Children are addicted to electronic products, perhaps too lacking in their hearts

Now faced with the problem of children's computer addiction, it seems that there is nothing more attractive to them than computers.

Many children will also take this as a condition, such as learning for ten minutes to play with the iPad.

Now for children, the computer is more important than anything, their whole person, the whole spirit is attracted to the past, just like the evil, can not eat or drink, and even some children die in this state, which is now the most worrying thing for parents.

We parents provide this environment for our children to touch, then they may be contaminated. So when the child is still young, is it necessary to intentionally establish some degree of isolation?

If the early parents do not realize it, the child has formed such a state. Later, when the parents realized that it was difficult to save it, what was the best way at this time?

For adults, this situation is easy to have during the confused period of life. I have come into contact with a lot of adults who have Internet addictions or other addictions, and their vitality has not found the right connection and projection point. For children, they may not get enough attention, they don't get enough energy from their parents and the environment, and children have not yet formed a deep inner connection with their families, teachers, and classmates. Like a small tree, if it is not nourished by enough water around it, its roots have to stretch out to find water on its own. Any water, even poisonous water, will attract the roots to stretch over and suck.

How to get your child to quit Internet addiction? The most important point is the spiritual fullness of parents, which is the best energy that parents can give their children.

We can often see that many people work to the point of only one block of electricity like mobile phones, at this time may not even listen to things, see things are not very clear, and the heart is very irritable, can no longer accept new things, may still force themselves to do something, this is a common inertial overdraft behavior of modern people. If you are in this state with the child, it is only your body with the child, the mind is not with the child. According to the traditional view, your god and qi are in a very low state, and although you are with the child, your spirit qi does not shine on the child.

Today's children may be well nourished on the material level, but they are very deficient in the spiritual part. This part is a traditional Chinese view, as does Indian medicine. Modern psychology only mentions the need for adequate communication, but this needs to be based on the fact that the parents have sufficient mental energy to be effective. Many mothers will tell me that I communicate well with my child, and I will hold him every day and read to him. When many parents are with their children, they are actually thinking about other things, which is a common phenomenon, but most parents are not aware of it.

We adults can tolerate, or are used to being talked to and laughed with, but the mind is not in me, and we don't think it's an important issue because we're consciousness-led. But for the child, he is actually the leader of the soul, when the people around him if the heart is not in his place, parents, teachers, small partners, although they are together every day, but his heart is not really satisfied, there may be a sense of inner lack. This sense of lack will be manifested in various aspects, such as children's poor physical fitness, easy to catch colds; and children are afraid of the dark, unwilling to sleep alone, unwilling to leave their mothers, very dependent, or afraid of the surrounding environment and so on. These symptoms of modern medicine, the symptoms of Traditional Chinese medicine, or the symptoms of psychology are not the cause, but the result of lack of energy, and its cause needs to be paid great attention to.

Therefore, our parents first need to check whether they only have one block of electricity left when they are with their children. Is it that when you go to work, you have already exhausted your energy, and when you come home, you have no energy to care about your children anymore?

There is no energy to replenish. From the perspective of traditional Chinese medicine, the energy of this world can be divided into two kinds: one is social energy, and the other is natural energy. Social energy will make people impetuous, which is what Chinese medicine calls "open"; natural energy in addition to the open side, there is also a side that can make people calm down, which is what Chinese medicine calls "open".

I often advise parents to let their children go downstairs to play in the mud after school and not stay in the room all the time. If it is a weekend or holiday, you can take your children to the natural environment and live in the mountains. It's a habit, and behind the habit is a connection. When our body and mind are associated with a low-energy state of environment, or an environment, person, or thing that deprives you of energy, the final result is terrible, and it will slowly drain your energy.

When people are in a low-energy state, it is more difficult to jump out of a bad state. Just as it is not easy to recover from the dead state when our computer does not have enough memory, many adults cannot quit Internet addiction, or cannot quit certain habits of emotional patterns, also because their energy is too low.

The best "charging" mode is not to see a doctor, but to choose these directions:

First, stay with nature, but be there, turn off your hands, and slow down your mind.

Second, you have to be careful about choosing who you are with, because the energies interact with each other.

Third, it can be connected to things that awaken our human divinity, such as churches and temples, which is the external way for the weary person to return to the original point and gain energy.

Inner methods, such as meditation, standing on piles, or calligraphy, guqin, Confucianism. People who have written calligraphy, played the guqin, or played tai chi will have such an experience, he is not ultimately to express which posture, which tone is how accurate, in fact, he is in the process of expression, he can know whether he has the ability to concentrate in each of his movements, and how much this process is interfered with, these are training us to learn to go inward. This kind of training is a bit like the self-mind-body feedback therapy in psychology now. Feedback is when you know what state you are in.

These are the general directions, and everyone follows the train of thought and chooses for themselves. As a parent, the construction of fullness of spirit is very important. If parents have no concept of this part, or have not yet been accustomed to using it, it is easy to have problems in various parts of life, and the child's problems are only one of them.

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