After marriage, people will have the intention of wanting children, but in terms of the gender of children, people who used to think old will want a son.
Because at that time, people thought that only sons could accompany them to grow old, and daughters marrying out were equivalent to outsiders.
With the passage of time, people's concepts have also changed a lot, basically most people now, will think that it is better to have girls than boys, for fathers, daughters are their own intimate little cotton jacket, in fact, both men and women are good, are their own treasures, we should be treated equally.
However, in the past, people were affected by old ideas, resulting in many people wanting to know the gender of the child in their womb when they were pregnant, and even some people, when they found out that the child in their womb was not a boy, would choose not to have a child directly, which was too cruel.
But such behavior was very common at that time, in addition, there are families because the woman has been unable to produce boys, his husband under the pressure of parents, choose to abandon the original wife, and then choose another person to give birth, until there are boys, similar to this situation in that era is not uncommon.
For women in the past, if they did not have a boy after marriage, they would be looked down upon by their husband's family.
Even if you almost lost your life in the process of giving birth in the first child, after recovery, as long as your first child is a girl, then you must continue to be born.
And we will also find that in that era, the idea of son preference, in the treatment of men and women, the difference is very large, basically a family, as long as there is something good, will be assigned to boys first.
Even if the boy is poorly educated, he will not give up, but will spend money to support, while the girl is different, and eventually can only be sent to work to earn money to support the family.
But now people's minds have become enlightened, in the aspect of son preference, there have been a lot of changes, the previous life of the daughter will feel very sad, feel that it is a money loser, and now people are different, not only feel that having a daughter is a kind of luck, but also feel that the pressure in the future is not so great.
Because hospitals now prohibit checking the sex of the fetus, many parents do not know the true gender of the child until the moment of the child's birth.
After pregnancy, they will be particularly curious about the gender of the child in their womb, and even some people will guess according to their reaction to pregnancy, but these speculations do not confirm the gender of the child.
But in any case, as long as you wait until the moment the child is born, you can know the gender of the child in your womb from the nurse, and a father is anxiously waiting for his wife at the door of the delivery room, and his wife is now giving birth in the delivery room.
When his wife gave birth to a child, the doctor would arrange for the nurse to leave the delivery room to inform the mother's family of the gender of the child, and the father, after learning that his wife had given birth to a daughter, the whole person jumped up happily, and the excited look seemed very happy.
And this father, the reason why he is so happy, is because his first child is a son, so he has always wanted a daughter, did not expect that his wife really gave birth to a daughter in the second child, completed his wish, so after learning that his wife gave birth to a daughter, he felt very happy.
From the father who learned that his daughter was born, he showed that he was happy, it can be seen that this father has always wanted a daughter, but when his wife was pregnant, because he could not know the gender of the fetus, he always held the mentality of expectation, but he did not expect that his dream came true at once, and when he wanted to achieve it, he would naturally feel very happy.
Compared with the old thinking of people in the past, people now prefer to have daughters, because daughters are born better than boys, and daughters are still daddy's little cotton jackets, which is very pleasing to dads, I believe that after this father has a daughter, in the future, the family will have both children and daughters, and the family will live a happy and happy life from then on.
In fact, both boys and girls are good, as long as the child grows up healthy, as a parent will feel happy and happy, here also wish the father's child, healthy and happy growth in the future.