"You get out of here for me!" She was the most beautiful character in the late Qing Dynasty, but she never married and died alone. All because she couldn't let go of her infatuation with Pu Yi, not only spent most of her life for him, but even went to the hospital to open a virgin certificate to show her loyalty, but in the end she only exchanged Pu Yi's disgust and expulsion.
In 1913, Yan Litong was born in a large family of eunuchs. Her grandfather, who was a military minister, and her mother was a direct granddaughter of the Qing emperor.
Finish Yan Litong Ji was different from other mediocre-looking late Qing noble women at that time, but successfully grew into a white-skinned, beautiful, delicate and charming, beautiful and gentle personality.
The Yan family's status of Puyi has always been very high. And in the heart of Yan Litongji, he has long had an unspeakable love for Puyi. But she didn't want to disturb the happy life of her cousin Wanrong and Puyi, let alone hurt any of them, so she could only bury her love deep in her heart.
In 1929, Yan Litong was caught off guard by the failure of his first engagement. In 1931, due to foreign obstruction, the marriage with Pu Jie was strangled in the cradle.
In 1959, Yan Litong was 47 years old, and Puyi, a single man, was amnestied by the new government and returned to Beijing. After Yan Litongji's heart instantly ignited a raging love for Puyi, and even harmed unrequited love.
The mother, who knew her daughter's thoughts, invited Puyi to come to her house for dinner, hoping that the two could further connect in order to promote this good thing. During the dinner, the wine was slightly drunk, the two talked and laughed, and the heart lake of Yan Litongji rippled.
Since then, she thought that Pu Yi had a good impression of herself, and she thought about Pu Yi even more. Her mother also felt that her daughter and Puyi were a pair made in heaven.
However, the falling flowers are intentional and the flowing water is merciless. Yan Litongji's mother, once asked Puyi's third brother-in-law, Runqi, to work as a lobbyist among them, but when Puyi heard this, she shook her head again and again, saying that she never wanted to find an old-style Manchu woman as a wife again.
Moreover, Yan Litong Ji has neither a job nor a good ability to take care of himself, which does not meet Puyi's standards for marrying a wife at all.
Until later, as long as the people from the Yan family invited them to dinner, Puyi politely declined. However, Yan Litong Ji still refused to give up, and often asked people to agree with Puyi. Again and again, no matter who mentioned her, Puyi felt a headache, and he hated her and avoided her from the bottom of his heart.
Pu Yi refused several times, and after Yan Litong Ji finally understood his indifference, this kind of asking for help, although it made her feel sad and lost, but she still did not want to let go of her obsession with Pu Yi.
In 1962, Puyi married Li Shuxian. After Yan Litong heard about it, she cried a lot, but she was still holding on to her last stubbornness, and she was still not dead to Puyi.
In 1965, Puyi became seriously ill and was hospitalized. At that time, visiting patients required a visitation card, and this brand was only one a day.
Therefore, every day at 3 p.m., Yan Litong Ji would get the sign first, so that he could go to visit Pu Yi, and he sat for an afternoon, but Pu Yi not only did not appreciate it, but said behind her back that she was really annoyed!
Infatuated like her, unwilling to be like her, Yan Litong Ji silently endured Puyi's disgust and disgust for herself, and did a shocking thing: she went to the hospital to issue a virgin certificate! Just to prove his loyalty to Puyi.
Faced with such a complete Yan Litong Ji, Pu Yi could no longer control her anger, became angry in her face, and desperately gave her an eviction order: "I don't want to see you!" You get me out! ”
Pu Yi's words were like a sharp blade, deeply penetrating into Yan Litongji's heart, her "Gege dream" finally woke up, and her wishful thinking came to an end.
In 1967, Puyi died. Since then, the love-hate entanglement between Yan Litong and Puyi has also gone with the wind.
In 2003, 90-year-old Yan Litong remembered to enter a nursing home. One day a month later, while eating dumplings, she suddenly couldn't swallow them, and as a result, she left before she was sent to the hospital.
Not embarrassed! This most beautiful character in the late Qing Dynasty ended his lonely and ill-fated life in such an absurd way. Perhaps, the moment she closed her eyes, her stubbornness and her obsession could really dissipate like smoke.
Zhang Ailing once said that loving someone will be humble to dust. But the author believes that if a person puts himself too low, buries himself too deep in the dust, and eventually cannot see the sun, such love will not blossom, let alone bear fruit.
Only when a woman loves herself first, takes care of her body and soul, is financially independent, and has self-confidence soaring, can she deserve the love of a better person.
That is to say, if Yan Gege can follow the pace of the times and make conforming changes, instead of blindly indulging in the "Gege dream" that she thinks is noble, maybe Puyi will be with her.
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