Lin Huiyin once affectionately described the two men who make women unforgettable for life. One is the man who gave her romance and romance when she first fell in love, and the other is the man who understands her to the bone marrow but can't give her family after the years have settled. The former, she called her first love, the youthful and sad memory, and the latter, she called the red face, the regret that kept her awake at night.
In every woman's life, will there be such two men? One is that she can't leave because it's a combination of responsibility and sadness, and the other is that she can't marry him, because it's a mixture of helplessness and regret. The person next to her spends every night with her, but the sweetheart can only be hidden deep in her heart.
Perhaps, the answer is already predestined, because in this emotional competition, it is always the sweetheart who loses. The person next to the pillow may not have strong love, but has the warmth of home, and the sweetheart, despite her affection, cannot have a real home. The person next to the pillow can stand by her side in a grand manner, but the sweetheart can only wait silently in the bottom of her heart.
The person next to her is her choice after weighing the pros and cons, and the sweetheart is her regret after weighing the pros and cons. She can delete her sweetheart countless times for the person next to her, but her sweetheart can never replace the position of the person next to her in her heart. The person next to the pillow is a symbol of responsibility and family, and the sweetheart is the source of memories and passion.
Perhaps, it's not that she doesn't love you, it's that she keeps saying she loves you, but at the critical moment, she weighs the pros and cons and gives up on your feelings. This kind of heartache is far more profound than not loving.
Zhang Ailing once said: "When she decides to leave you, there must be a moment when she thinks that her life will be better without you." "Such a departure is unforgivable for the rest of your life. The person next to the pillow and her sweetheart, one is her choice after careful consideration, and the other is the regret that she can't let go.
Someone once asked, "If you meet someone who can't be together, what is the meaning of the encounter?" Shakyamuni gave the answer: "No matter who you meet, they are the people who should appear in your life, and their appearance has its reason and mission, and it is no accident." Perhaps, there may not be an ending to an encounter, but every encounter has its own unique meaning. Those happy times that we used to spend together are real and beautiful. #你喜欢林徽因吗# #民国美女林徽因# #林语堂美文#
