In the arid desert, the child's intellectual flower withers prematurely. In the silent room, the child's spiritual laughter was prematurely muted.

If a child is gifted but does not know humor, the responsibility must be on the adult. ”

It's true that we have too many parents who like to always have a strained face and a high look.

It's boring to think about.

When you get home, please let go of all your identity and be the child's parents.

Your relaxed expression will make the child feel good.

Then they will come and invite you without being afraid of you.

I found that if I had a lot of trouble, my son would play alone.

Sometimes look at me quietly.

When my mood was better, my words were happy and relaxed.

He would accidentally fall on my back and ask me to play with him.

Really, if the home is dull, it will only damage the child's spirituality.

Also became dumbfounded.

Playing with your children will make it more fun.

Crouch down and act like a child.

To play with a boy, you just need to light a little fire.

They will burn quickly.

The other day, Xiaoxiaoyu took the neighbor's little brother to play at home.

As soon as I came to the living room, the little ones pestered me to play with them.

Let me test your efforts.

Then they fought in the living room.

Laughter, screams resounded throughout the room.

Both children had a great time.

Of course, I was also beaten to surrender by them.

I feel that the little brother before is still a little strange to me.

But after some play, it feels familiar.

For a child, the most effective overture for an adult is to join their game.

And if I keep my face tight, this cute little guy won't want to be close to me anymore.

I have always felt that children are spiritual.

They can discover truth, goodness and beauty, and they can feel happy and create happiness.

And the kids have their own sense of humor.

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We often talk about raising a fun child.

Then cultivate his sense of humor first.

It can be said that it is parents who open the door to their children's sense of humor.

Smile often with your child to create a relaxed family atmosphere.

I think kids love to laugh the most.

Even babies laugh.

You will find that there will be some special bond between the caregiver and the child to make each other laugh.

Sometimes it's an action, or a funny expression.

I remember when Xiao Xiaoyu was half a year old, I would play the simplest peek-a-boo with him.

He laughed whenever he saw me emerge from behind the couch or behind my mother.

Later, I found out that he laughed every time he saw me doing something funny.

For example, if I can't sneeze, he will giggle happily.

We can also have some fun and share it with the kids after tea.

For example, when children are two or three years old, they are actually very sensitive to language.

I can also understand some interesting children's songs and humorous picture book stories, such as Xiao Xiaoyu's favorite "I Don't Know Who I Am" and "Who is Who's on My Head".

They will even imitate some of the protagonists in the book and do funny moves to make their parents laugh.

At that time, parents should actively respond to their children, and discover and create laughter between parents and children together.

I remember once watching "The Voice of Joy" with my son and nephews and nieces.

There is a plot in it that makes us laugh together for almost a month, as long as every time we meet, mention the hilarious clip of Yue Bole using his whole body on the street, swimming style, which can be described as wiping the car with "life", laughing at each other, and then reminiscing about the plot together.

The sense of humor is a thing, laughing more, it will really have.

Of course, if parents have a strong sense of humor, then children are expected to have this baby more.

Telling jokes and funny things with your family is so nice to think about.

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Of course, parents should also remember to respect the little pleasures of the child's world and protect the child's sense of humor.

Children are born with a sense of humor, but many times they are damaged.

For example, they will one day dress up as an adult in your clothes, the girl may mess up Mom's shoe cabinet, and the boy will turn Daddy's storage room upside down.

Sometimes they put socks over their hands or deliberately put their clothes on the front ...

Always like to make funny things.

At this time, please do not rush to accuse the child.

Because they're creating interesting ideas to make the world a little bit more interesting.

And you teach your children a lesson with a straight face, which will only make them feel aggrieved.

Of course, you may also douse your child's enthusiasm and let their sense of humor be tailored.

How boring it is when they stop being funny with you and obey you.

Many children like to play family games or role-playing games, and it is often the need for children's own imagination development.

I found that when my son was playing alone at home, he would put his 10-odd dinosaurs on the bed and start making up his own stories to play, and have fun there.

In his imaginary world, he is a spinosaurus and a member of it.

Every time I saw him playing like this, I tried to observe carefully, listen, and not disturb.

He often creates some funny ideas in the process of playing, and then laughs alone, and becomes an actor and director, enjoying himself.

However, there are many parents who do not understand their children and interfere with their children's play.

It will even indifferently and forcefully tear down the scenes built by the child, ask the child to write homework, and destroy the child's imaginary world without saying hello.

There is no mood in the dry life, and this attitude to life is very easy to affect the child.

Living in a boring family, it is difficult for children's imagination to develop.

This not only ruins the child's fun, but perhaps also the child's interest and talent.

Childhood must be fun, to be nourished with happiness, this sense of happiness is like sunlight, through the window of the heart, warm the child's life.

Even in those gray and uneasy days, you will not be afraid.

For the gray see bitterness, but the optimistic and knowledgeable see sweetness.

Interesting people, always able to have fun in pain, will believe in distance and hope.

Try to be a fun parent and raise an optimistic and interesting child!