Some people say that mother's love is like water, and whenever we need it, we can always see our mother standing behind us when we look back.
If there are people in this world who are willing to give everything for you without asking for anything in return, it must be their own parents.
But in fact, many times it is the mother who takes more care of the child, because the parents' division of labor is different, the mother will naturally pay more attention to her child, and we are going to talk about a great mother today, Silas.
Silas was physically and mentally exhausted after two months of divorce, because her child was suspected of having autism, she was worried all day, and her husband did not bear the hardship with her, and the two eventually parted ways because of emotional problems.
The 3-year-old son can't speak and the diagnosis is heartbreaking!
Silas spoke about her son in an interview, saying that his son was not developing much differently from other children, that there seemed to be some language barrier, and that doctors had once suspected autism.
When we heard this news, we were probably as shocked as Silas at the beginning, and it was difficult for a three-year-old child to have such a problem without worrying everyone.
Because children at this age are the time to explore the world, and we all know that autistic people refuse to communicate with others, or even refuse to have physical contact with others.
In this way, his understanding of the world will be much less than others, and he will not be able to keep up with the footsteps of others in the future development, which makes Silas, as a mother, not in a hurry.
Today's parents want their children to win at the starting line, and Silas's son is staying in the same place when it is time to start, not only Silas's worries as a mother, which makes us as bystanders feel anxious.
Silas described herself as having noticed that her children were a little different from other children when her son was about one year old.
While children of the same age say simple things, her son doesn't say a word and doesn't like to be close to people.
Between the worries about the child, she immediately took her son to go to the relevant examination, and the results of the examination confirmed that Silas's fear was correct.
In fact, when you become a mother, your friends all understand a feeling, that is, the surprise when the child speaks for the first time, which is the child's progress and the sign of the child's growth.
Silas, on the other hand, did not wait for the "joy", but waited for the "surprise" of the child's language barrier.
Doctors have also said that Silas's son is likely to have autism, which is undoubtedly a thunderbolt for a mother.
Every mother's greatest expectation for her child is to grow up healthy and happy, and the emergence of autism has taken all health and happiness away from Silas's son.
This made It difficult for Silas to accept but had to accept it, because her son needed her company and help, and she needed to cheer up and help the child get out of this haze.
So why do we always say a sentence, called "a woman is weak, but a mother is strong", because she has someone to protect.
She has the determination to take care of her child with all her heart, no matter how sad and tormented she is in her heart, but at the moment of facing her child, she will ask herself to become strong, and she needs to give her child enough confidence to walk the next road.
Silas is still visibly upset when she mentions her son's situation, saying that her son avoids eye contact with others and is rejected even physically.
He is immersed in his own world, a gray world without laughter, which may seem exaggerated to describe, but in the lives of autistic people, this is the norm.
For the child to have such a problem, Sila actively accompanied the child to rehabilitation training, in the joint efforts of Sila and the child finally saw the effect, he began to say some intermittent sentences, and gradually began not to exclude communication with others.
Seeing her son's progress, Silas was very touched, so long of hard work was not in vain, and the worries she had been suppressing were finally released.
Every mother's love for her child is high or low, she wants to give the best to the child, and the expectations for the child are also the simplest.
They don't ask how good their children are, in the face of health, all expectations have become floating clouds, she just wants her children to be safe, and other brilliance is dispensable.
At this time, some netizens may wonder, the child is a common child of both men and women, how can only Silas herself accompany the child to recover, the child's father?
What used to be a young love affair will now go to the point of looking at each other
When we talk about Silas's son, we rarely mention Silas's husband, but it is because Silas and her husband divorced two months ago.
Before Silas got married, she had a boyfriend, the two had been dating for many years, but they had not been recognized by Silas's parents, and under the strong opposition of her parents, Silas still chose to break up with her boyfriend.
Later, Silas met a financial talent, and the two eventually entered the palace of marriage.
Whether or not you are happy in a relationship is only known to yourself, and perhaps Silas is more suitable for her previous boyfriend, but the two have not withstood the doubts and obstructions of their parents and chose to break up.
Silas and her ex-husband may seem like a good match to outsiders, but they can't go long.
At first, the two had a good life, but gradually felt the inappropriate place between the two, followed by quarrels, contradictions and boredom, and finally the two did not overcome the barrier, and finally could not stand each other's various choices of divorce.
In fact, the two people come together is already a kind of fate, as to whether the result is perfect or not, there is no need to worry too much, Silas did not say that her ex-husband was not after the divorce, only that the two could not stand each other.
For such feelings, separation may be the best result, if you blindly force yourself to tolerate each other, it will only be in exchange for double pain and torture.
This is not good for the growth of children, it will only make children feel that their families are not happy, and the child's perception ability is relatively strong.
Although parents do not argue endlessly in front of their children, how the parents' feelings are not deceiving their children.
Moreover, Silas's son also suffers from autism, and everything he feels will be held in his heart and not communicated with others, which is even more detrimental to the recovery of his illness.
On the contrary, there may be psychological problems, the gains are not worth the loss, and Silas also considered the relationship between the growth of the children and finally chose divorce.
epilogue
It can be seen that everything Silas does is for the healthy growth of the child, and for the recovery of the child's condition, the father of the child should also do his best.
Although the two are divorced, the feelings between them and the child are inseparable after all, and I hope that they can take responsibility for the child together, and I also hope that the child's language disorder problem can return to normal as soon as possible, and give the child a healthy and happy childhood.