I have always prided myself on being very attentive in the education of my children.
However, two events that have occurred in the recent period have made me realize the shortcomings and deficiencies in this regard.
One is that in the morning, when I meet a familiar child who does not take the initiative to say hello.
Sending the children to school in the morning, I met children who played very close in the elevator, although they were not classmates, but they were also from the same school, and they were familiar with each other.
But the child does not take the initiative to say hello, two people you look at me, I look at you, are not willing to say hello first.
It's about a person's courtesy and upbringing.
Treat people with courtesy
I seriously told my child afterwards that this was not right and that I should be polite to others.
When you meet a familiar child or a familiar adult, you should take the initiative to say hello.
It's not a question of whether you are shy or not, whether you are busy or not, but a question of one's upbringing.
The child understands, and after that, whether he meets a classmate or a familiar adult, he will politely take the initiative to greet him.
The emergence of such a problem has sounded a wake-up call for me.
The comprehensive quality of the child is accumulated bit by bit, so there are small problems and should be solved in time.
Small problems are easy to solve, but big problems are not something I can solve alone.
The child was sick and took leave for a while.
Give your child sick leave
I was busy paying attention to his health, and I ran this hospital for him to run that hospital.
Finally, on the day he was able to return to school smoothly, the homeroom teacher called me.
The homeroom teacher meant that during the time he was on leave, the exercise book he was supposed to do was not completed.
The homework of other students who took leave with him at the same time was made up, and he was missing.
To put it more seriously, I did not fulfill my mother's responsibility to educate him.
I began to hear that I was a little aggrieved in my heart, was it not enough to run east and west to see a child and prove it?
The child's homework, I also have timely reminders for him to do it! How did it become my responsibility?
I discussed this matter with my husband, who sincerely pointed out that neither of us had done enough, and the teacher also had her reasoning.
consult
I went to look at the child's exercise book, and it was true that during a period of illness and leave, the middle part of the exercise book was blank.
I reminded him to do his homework, but I didn't get the results into practice.
Did he finish it, did he do it right after he did it? Did he understand these lessons that he had fallen behind.
These issues are crucial.
Therefore, being a parent now is no more meticulous than before. Only by doing it with real care can the education of their children not lag behind others.
These two events were a wake-up call for me when it came to godchildren.
In ancient times, there are allusions such as "Mengmu Three Migrations", "Broken Machine Godson", "Painting Di Di Godson" and so on, which are also worthy of our reference and learning.
Education is no small matter, and the responsibility of parents should not be underestimated! Nothing is too big or too small, there is a long way to go!