My relative had a relationship with a neighbor man when he was fifty years old, and her husband committed suicide in shame and shame.
At that time, her eldest daughter was married, the second girl was working in other places, and her son was in high school.
My relatives sold the house at a low price and moved with the old man of the neighbor.
However, she was still worried about her son, although his son was very resistant, she still bought a second-hand house for her son, the eldest daughter has not recognized her, the second daughter was not present at the time, and she has been in contact.
Later, the children got married one after another, and she and the old man of the neighbor had a relatively smooth life. The turning point of the matter was that at the age of seventy-three, she had a serious illness, and she went to the second girl and her son to discuss and prepare to come back, and her son asked: "You say come back, where do you go back, my eldest sister does not recognize you, my second sister and my mother-in-law are together, my house is so small, the maid sleeps in the living room, you come back, where do you go back?" ”
She cried: "I don't want to drag others down, I have a disease and I have to go home." ”
Finally, it was clear that the old man of the neighbor was too damaged: "You have children and daughters, you can't let me give you a pension to send you to the end, I can't take care of myself now, you are waiting for the smell there." ”
In fact, my relatives in addition to stealing the neighbor old man, provoking their own old man to take a life is the most faceless thing, the rest of her doing is ok, although her eldest daughter ignores her, she gives her granddaughter annual money is still very heavy, the second son-in-law died of illness, she also helped the second daughter to pull the child, the son is weak, she asks for medical treatment everywhere, burning incense and chanting Buddha is also a red city.
She is also loyal to the old man of the neighbor, helping her two sons with their eldest grandchildren and helping others to watch the children. After years of cooking and laundry (she retired at the age of fifty), she used her retirement salary to retire the head, and the old man's salary to raise sons and grandchildren. The old man is good-looking, and my relatives also have a heart for beauty, I don't know who gave the set to whom, this set has been set on each other for more than twenty years.
If only the old man complained and disliked it could bear it, what my relatives couldn't stand was that their sons were more resolute than Lao Tzu and had already contacted the ambulance to send her home.
The second wrong thing that relatives do should be that they did not get a license, living together for more than twenty years, the two actually did not have a license, there was no way to find the community community, the eldest daughter reported to the police, the police came no way: "This is a family dispute, let's negotiate and solve it." ”
People say that the blind doll God takes care of it, and it is true that my relatives were pushed around by both sides, and at that time, the families of both sides really hoped that she was gone for the best ending.
It was just that she came back to life slowly and methodically, and when the spring flowers bloomed, she began to cook and wash her own business again, and the children of both sides stopped pretending that nothing had happened.
It's just that my relatives have scars in their hearts, she only works and can't pay, the milk that the old man drinks every day is gone, the old man's bowl of lamb steamed buns every day is gone, the old man's grandson can't ask for money with her, and the old man is angry.
The old man cursed when he was angry, and the scolding was to the point: "Hurry up, roll how far to roll, how far to roll." ”
My relatives didn't speak either, and when the old man scolded, she went out to hide for a while, and then came back to do whatever she wanted, the old man was eight years older than her, and the eighty-year-old man said that if he was sick, he was sick. The old man began to have swollen feet and legs, then gasped for breath, then lay on the bed and could not get off the ground, and then urinated and defecated and needed to be handled by my relatives.
It seems that during that time, the family relations between the two sides were relatively good, the second girl went to her once a week to help wash and wash the shabu, she also secretly gave the second girl a little compensation, the neighbor old man lying on the bed had a very bright brain, and he knew it but did not break it.
The old man lay on the bed for three years, my relatives dug up and dug up urine to serve for three years, the old lady was also a little selfish in her heart, after all, she was impossible to marry again at this age, she could not go back to her son's house and could not go to her daughter's house, her only hope was that the old man went ahead, and she could live until death.
The old man still has a conscience, people say that the birds will die and their songs are also mourning, people will die, their words are also good, the old man said: "You have lived with me for nearly thirty years, I have nothing left for you, I bought you a cemetery next to me, although not together are also neighbors, I am this skill, people are old and can't help people." ”
The old lady listened to the bitterness in her heart, decades of love are still neighbors, how fate to repair this opportunity.
The old lady called on her daughter to let her go to see the cemetery, and the son and girl also rushed to the old man's house, and the old man's son spoke: "The two cemeteries are not a small number, I take the big head, you have a small head, I think it is appropriate for me to take you to see, it is not appropriate to see it is useless." ”
The old lady's old face was beaten faceless, and she cried and said to the old man: "After decades with you, a burial place has not fallen, do you have a conscience?" ”
Of course, the embarrassment is the two children, and what is even more embarrassing is the son and woman of my relatives, the second girl cried the heart disease, the son pulled up the second sister and left.
The old man said, "Take your mother with you when you go." ”
The old lady suddenly, very suddenly, fell to her knees with a fluttering voice: "I was wrong, I was wrong, I should not be angry with you at this time!" ”
The old man said, "Hurry up, I can't see if you roll farther away, and I can go away with peace of mind." ”
The old man lived for more than three months, and after three months the old man was finally gone. The sons and daughters of the two sides sat down to negotiate, the old man lived in a house that was not large, it was calculated according to the rent of one thousand yuan a month, the two sons and daughters each paid half, the old lady had a pension, she paid five hundred, and the remaining five hundred and two sons and daughters shared two hundred and five equally.
These things were told to us by the eldest daughter, who spoke calmly and calmly, and after she finished speaking, she gritted her teeth and said, "The sins she has done." ”
Later, the second daughter told us: "I really can't stand my mother, I cook her a meal every other day, do a hygiene, she scolded me for only taking money and not working, scolding the ugly can't stand it." A few years ago, she helped me poorly, in the past few years, my daughter has gone to work, I have never asked for her money again, she has slipped all the money from my eldest sister, my eldest sister ignored her, she still begged her, I worked and was scolded. ”
The elderly partner to live a life is to take what they need, when the body is good, it needs physiological comfort, emotional irrigation, how to spare people in the years, when one party has physical problems, how good the partner will also choose to protect himself. After all, the age is older, the body is not controlled and the heart is weak, and there is the idea of packaging and returning the goods if there is a problem. Once people have ideas, ideas will make people admit death and run to ideas.
Life comes from the womb of the mother, returns to the underground, and all kinds of calculations and useless ideas when alive will eventually end.
It's just that the method of ending is different.
Fortunately, my relatives have their own pension, retain what little decency remains, and live in the old man's house.
There are many problems in living together, each has children, the hearts of both sides are torn in half, the hearts are not together for a long time, from running to parting is only a matter of time.
It is really necessary to have a plan to live a life with a partner, how to live when you are healthy, how to live when you are old and sick, and have a plan to be guaranteed.
I think the most painful thing in life is to lose a lover, and what is lost is the companion that the lover meets.