At the moment, the second child has been released.
A couple, who can have a second child with confidence, will not only not be punished, but will also be supported.
In this case, many people always think that a child is too lonely, and it would be a good thing to be able to give the child a younger brother or sister and two children as companions.
Indeed, if you can, two children grow up together and support each other, it will indeed be a good thing.
Speaking of which, after marriage, both men and women should consider having a second child, and many parents actually have such a wish.
However, even if the parents support it, even if the environment is very favorable, in fact, it should still be cautious in this matter.
It is not to say that you should not have a second child, but that you must think clearly and do not give birth easily.
To have a good relationship with each other, very harmonious.
Many couples, each other's feelings are obviously particularly bad, not only quarrels, often will also move, feel that life can not go on, obviously is such a bad situation, but still have a second child.
After giving birth to a second child, the relationship not only did not ease, but even just became more rigid, and the life was miserable.
In the years to come, either the family atmosphere is very poor, and they are still together, or they directly choose divorce, so that the child becomes a single-parent family, and cannot give the child a complete growth environment.
When the relationship between husband and wife is so bad, it is true that they can have children, but for each other, it will not be a good thing, the children will not get the nourishment they deserve, and adults will only become more unfree and complain.
Seriously, if the feelings are not good, then it is best not to have a second child, which is not a good thing.
There is and only a good relationship with each other, do not need to be perfect, but also happy, can live in harmony and beauty, are willing to live well, should consider having another child after giving birth to a child.
In this way, each other will really welcome this little life, and they will be able to give their children good love in the future.
It will give the child a good family, and will let the child have a good childhood and be able to grow up in care.
There is a certain material basis that can be supported.
In the previous generation, many people were only responsible for birth, and after birth, they could feed themselves, and they would only raise them very casually.
At that time, raising a child was relatively simple, as long as there was food and clothing, and it did not cost too much money.
But nowadays, the times are different, from having a child to having a child, and then to raising a child, no matter what stage, often need a lot of money as a guarantee.
For example, after having a child, all kinds of examinations, all kinds of clothing after having a child, milk powder, the child's early education, and later learning all kinds of things, as well as the room that the child needs, the house that needs to grow up, that really needs a lot of money.
Without money, it will really only be particularly difficult, and it will make people feel desperate easily.
Since the reality is like this, then, if each other's economic conditions are too bad, it is very far-fetched to support themselves, to support each other, to be responsible for a child, it is best not to have a second child casually.
Without money, even if you have a second child, the days of constraints will not be a good thing for the child.
Giving birth to a child, it is never born, it is over, since it is born, it is necessary to take responsibility for the new life, let the child eat and wear warm, let the child receive a better education, so that the child can not always worry about money, live a very hard life.
Just someone to bring, can guarantee growth.
Of course, with children, this is also a very real problem.
The child comes to this world, but it is only a very small existence, which needs to be carefully fed by someone, and it needs someone to accompany it all the time, so that the child can gradually grow up and begin to take care of himself.
If you say that the first child has been raised very hard, there is no one to help her bring it, and the woman has a hard time surviving, can devote herself to the cause, help the family to share, this situation, it is not suitable to have a second child casually.
Having another child would take a woman for years, and in the blink of an eye, it would be difficult for a woman to do anything more.
Too many families, women need to have their own careers, men do not have the way to take on the burden of supporting the family alone, but also need women to earn some money, take on part of the responsibility.
Since this is the case, there is no one else to help, can only bear each other, do not easily go to birth, it is better to raise the first child.
Give children a good companionship, but also in the time of companionship, teach children well, teach children some principles of being a person, so that children can have both moral integrity and ability, at least can become a righteous and kind adult.
Compared with having more children, teaching children well, so that children can become mature, at least do not go crooked, which is more important, and it is really good for children.
Remember, in the matter of the second child, we must be cautious.
Don't give birth easily, unless the feelings of each other are OK, unless the material conditions can keep up, unless someone has a child.
A child is a life, and having a child is never the end, but only the beginning.
If you bring your child into this world, it will only make him grow up in a crippled family, always worrying about three meals, often only yourself, it is better not to give birth.
That kind of life, it will really only be very hard, children are hard, adults also feel hard.
Having the confidence to be a good parent, willing to be responsible for your children no matter what, then naturally, despite being born well.
Willing to be responsible, but also able to be responsible, will be a qualified parent, but also really good for the child.
Text/Tan Meng
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