Children are the hope of a family, especially for parents, the birth of children is like the arrival of angels, bringing them not only heavy responsibilities, but also full of happiness. The child's innocent and cute face and ignorant and clear eyes can melt his heart. But as the child grows up, this simple cuteness will gradually change, and it will become more and more difficult for parents to bring their children. I have a lot of people around me who work hard to raise my kids. As a result, not only did he not understand filial piety, but he also made his parents angry all day long. Are these children here to collect debts? Of course, some children are obedient and filial, and their parents are blessed. Therefore, whether the child comes to pay off the debt or to collect the debt depends on these performances.
The first manifestation: after the baby is born
We all know that when a baby is born, the louder the better. However, if the child also keeps crying in the life, such a child is usually depressed. As they grow, they may also be grumpy. If they don't do it well, they will make them cry. Not listening to anyone, not respecting their parents, such children are here to collect debts. However, some children are smart and don't cry or make trouble. Sometimes they only cry when they are hungry. Such children grow up to be carefree and sensible, and they come to pay off their debts.
The second manifestation: the child's behavior when the parents are tired
When parents are tired, children who come to repay the favor know how to share with their parents, or pass by, or express their gratitude verbally. These are all manifestations of children's love for their parents and are easy to understand. What will a debt collector do? Seeing that their parents are tired, they don't say anything and even complain about their parents. They don't know about the hardships of their parents, and they take their love for granted. Once a parent does this, no matter what you do for him, he will complain. When such a child grows up, it is difficult to be filial to his parents, let alone support them.
Children's behavior is influenced to some extent by their own personality, and sometimes it is inevitable to do wrong things. However, with proper parenting, it is easy to correct. Parents can guide their children slowly and start with small things. Let children be grateful to their parents, understand their parents, and respect their parents. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to their own behavior, set an example for their children, and let their children know the hardships and filial piety of their parents.