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Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

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Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

Sarina's appearance must be a high-quality product.

As a "mother professional" in the entertainment industry.

Sarina can be said to have created many film and television images.

Among them, the image of the mother is even more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

She is Zhou Cui in "Mother is a River", Zhang Xiulan in "My Child's Home", Pei Shuling in "You Are My Life", and Li Suhua in "The World". It is Mrs. Huang in "The Merry Canal".

Sarina plays the gentle and simple role of her mother deeply in the hearts of the people, and she can always see her mother's figure in her. ”

However, who would have thought that such an actor with superb acting skills would have no drama to shoot for 6 years.

This also made Sarina begin to doubt herself, and even wanted to give up being an actress for a while.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

But her husband's support and encouragement made Sarina grit her teeth and go through the most confused moment and usher in the spring of her career.

Eight years later, their beloved daughter was born safely.

In order to better take care of the family and support his wife's career, after experiencing tangled considerations, Pan Jun chose to give in and sacrifice his career to achieve his wife.

Willing to be a little man behind his wife.

How are the two doing now?

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage
Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

In 1968, Sarina was born in a literary family in Inner Mongolia.

Both parents were actors in the troupe, and the young Sarina also developed a strong interest in acting under the words and deeds of her parents.

But soon, Sarina was hit with the first bucket of cold water in her life.

The person who poured cold water on it was none other than Sarina's father.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

They all say: "Do one line and hate one line".

As a national first-class drama director, Sarina's father knows how difficult it is to act.

Plus, Sarina isn't pretty.

Undoubtedly, this will make her acting career full of twists and turns.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

Her father disagreed, and her mother advised her to think of other ways out.

Under this double attack, Sarina did not succumb, but insisted on herself.

With her persistence and struggle, the parents finally relented and chose to respect their daughter's wishes.

Sarina also relied on her talent and spirituality for performance to successfully be admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

While getting her wish, Sarina also met the love of her life.

Speaking of which, Sarina's husband Pan Jun is also an actor.

The two are still classmates, but compared to Sarina, who is known to all ages, Pan Jun is not well known to the public.

There is even less information about him to the outside world, and more often it appears in Sarina's mouth.

And this situation also has a clear relationship with the division of labor between the two.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage
Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

Sarina, who was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy as she wished, ushered in her second physical examination three months after enrollment.

This physical examination also left a deep impression on Pan Jun.

It turned out that when the eyesight was tested, there were three students in Sarina's class whose eyesight was below 0.8, and unfortunately Pan Jun was one of them.

This kind of vision is definitely not good for a department student who needs to use his eyes to convey emotions layer by layer.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

It didn't take long for the school to send out a withdrawal notice.

This is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue and too cruel for college students who have not been enrolled for a long time.

But Pan Jun's performance was beyond everyone's expectations.

Not only did he calmly accept this fact, but he also had the heart to comfort another female classmate who had been hit.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

This kind of performance also made Sarina look at him with admiration.

In a later program interview, I recalled the events of that year.

Sarina still couldn't hide her admiration and smile:

"I thought he was quite a gentleman, a boy, like a man in handling things, very generous, and able to hold a lot of things in his heart......"

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

Fortunately, the teachers who go to the drama love their talents, and they don't want these students to end up with nothing to learn.

Finally, after a meeting in the department, it was decided to let them stay as auditors.

This is the fate of Sarina and Pan Jun.

But the life of the auditor is not so easy, and he has many restrictions and requirements.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

There are even many courses that auditors are not qualified to attend.

Even the rehearsal of sketches and clips is the same, and when the formal students take turns to rehearse, Pan Jun can only do it if he has time, and he can't do it if he doesn't have time.

Such a day, if you don't have a strong enough heart, you can't call it down at all.

Rao is how Pan Jun behaved and how sunny and cheerful he was.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

But in the face of this situation, there was also a collapse.

Maybe it's out of appreciation for this boy, or maybe it's the friendship between classmates and the girl's natural soft-heartedness.

When no one cared, no one paid attention, and no one rehearsed sketches and clips, Sarina appeared by Pan Jun's side.

Accompany him to rehearse sketches and drama clips, and tell him the content of the class that Pan Jun can't listen to.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

When Pan Jun's mentality collapsed, he was as enthusiastic as a little sun to inspire him.

It's no wonder that when the husband and wife sat on the interview show together, Pan Jun would sigh with a smile on his face:

"If it weren't for Sarina, I might not have been able to go through those four years, maybe in the second year, in the third year, I would have given up, thanks to her support. ”

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

The relationship between the two gradually warmed up in this day and night, and in the end, they came together in a canal.

The relationship between the two changed, and naturally they couldn't escape the teacher's eyes.

So much so that one day, the teacher suddenly confessed:

"Pan Jun, Sarina is a good girl, you have to cherish her. ”

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage
Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

It's graduation season in a blink of an eye, but because of the problem of Pan Jun's graduation certificate, there are many twists and turns.

According to the rules and regulations of the time, audit students were not eligible to obtain a graduation certificate.

The diploma is also closely related to work.

Fortunately, with the help of teachers and principals, Pan Jun got his graduation certificate.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

When looking at the clearly visible steel seal on the graduation certificate, Pan Jun and Sarina still couldn't help but wet their eyes.

With the excellent performance of the two in school, the two soon had a good future.

After graduating, Sarina was assigned to the All-China Federation of Trade Unions Drama Troupe.

Pan Jun was assigned to the General Political Drama Troupe.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

Seeing that the days were hard and everything was going in a good direction, they didn't want the reality to hit them hard.

And this time, the person who was hit was replaced by Sarina.

When Sarina came to the art troupe full of longing and hope for the future, reality gave her a blow to the head.

At that time, the film and television industry was relatively depressed, and Sarina's appearance was not exquisite, so she did not have the slightest advantage of being an actor.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

So not long after arriving at the regiment, Sarina was arranged to work in the Datong Mining Bureau of Shanxi Province.

For an actor, this is tantamount to a huge blow and a total denial.

Once Sarina's father's fears became a reality.

The life of the Mining Bureau is hard and tiring, and in the face of this boring and hard life day after day, it is impossible for Sarina to have no gap in her heart compared with her classmates.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

But at this point, she can only comfort and enlighten herself over and over again.

The only thing that comforts Sarina is that although her career is not going well, her relationship with Pan Jun has always been stable.

In 1991, Sarina and Pan Jun entered the palace of marriage.

Considering that everyone was poor at that time, Sarina only made one request to Pan Jun.

"Give me an 8 dollar ring, and you can marry me. ”

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

However, when the two went to the Civil Affairs Bureau with their ID cards happily, they learned that there was still half a year before Sarina reached the legal age of marriage.

According to the regulations, if the two of them insist on getting married now, they need to pay a 200 yuan fee for early marriage and early childbirth.

But if you come and go, if you turn back halfway, the implication doesn't seem to be very good.

In this way, gritting their teeth, the two paid a fee of 200 yuan in exchange for two red marriage certificates.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

Perhaps because of the joy brought by marriage, the two not only got an 11-square-meter house after marriage, but Sarina was finally transferred back from the Mining Bureau.

But just when Sarina was full of joy and thought that everything was on the right track, reality hit her hard again.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

Even if Sarina has superb acting skills, she is one of the best students in the play.

But because of the appearance, the director often shakes his head and refuses after seeing it.

For six years, Sarina was forced to live at home, becoming a housewife and doing household chores.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

For Sarina, this is tantamount to torture, and it also invisibly erodes her self-confidence.

Finally, Sarina decided to recognize the reality and give up her "unrealistic" dream of being an actress.

However, it was strongly opposed by Pan Jun, who said:

"I'm married to a college student who graduated from the acting department of Shanghai Theater Academy, not looking for a nanny, no matter how good you make your home, that's what a nanny should do, not what you should do, I feel very uncomfortable with you. ”
Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

Pan Jun's words also made Sarina have mixed feelings and was deeply touched.

At the same time, a strong unwillingness surged in my heart.

Yes, even her husband believes in herself so much, how can she give up with relatives and friends.

With this in mind, Sarina finally survived the sluggish days.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

1995 was an unforgettable year for Sarina.

Because in this year, she finally received the long-lost script.

Director Yang Yang is preparing to shoot a short drama of "Niu Yuqin's Tree" based on Niu Yuqin in order to carry forward the glorious deeds of Niu Yuqin, a heroine of sand control, a national model worker, and an outstanding Communist Party of China.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

However, everything was ready, and the director made a mistake in casting.

When many people heard that they were going to go to the barren mountains and deserts to experience life, they all retreated.

At this time, some members of the crew recommended Sarina to the director.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

For this rare opportunity, Sarina naturally agreed.

In order to better restore the demeanor of the desert control heroes, and in order not to disappoint the crew, Sarina came to the barren mountains and deserts that other actresses avoided to experience life, until she met the requirements of the role.

It is precisely with such a work attitude that this drama won the first prize of the 16th Feitian Award for short TV series after it was broadcast.

Sarina has also finally made show business remember her name.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

While her career is rising step by step, Sarina has also ushered in the crystallization of love.

However, soon reality made it difficult for the new parents.

That is, with more and more film appointments between the two, they will be away from home for three or five months at every turn, who will take care of their daughter Xiangxiang?

At the beginning, the two agreed that one party would go out to film, and the other party would stay at home to take care of their daughter.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

According to such a verbal agreement, I will spend a period of time peacefully.

But in 2008, with the explosion of "Breaking the Pass", the balance between the two was broken.

With the role of Chinese in the drama, Sarina won the 24th Golden Eagle Award for the Most Popular TV Drama Actress Award, the 27th China TV Drama Feitian Award for Outstanding Actress, and the China Feitian Award for the 60th anniversary of the founding of New China.

Even because the role she played was too deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, when participating in the event, tens of thousands of people called her mother in unison.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

The invitations about her are one after another, and each script is a masterpiece, which is difficult to give up.

But if you go out to film and let your husband stay at home........

Seeing through Sarina's entanglement and hesitation, she also knows how long her wife has been waiting for this day.

Pan Jun changed the agreement between the two, and from then on, "the female protagonist is outside, and the male protagonist is inside".

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

With the support of her husband, Sarina's career is getting better and better, and the image of her mother is deeply rooted in your heart.

On the other hand, Pan Jun was gradually forgotten by the public.

But the two have gone through ups and downs together for so many years, and they have long been indistinguishable from you and me.

For her husband's dedication and sacrifice, Sarina sees it in her eyes and remembers it in her heart.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

The only thing that made Sarina a little sad was the estrangement with her daughter.

It is said that the mother is irreplaceable by anyone.

At the moment when the child is most attached to his mother, Sarina rushes to one crew after another, even if she is accompanied by her father, she still can't make up for her mother's vacancy.

Even many students in Xiangxiang's class think that Xiangxiang is a single family.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

This also made Sarina listen to it in her ears and hurt in her heart.

For this reason, she began to consciously reduce drama appointments, slow down, and come to participate in her daughter's life and pull in the relationship with her daughter.

At the same time, Sarina will also bring her daughter into her circle and let Xiangxiang understand what her mother does.

It is said that there is no overnight feud between mother and daughter.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

In this intentional pull-in relationship, the relationship between Xiangxiang and her mother is getting better and better.

will even take the initiative to care about his mother.

Now Xiangxiang is already a slim girl.

Unlike other second-generation stars who follow their father's business and mother's business, Xiangxiang has her own plans for her future, and the Sarina couple fully respect their daughter's ideas.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

epilogue

For this marriage of "strong women and weak men", there are a thousand Hamlets in a thousand people.

Some people are full of doubts about this, believing that the marriage relationship between strong women and weak men is not conducive to family relations.

There are also people who are full of understanding and blessings about this, and feel that husband and wife are one, as long as it is suitable.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

But no matter what outsiders say, Sarina and her husband respond to their speculations with daily love and stability.

The two are also a rare loving couple in the entertainment industry.

From campus all the way to the present.

During this period, there were troughs and confusions, but what remained unchanged was the tightly held hands.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

This may be the best love.

The flounder is deeply affectionate, starting from not giving up, getting married and loving without doubt.

We are in the same boat through thick and thin, and we share weal and beyond.

Today, the 56-year-old Sarina is already active on the screen, creating one full and vivid character after another.

The author also wishes Sarina better and better in the future, and continues to shine in the field she loves.

Happy Sarina: Her husband gave up his career and was willing to be a "family cook", and he was still sweet after 34 years of marriage

Sources of information:

https://movie.douban.com/celebrity/1372248/

https://baike.so.com/doc/5415820-5653965.html

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