Source: Uncle Wuming
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"Children's Language" has clouds:
Love is full of pain, hurt me, who knows my parents?
We are always experiencing a lot of reunions and separations, and the world is cold, and we understand how deep our parents' love for us really is.
In the human world, only the love of parents for their children is a kind of nature, and there is no need to reciprocate or repay.
Even after the parents are old, the biggest heartache is not that the children are not filial piety, but that they can no longer pay.
01, for children, there is a weak heart, the most painful
I want to accompany you on the long road of life, I want to shield you from the wind and rain in front of you, I don't want you to face the thorns of life, I don't want you to taste the pain of the years.
Parents love their children and want to give him everything, and they don't want him to experience the same hardships as themselves.
But now how many parents can only look at the child's distant back and cry bitterly.
Even if you are sick, you have to comfort your children, you are fine, you are not alone, everything is safe.
Han Yu has a poem that describes his mother like this:
The white-headed old mother covered the door and cried, and the sleeves of the shirt were broken.
When the child leaves his parents in desperation, the father and mother, in addition to crying bitterly, only discouraged!
In fact, what parents are most afraid of is that they become the burden of their children when they are old, but at the same time they are more afraid that their children will leave themselves mercilessly.
02, to parents, filial piety in time, do not delay
The Song of Persuasion and Filial Piety says:
Man is not filial to his relatives, but is not as good as grass and wood.
Parents are not enough to give everything they want for their children.
Don't dislike parents who are sometimes powerless, people's abilities are limited, and so are parents.
Every ordinary parent, when it comes to parenting his or her children, is great.
When I was a child, I was fed a soup of food; when I grew up, I was worried about my stomach.
Parents love their children, from the beginning of the child's fall to the end of their own life.
How many old fathers and mothers, at the age of retirement, are still working hard?
It is not that there is not enough money for the elderly, but the children who give in to each other, do not regard themselves as a burden, and they can live better for the rest of their lives.
The son wants to raise, but the relatives do not wait, be kind to the parents!
Parents are here, life still has a place to come, parents go, life is only the way home!
03, to give parents a happy old age, is the biggest career in life
Yan Rujing once said in "Strange Story":
Parents are the only audience members of the first half of a child's life, and children are the only audience members of their parents' second half of life.
What is happiness for parents?
It is that he is old, and even his ears cannot hear, but he has children around, talking loudly with himself sentence after sentence.
What is success for children?
It is to rely on their own efforts, not to give their parents a life of fine clothes and food, but to let them spend the rest of their lives happily and take more time to accompany them.
Lao She said:
People, even if they live to be eighty or ninety years old, have a mother and be a little more or less childish. If you lose your loving mother, you are like a flower in a bottle, although it is still fragrant, but it loses its roots.
When our parents are there, we will always be treasures in the palms of their hands, and they are loved by them.
Parents are gone, who is still when you are a child? Take you as a treasure?
One day you will understand that with parents still alive and a home to return to, we are the happiest people in the world.
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