Chen Meimei (pseudonym), a 21-year-old college student, forced her parents to have a paternity test with her because she felt she was not her parents' child.
There are several main reasons to question children who are not parents
The first reason why Chen Meili questioned that she was not biological was her appearance. Chen Meili thinks she is beautiful, but her parents are very ordinary. A family of five, only she was yellow-haired, the others were not.
The second problem is that Chen Meimei's parents are unable to support her to go to college. Not only did they support themselves in college, they also bought a house. How could an incompetent peasant couple make this money, it must have been secretly given to them by her biological parents.
The third point is that her parents often beat and scolded themselves. If they were their own parents, how could they beat and scold themselves so often? In summary, Chen Meili feels that her parents are another person, perhaps a rich person, who has lost herself for various reasons, and if she finds her rich parents, she can live a rich life.
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Ms. Tang, Chen's beautiful mother, explained the child's problem.
Chen's beautiful mother, Ms. Tang, interpreted the child's suspicions in such a way, first said that the money to support the child to go to college and buy a house is the hard work of the two families, in order to better give the child a better living condition, the two are not afraid of hardships, and the money earned is not willing to spend, all spent on the child.
For Chen Meili's "accusation" that her parents scolded and beat her, Ms. Tang expressed that this child is not reassuring when she is small, the bigger she is, the more she does not understand things, she learns badly with others, she does not go home at night, and she often wears exposed clothing to drink, where there is a bit of a girl's appearance. Chen Meili also wears makeup every day, she thinks that the makeup is very beautiful, but in Ms. Tang's eyes, it is like a ghost, and she also wears clothes with exposed navel eyes, Ms. Tang as a simple peasant woman, she sees the far-fetched way of the child dressed, and it is not like a girl who has no problem dressing up, so she often nags the child. Mother and daughter are also because of this often quarrel, sometimes Ms. Tang is upset when she sees it, why she gave birth to such a child, the mud can not support the wall, this college is also white, not only did not learn fine, but more and more arbitrary, anxious Ms. Tang sometimes because of hatred of iron not steel hit the child twice.
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Forced to have no choice but to choose DNA identification
Chen Meimei's heart has planted seeds since then, she feels that she is not born of her parents, she has another father and mother, and she must be a rich person, she is like a downcast "princess", just need DNA identification to prove that she is not born of her parents, and then force Ms. Tang to find her own rich parents, then the rich parents will undoubtedly not let themselves suffer, will definitely assign themselves a comfortable job, just play, give a salary, they don't need to work so hard, just eat, drink and have fun. Chen Meili has been forcing her mother to do DNA identification. If the mother did not do DNA identification, she would kill her mother. Since the mother did not want to live a rich life, the whole family would not have a peaceful life.
She also told her mother that if her mother told her whereabouts of her birth parents, when she found her birth parents, when she mixed up, the money would definitely come back to repay her parents.
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Ms. Tang did not agree to her daughter's request at first. She didn't know how to prove to her daughter that she was her biological mother. Chen Meili saw that her mother did not agree to her request, so she was very angry, so she slammed the door and went outside to rent a room, not going home at all. So Ms. Tang was forced to agree to do DNA identification. Ms. Tang agreed to do DNA identification with her daughter. Needless to say, Chen Meili was naturally very happy. Felt like she was one step closer to her biological parents. Ms. Tang didn't want to do that. She didn't think there was any need to spend the money unjustly, so she cried and begged her daughter not to do it. Chen Meili saw that her mother repented, very angry, seeing her mother's appearance, she was very resistant, so she loudly reprimanded her mother, "What do you cry, what is good to cry ~~~".
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Ms. Tang finally agreed to do DNA identification, but Chen Meimei's sister also followed her mother. After the DNA identification was over, the mother missed home, but Chen Meili did not let her mother go back, let her mother wait for the result together, and when she saw that her mother did not pay attention to her, Chen Meili and her mother moved and also pinched her mother's neck. At this time, the sister who came with her mother could not look at it, and was very angry at Chen Meimei's unreasonable behavior, and the sister, who had always been well-behaved and sensible, was furious at this time, seeing that her sister had become so stubborn, it was really unbearable, slapped her sister hard, and then quickly accompanied her mother out of the hospital.
The appraisal results actually do not need to look at all, outsiders can see that Chen Meili is actually a little more like the mother, but the mother is old, Chen Meili is younger, but the appearance can not be said to be exactly the same, but there is a station, you just do not do the identification, outsiders can also see that in fact, this is a mother and daughter.
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The farce is over, and the days have to go on
Chen's beautiful farce is over, her dream of just eating, drinking and having fun is shattered, the people who look down on her are actually her parents, how to face her parents after that, how to live with her parents?
However, as a parent, the child has made a big mistake and will be forgiven, Ms. Tang showed that Chen Meili has always been the daughter she loves with her life, this door has always been open for her, usually drink less outside, remember to go home.
Dogs are not poor, children are not ugly mothers, this saying has been passed down for thousands of years, the grace of parenting is greater than the sky, the parents who give their own lives, even if they are wronged, they must let their children eat and wear warm, and work hard to raise themselves to adults, how great is it, only owed to parents in a lifetime, how can there still be a girl like Chen Meili?
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Chen Meili often becomes like that, in fact, it is inseparable from the original family education, from the incident, we can also feel that although the parents have poor living conditions, they have chosen to wronged themselves, but also to create a good living environment for their children, which is from the selfless dedication of parents, it is impossible to buy how much money. However, it neglects the management method to educate the child, overly pampers the child, does not clearly emphasize the child's wrong behavior, does not guide the child to the right path, but allows the child to accompany the development trend of temper.
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Can't eat bitterly, but indulge in eating, drinking and having fun, and developing this bad habit is actually related to the education of the original family. I only hope that the farce of this DNA identification will make Chen Meimei wake up.
There is nothing wrong with pursuing a perfect and prosperous life, but all perfect and happy life depends on one's own two-handed labor.