"Having children is all selfish desires, not merit"
Filial piety should also be divided into who parents move around decently, and those who are not qualified will hide away
Parents don't have a choice, but partners still have a choice.
is worthy of being a big lady, as a mother, she can still say such sober words in the world.
People of the older generation say that raising children prevents old age.
It can be seen that in their hearts, giving birth to children is a selfish desire. Nowadays, most ordinary couples in society have children, just to prevent no one from caring after they get old, which is irrefutable. Or if you have a rich child, you want to inherit your parents' generation or the family business, in short, it will not be completely out of love. If you are really so selfless, there will be no hurtful words like "how can I raise a ...... like you" from parents.
Often low pay thinks about high returns, high pay will only be worse, having a child in the eyes of some people is an investment, some people don't admit that this is also a fact, but you subconsciously don't want to admit it.
Those parents say that they are selfless and don't ask for anything in return, and if you don't reciprocate, try and see what they look like.
For example, some people think that after their son gets married, his salary is given to another woman, and his mother-in-law thinks that his son is raising children for others. Some people even think that raising a daughter is so big that they give it to someone as a daughter-in-law for nothing, so it is natural to include the parenting expenses over the years in the bride price list.
In this way, the two families are calculating and calculating, and it is the younger generation of children who suffer. If you want to live your own life behind closed doors, it will naturally become a luxury.
Of course, there are also people who disagree with such a statement, and most of these people are parents.
They don't know why they want to have dolls. When people ask her why she wants to have a baby, it's nothing more than those few answers, because when she is old, what can she ......do if she doesn't get old. You ask her what is the relationship between parents and children? Many people can't say it, and they will only sing to the doll about how hard they work, and pay a lot of money to give birth to her and raise her.
In the hit "Chenghuan Ji" a while ago, Liu Wanyu, who has been at the bottom all the time, is such a suffocating mother.
She pinned all her visions on Cheng Huan, hoped that her children would be on her knees, that she could accompany her for a lifetime, obedient for a lifetime, and the most important thing was that she could take herself to live in a spacious room, bring endless wealth to herself, and be by her side for a lifetime.
She said that all her hopes were pressed on Chenghuan.
So, but when Mai Chenghuan broke out, when she didn't want to be a doll anymore, she began to say, what's the use of raising a daughter for 30 years, I gave birth to you and raised you for you to study, that's how you treat me?
Some people always say that there are always people on the Internet who are provoking confrontation between parents and children, is there a possibility that there is a contradiction in the first place? There are certainly no perfect parents in the world, and complaining about our parents does not mean that we are ungrateful and do not love our parents, on the contrary, it is because we care too much that we are extremely miserable.
In fact, most of the peers have a similar upbringing, and parents may only be able to do this, and what can indeed be changed is always only themselves, and the rest will be created by themselves, and love themselves in the way they wanted when they were children.
A netizen said: Or I knew that he was just a passerby, so I just ignored it. But how are you going to make me completely ignore these behaviors that go against my own feelings when I can't completely "black" you? Your emotions are very important, but what about me? I do my best to repay you and love you, but I just can't be intimate with you. In fact, most people who say that their parents are not good will only dare to talk to people they don't know on the Internet. It's not what to do when you turn your head, there's no way to get rid of it completely, and you can't say anything about it. Hurt is hurt, I remember your kindness to me, I haven't forgotten, but this is not the same thing as you hurting me.
Any relationship is not just the effort of one of the parties, it is the result of mutual respect, understanding and understanding.
If you haven't given your child the experience of love, don't blame your child for keeping his distance from himself. Because for them to come to the book, how is this not an option to maintain the relationship?
If it weren't for this relationship, I'm afraid that they would be full of thorns, and they would be able to boldly fight back against anyone who hurts them in this way.
People are really strange creatures, they used to be hungry and worried about their livelihood when they couldn't get enough clothes, but now they torture each other when they are full and clothed, and everyone is unhappy.