How to reason with your mother, your game can not be suspended? Please don't clash head-on, think differently

Text ▎ A little bit of understanding one or two

"It's time to eat! Not yet! Mom shouted at the house with the last dish.

You, who are fighting in a group, have no time to respond.

"Eat! Didn't hear that? "Mom is on the table, her expression is beginning to be serious, and Dad already feels that things are not good.

"I'm not done yet!" Eat first. You responded helplessly.

"Play after eating, will you die?" I finally say five numbers! ”

People under the eaves can not bow their heads, you are angry pit teammates computer hang up, or dead teammates with mobile phones to walk to the dinner table. You're greeted by Mom's Storm!

We young people, or adults who play games, know that for instant online games, especially competitive games.

It is impossible to pause, do not dare to go to the toilet, and hold back.

Here the players who play single-player games will naturally feel superior! The ones that they dazzle. Stand-alone console games are this good, say pause on pause, say eat on eat, directly save on it.

But sometimes we play games, not just for the sake of playing games, but for social activities. Since this is social, it will reflect character. Pit strangers are fine, although extremely affecting the gaming experience of others.

But if you play with your classmates and friends, say hang up the machine, say pit daddy is pit daddy, that's not good! Look up and don't look down. What to do? On the one hand, there is the mother who has the absolute right to speak in the family, and on the other hand, there are good brothers and sisters in the school class.

It's time to teach you how to negotiate with your mom!

Please don't clash head-on, learn to think differently

In any case, when your parents call you, the first thing to be sure of is that they are in trouble. It's okay and I can't keep nagging you!

Either ask you to eat or ask you to help. So what if you're playing a game? No matter what you say, one thing to make sure is that you don't clash head-on.

After all, how does that sentence say, never quarrel with your mother, you can't win! Even if you are reasoning, they will argue to the end with a sentence: Wow, the wings are hard, dare to resist ah! Is it easy for me to give birth to you and raise you?

Don't argue, don't clash, don't argue. There is no contradiction that cannot be solved, playing a game, this small thing, it is not difficult to solve. First analyze the reasons, there is a misunderstanding.

Reason with your mom, your game can't be paused. There are still ways!

As the saying goes, if you can't fight, you can join. Isn't it okay to take your mom and play?

Don't you say, I really tried it. Of course, the game I played mom can't play, too test operation, can't get on the hand. But what is the most common entertainment activity of the parents' generation?

Isn't it the national essence of playing mahjong? In the past, it was all offline playing machine hemp, after the outbreak of the epidemic, my mother learned online mahjong. The years of being locked up at home can be fought from early to late, and it is really "blood war to the end"!

During that time, I was not less "dominated" by words. When my mother played games and played mahjong, my mother's hands and eyes could not be separated from the mobile phone, and the result was that I was called over.

The pain is only short-lived, and the good days are just around the corner! She has the handle, and I'll play the game in the future, and then you'll understand. Don't do to others what you don't want! You play mahjong, I don't interfere. I play the game, you don't interfere.

The game is innocent and tries to let go

It's just that parents manage their children to play games, basically the children have not finished the college entrance examination.

Because they are not allowed to play the game itself, let alone call you something, and you are still in the game.

In the eyes of many parents, the game is the culprit of their children's poor academic performance! This pot, the game does not back. The game is innocent, and there are more people who play games with good grades.

We parents should think more about why children are addicted to games, why not play something else? The game is fun, but I believe that many people will have a sense of emptiness after playing the game, the emptiness brought by the virtual world.

No matter how good the game is, it will eventually come back to reality! So what should parents do? Try to let go.

Tell the child to eat without agreeing, then the parents will eat their own, the meal is cold do not care, the meal is gone, do not feel pain.

Since the game is so fun, eating less is not a big deal. You have to play, I play with you, play with tasks.

If you don't play to any level, don't eat or sleep. You said your kids would really play non-stop, no! No matter how fun the game is, beyond entertainment to become a task, it will be played.

I would also like to say that some games are "drugs" that make children addicted. Especially those mobile games, under the great temptation, children do not log in every day and do not play a hand, they will be itchy.

You have to admit that every big game company specializes in the study of psychology, and even more to study the consumer psychology of minors.

Why should there be a policy on the protection of minors in online games, which can only be boarded three days a week, one hour a day. Think about it! Without this restriction, the child will only be more deeply immersed in the virtual world. One time, two money.

A little bit of a message

I sincerely recommend that parents do not give their children mobile phones.

If your child wants to play games, he can choose to play the game machine with his child.

Can pause not to say, many console games, can puzzle the brain, but also promote parent-child relationship.

What's more, it won't be addictive! The game is a double-edged sword, play well, the child is smarter.

Today's Topic:

Do you all play video games as a family? Mobile phone or game console!

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