In order to borrow 420,000 yuan for my husband's treatment, I wanted to find a debt, and my mother-in-law gave me a slap and said that I was a loser

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In the café, I carelessly stirred the coffee spoon, and the man across from me talked, and I should talk to him from time to time. This is the fifth, and everyone's opening remarks are similar.

Suddenly he said a point, I was very interested, just wanted to ask in detail, did not expect to be splashed in the face of water.

I screamed, groped and smoked a few pieces of paper to wipe my face, just wanted to come to the country to scold, but found that the person who threw me across the street was actually my mother-in-law.

I panicked, why is my mother-in-law here? How long has she been here? What did you hear? I knew that I had booked a private room at the beginning, so the probability of being discovered might be a little smaller.

My mother-in-law pointed at my nose and scolded: "You watery Yanghua woman!" Are you worthy of my son for doing this? ”

The ugliness of the family cannot be publicized, so I quickly blocked my mother-in-law with words: "Mom, why are you here, don't misunderstand, he is just an ordinary friend of mine." ”

My mother-in-law gave me an expression that you fooled. I smiled awkwardly and gestured with my eyes to the man to go quickly.

Seeing the man leave, the mother-in-law was just about to catch up and scold, but I stopped her: "Okay, Mom, this is a public place, don't you feel ashamed?" ”

Although the mother-in-law muttered: "You are not ashamed, what am I afraid of?" "But I still got up and left, because the movement just now has alarmed the customers in the store, and there are good people who are recording videos with their mobile phones."

Coming out of the café, my mother-in-law continued to count me down: "My son has only been dead for less than half a year, and you can't stand loneliness?" I tell you, you don't want to take my grandson to remarry, there is no door. ”

I sneered in my heart, my mother-in-law's mouth has always been black and can be said to be white, when her son was alive, she never saw her protect her son so much. Now that the person is gone, she has staged a mother-child relationship.

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Husband Wang Yong was diagnosed with cancer two years ago, and his condition was menacing, and he did not give us time to prepare.

As soon as I heard that it was cancer, I panicked instantly, my head buzzed, I wanted to think, and found that my brain was stirred into a paste. Everyone talks about cancer, and I'm no exception.

I complain about the injustice of God, I have a very good relationship with Wang Yong, we just walked to the first seven years of marriage, and we have not yet experienced seven years of itching, Wang Yong is sick.

Thinking back to the bits and pieces of life, I firmly resolved to give Wang Yongzhi. Now that medicine is so developed, it is not a little hopeless, in short, I have to try it.

After the operation time was determined, the doctor asked me to pay the fee.

A few thin bills of expenses, like a boulder crushing me breathlessly. I asked the doctor that the total cost during the operation was almost 200,000 yuan, and Wang Yong handed over rural cooperative medical treatment, and there was very little reimbursement here. The cost of chemotherapy in the later stage depends on the situation.

So much money, just thinking about it makes me sad. Originally, we had more than 100,000 savings in our hands, but Wang Yong joined the donkey meat fire shop and lost it. I had no money so I had to borrow it, and finally I had enough to pay for the operation.

The operation process was relatively smooth, and Wang Yong did two more chemotherapy treatments in the next few months, which was quite effective.

This year, I didn't go to work much, my mother-in-law was older and went to bed, yelling and tired, most of the time I was taking care of Wang Yong. Watching Wang Yong get better and better, I am willing to be tired.

It's just that I wasn't happy for a few days, Wang Yong's cancer cells spread.

Re-operation, there is still more than 100,000 needs, the doctor said that the patient's chemotherapy tolerance is relatively weak, the probability of cure is relatively low, let's consider it. I blurted out, of course continue.

But the mother-in-law hesitated, looking at Wang Yong's situation, isn't it obvious that he is throwing money into it? Even if this time is successful, it is still a big expense in the later stage. We borrowed more than 300,000 yuan and spent it, carrying so much debt, how should we live in the future?

In fact, I also know that cancer cells have spread, and re-treatment is just delaying time. But I didn't expect this to be able to come out of my mother-in-law's mouth, and my heart was not worth it for Wang Yong, and my mother gave up on him.

But I can't give up, I still want to fight for it. I managed to borrow another hundred thousand, but in the end I couldn't save Wang Yong.

To be honest, if I were a bystander, my mother-in-law, I would understand this. But when it comes to myself, I still have complaints about my mother-in-law.

At that time, the mother-in-law was so cruel to Wang Yong, and now this painting is not made for the living people to see?

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My mother-in-law thought it was too ugly for me to speak: "What is called for the living to see?" My son is gone, how can I not be sad? That's my son, and I just don't want him to continue to suffer. You are a widow, you have not even passed the filial piety period, you are not at home and widowed, and you have run out to meet a foreign man privately, which is simply a disgrace to our royal family. ”

Although it is already spring, but the spring cold is still very cold, I do not want to stand with my mother-in-law in the wind outlet to speak quickly, directly take a taxi to prepare to leave.

I didn't expect my mother-in-law to have sharper legs and feet than me, and as soon as I opened the car door, she whizzed into the car.

I didn't want to sit with my mother-in-law, so I just pulled open the co-pilot's car door and sat in.

It happened to be the Qingming Festival holiday, and messages about funerals were playing on the radio in the car. The mother-in-law and the driver talked about the funeral and the funeral of her son Wang Yong.

Every word of my mother-in-law's words was like a heavy hammer, smashing heavily on my heart. My mood, which had just calmed down during this time, was disrupted again.

I had planned to have a funeral with Jane. The mother-in-law did not agree, and said that the funeral should be done in a big way to be auspicious.

At that time, I was still immersed in grief, unable to extricate myself, not in the mood to argue with my mother-in-law, thinking about doing it. When Wang Yong was alive, the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was not harmonious, and he often had headaches, and I could not let him die or live in peace.

People around whispered about the funeral, saying that now people's brains are powerful, and the things are really complete, there are cars, computers, and mobile phones, so that the people below are not lonely. After listening to this, I felt a little comforted in my heart.

I was dumbfounded at checkout, I wanted twenty thousand. When my mother-in-law said it before, I thought it was only three thousand and two thousand, but it didn't matter, I didn't expect to ask for twenty thousand.

We still have money in our hands, and the money we borrowed for Wang Yong's treatment has been spent.

The mother-in-law rolled her three white eyes and said, "There is no bargaining for this kind of thing, it is all a price, everything is done, and there is no money." Even if you borrow, you have to pay the money first. ”

So the scenery of other people is what I have paid for by adding twenty thousand debts.

Thinking of this, I glanced back at my mother-in-law and told her to shut up, and if she said anything more, I would throw her down.

Maybe my eyes were a little fierce, shocking my mother-in-law. Or maybe the mother-in-law thinks of the 20,000 debts and feels that there is some reason for the loss. Or maybe the mother-in-law thought of Wang Yong, she felt guilty, the funeral was so beautiful, it was not a kind of compensation. Anyway she was shut.

Arguing with my mother-in-law, I rarely win the time. It is rare for the mother-in-law to be so obedient this time. But I didn't feel a little happy at this time, with so much debt, how can I pay it back?

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In order to pay off my debts, I want to make money in every way. The company understands my difficulties and is willing to assign me more work, so that I will have more achievements.

The more work, the more overtime. I consulted with my mother-in-law and asked her to help me pick up the child so that I could work overtime with peace of mind. But the mother-in-law said that she was old, her legs and feet were inconvenient, and if she bumped on the road, it was me who suffered in the end. So let me think of another way.

I am far married, and my mother's family can't count on it, but fortunately I have friends who are willing to help me with this.

One morning in mid-June, my mother-in-law called me and said that the next day was her birthday, and she planned to hold a birthday party, which was also a thank you to the relatives and friends who helped us during this time.

It is time to thank them, when Wang Yong was ill, relatives and friends have helped a lot, I also support, do it. Because they are all relatives of their own family, they do it at home, and it is still lively.

The mother-in-law also proposed that the meal should be purchased by me, and it could not be ordered from the restaurant, and she was not used to eating when the restaurant was ordered.

In fact, even if my mother-in-law doesn't say it, I will do it myself, because I don't have any money. If it weren't for saving money, I really wouldn't want to do it myself. For so many years, whenever there is a dinner party at home, I have cooked, and it has long been enough.

My mother-in-law's birthday is on the weekend, the day is just dark, I went to the market, buy seafood to go early to fresh, the key is cheap. When I came back from the market, it was not yet eight o'clock.

Fortunately, I have experience so that I don't get caught up. At eleven o'clock, I have prepared all the hard dishes, and there are still a few vegetarian dishes left.

My mother-in-law has counted down all kinds of people since I saw me, one moment I think I came late, one moment I think my meat is cut in the wrong direction, and the next moment I think that fish is not good to buy, I should buy carp, I should not buy grass carp.

All the time, relatives and friends have come one after another, I did not say a word, why should I be so quick.

The weather was nice and the temperature was right, so I set the table in the yard so that it would be more spacious to sit.

The second aunt praised my craftsmanship and progressed, and the aunt Next door praised the mother-in-law for being blessed, having a good daughter-in-law, and the atmosphere at the dinner table was quite harmonious.

My mood has also improved a lot.

Everyone was eating happily, when suddenly there was a noise at the door, and I looked back and was stunned. I didn't even notice that the meat on the chopsticks fell on my clothes.

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There were three or four people standing at the door, led by Wang Yong's colleague Liu Qiang, and I greeted him with a busy smile: "Brother Liu, what wind has blown you here, come, come in and have a drink." ”

Liu Qiang circled around the table: "Oh, the little day is very good, so rich." Then he paused and continued, "There is money to eat big fish and meat, and there is no money to pay us back." Younger sister, when my brother needed help, I didn't say anything and paid for it. Some time ago, it was difficult to consider you, and I didn't have the good sense to go to the door to urge, just today is a good day, you look at the money to return to the brother a few. ”

I coughed twice in embarrassment, and the sky that had been clear just now had suddenly turned cloudy. I was just busy in the kitchen, sweating, and at this time a gust of wind blew through, and I felt cold.

My mother-in-law stepped forward and whispered to me, "How much is this owed?" ”

When she heard the amount owed, she looked at me in disbelief: "How much?! ”

I repeated: "420,000." ”

My mother-in-law screamed, slapped me, pointed at me and scolded: "So much?! You loser. At the beginning, I said that I would not be cured, you did not listen, I wanted to be cured, and now I owe so much money, what do we take back? I have an old bone, I don't have a penny in my hand, this money is borrowed by you, then think of your own way. ”

After the mother-in-law finished speaking, the people around her talked non-stop. When Wang Yong just died, her mother-in-law trumpeted to the outside world: Originally, she insisted on treating, but I was afraid of spending money, so I let her son leave like this.

I don't know what mother-in-law's purpose is, but in the eyes of the uninformed, my explanation is so pale and weak.

But familiar people are not stupid, if this is the case, how can my mother-in-law give up with me? But the idea is the idea, no one has taken it to the surface to say, but now that the mother-in-law has admitted it herself, things are different.

The mother-in-law saw the situation, and her face was a little hanging. Everyone said that although I borrowed this money, it was always for her son to treat her illness, and it was reasonable that I should not bear it alone. After all these years, I am a person, and everyone knows it.

The mother-in-law looked at the crowd of melon eaters around her, and rubbed her hands in a hurry, and she had no idea for a while.

I went to my mother-in-law and said, "Mom, I have a way, I just don't know if it's appropriate." ”

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I know that this idea is the mother-in-law's life-saving straw, and she will definitely agree. Sure enough, my mother-in-law grabbed my hand: "What idea?" ”

I said, "Or we'll sell the house." ”

At that time, the money was urgent, and it was too late to sell the house, so I had to borrow it first.

The mother-in-law originally did not want to agree, but it seems that the people are fierce, have IOUs in their hands, and pay off debts, which is natural.

Besides, it is not a secret that we have a house, so much money, there is no other way to raise it except to sell it. The mother-in-law had to nod her head in agreement.

When Wang Yong was ill, I planned to sell the house, because I didn't have a real estate certificate at that time, so I couldn't sell it. We have been buying the house for five years, but the developer has changed in the middle, and the property certificate has not been able to be processed.

After doing it, my mother-in-law still did not agree to sell the house, she felt that the money was owed by me, and I should make money to repay it myself. The house belonged to her old Wang's family, and even if it had my name on it, it had nothing to do with me.

The house was bought after I got married to Wang Yong and belonged to the joint property of the husband and wife, and I had the right to dispose of it. But at that time, the mother-in-law gave a down payment of 30,000 yuan, and the mother-in-law had a son of Wang Yong, and it was involved in the inheritance issue, which was very troublesome. If she knew I had sold it privately, she would have upset me.

So I let them go to my mother-in-law's birthday party and ask for money. The mother-in-law also wants a face, and in front of so many people, it is not good to make too much trouble.

I found a real estate agent and asked him to sell it to me as soon as possible.

The real estate agent I was looking for was the man in the café. He was inexplicably scolded by his mother-in-law, and to apologize, I gave him the order. He was also quite clever and did not show his stuffing in front of his mother-in-law.

In the end, the house sold 720,000, 110 square meters of house, it is reasonable to say that it should be higher, because of the urgent use, can only be sold at a low price, enough to repay the debt. I listed with my mother-in-law that the balance of the mortgage was 250,000, and the debt to others was 420,000, and there was less than 70,000 left.

Debt-free is light, the debt is paid off, but we still have to live.

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Although, the law does not stipulate whether a daughter-in-law needs to support her mother-in-law. But she's always my son's grandmother, and I don't want to go too far.

I found a job in the east of the city, the salary is good, but it is a little far from home. I don't feel comfortable leaving my son in the care of my mother-in-law, but I don't want to live with her.

So I found a nursing home for my mother-in-law so that she could enjoy her old age in peace.

In fact, I have not only 70,000 in my hand, but also 300,000 insurance claims. The insurance was bought for Him by Wang Yong before he died, and the beneficiary was me. The mother-in-law did not know when I bought it. It is precisely because of insurance that I dare to give Wang Yongzhi so firmly.

When I was in the hospital, I wanted to talk to my mother-in-law, but she was in too much of a hurry, and before I could say anything urgently, she left. The mother-in-law in the back rarely came to the hospital, and even if she came, she left in a hurry, and I didn't even have a chance to speak.

My mother-in-law's attitude towards Wang Yong made me a little chilly, so I gambled and never told her.

After thinking about it for a long time, before leaving, I still told my mother-in-law that I took out 150,000 yuan as my mother-in-law's pension fee. Pay 30,000 a year upfront and renew automatically when it matures later. And tell her that every month I have time to come and see her with my children. With 150,000 left, I plan to keep it for my son as an education fund.

When Wang Yonggang died, I wanted to do a filial piety for him.

My mother-in-law was so noisy all day that I had to move away. But wherever my mother-in-law treats me well, I will stay by my mother-in-law's side, give her a pension, and let her live a more comfortable life in her later years.

But my mother-in-law's approach forced me to have no way out at all, and if I continued to stay there, it was estimated that there would be no bones left, so I had to send her to a nursing home.

If it weren't for my mother-in-law, I wouldn't have been able to leave so freely.

Therefore, it is better to be a person really not to be too excessive, or to leave some room for each other.

My mother-in-law finally obeyed my arrangement, and she had no objection to the money.

I rented a house in the east of the city, and my new life was quickly on track, and everything was moving in the direction I wanted.

On the day I moved to a new house, friends came to celebrate my new life. I packed up and had a drink with my friends.

My goal now is to make good money, keep my son, and live our little life.