After having children in the family, parents, especially mothers, will pay most attention to taking care of the children's diet and living, and every family wants to give the best to the children.
Parents are the nurturers and guides of life on the road of children's growth, and the family is the main environment for children's growth. The words and deeds of parents and the atmosphere of the family environment are all factors that affect the growth of children.
Many women have a very hard life after becoming a mother, to take care of the baby, take care of the housework, some mothers also have to work, busy every day, there is not much leisure to take care of the family's living environment and groom themselves. Ignoring their own image and living environment, becoming sloppy, the room is messy, it seems that it is just a mess at home, the appearance is no longer exquisite, in fact, the harm to the growth of children is unimaginable.
There is a public welfare video called "Orphanage" in Finland, which tells about 4 different families, different parents' images, and different family environments have different effects on children. The short film shows a clip of the current situation of the four families, allowing the children to watch.
In the first family, the father is reading and studying, and the mother is cleaning the room, each busy with his own business, and the occasional interaction is full of love.
In the second family, the parents ate at the table, talking and laughing, and from time to time they clipped dishes to each other. In the third family, the husband and wife pushed the baby with a stroller, and the family of three was under the cherry blossom tree, and the scene was romantic and warm. In the fourth family, Mom and Dad had a fierce argument, and the house was messy.
The children's reactions in front of the four families also varied greatly, and when they saw the first three families and their parents, the children's eyes shone with happiness and their smiles were very happy. The messy environment of the fourth family and the performance of the parents make the light in the eyes of the children disappear immediately.
In just a few minutes of short videos, everyone is silent after watching, a good family environment and positive parents affect the growth of children and even a lifetime.
Messy homes and scruffy mothers raise these kinds of children
Imagine that the dirty and messy family environment, like living in the "garbage heap", brings people the feeling must not be happy, and the habits passed on by a scruffy mother to the child are also not paying attention to the image, which not only affects the living habits but also affects the formation of personality.
1, the child is sloppy
From the birth of the baby to the process of growing up, the mother is the closest person to him and the person who spends the most time together, and some full-time mothers are basically inseparable from the child. Mother's words and deeds and habits are the basis for children's imitation, if the mother does not trim the edges, do not pay attention to the management of their own image and life every day is very sloppy, whether at home or go out to buy vegetables or even pick up children to school, always pajamas, shawls, needless to say makeup, basic clean and tidy do not pay attention.
Some mothers always feel that there is no time, the home hygiene is not cleaned up, dirty and messy, and the children are subtly affected and do not care about their own image. Without a sense of cleanliness and tidyness and tidying up the room, and without even paying attention to hygiene, the ability to be independent will not be too high.
In this era of paying attention to appearance, even if there is no high value, the most basic neat and clean should be guaranteed, and a sloppy person who does not pay attention to the image will make people feel uncomfortable and unwelcome on any occasion. After entering the society, the image is their business card, and sloppy people will lose points on the image and will lose a lot of opportunities.
2. Lack of aesthetic ability
People's aesthetic ability and living environment, the people around them have a certain relationship, if you live in a dirty family from childhood, parents do not pay attention to the image, the child can not contact the beauty, dirty mess remains in his subconscious.
Appreciation ability and aesthetic ability decline, everyone is willing to appreciate beautiful things, but it is the sloppy people who have been in contact, and the dirty environment has blinded the eyes of aesthetics.
3. Lack of self-confidence
Children enter kindergartens or schools and have more opportunities to get along with children, and everyone likes clean and tidy children, while staying away from or laughing at children who do not pay attention to hygiene and do not love cleanliness. Living in a messy family, and then meeting a sloppy mother, the child has no consciousness to take care of his own image, is ridiculed by his classmates, lacks self-confidence, and even has an inferiority complex.
4. Lack of self-care ability
In the family, doing housework and cleaning up the house is not only a clean family environment, but also an education for children to act. Mothers who love to clean up the house affect the child will also become a diligent, love to clean up people, mothers in the housework when the child to participate in the work within their ability, let him increase life skills, but also exercise self-care ability.
If you don't pay attention to the mother who cleans up the house, the child also loses the opportunity to exercise, has poor life skills, and has poor ability to take care of himself.
Do these few things well, change the image, and improve the family environment
First of all, we must pay attention to cleaning up the home, improving the living environment, classifying and placing items, and cleaning frequently. The neat and clean environment is not only comfortable to live in, but also comfortable in the mood, but also to mobilize the enthusiasm of children to do housework.
Doing more housework helps the child develop life skills, enhances his ability to take care of himself, and enhances his sense of responsibility.
Secondly, parents pay attention to their own image, the image of parents has a deep impact on the child's heart, especially the image of the mother, clean and exquisite mother makes the child more confident.
No matter how busy, mothers should also pay attention to dressing, pay attention to external image, clothing is not necessary to pursue luxury, but to be clean and tidy, so that people look decent and comfortable.
Finally, pass on the awareness of children's love of cleanliness, love to clean up, and pay attention to the image, so that children can develop habits from an early age.
In the early hours of the morning, mom came to nag:
Every parent wants to cultivate a child who is excellent in all aspects, but the cultivation of children is not only in terms of learning cultural knowledge, but also in terms of daily life habits and external images. To educate children is to teach by example, not only verbal discipline, but also to make their own behavior example guidance.
The mother's living habits affect the child's habits, and there is also a non-negligible impact on his aesthetic ability. Regardless of the family conditions, cleaning up the home and paying attention to the image is an attitude to life and life.
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