Lead:
On the road of children's growth, you will find that what makes you feel happy from the bottom of your heart is as if there are only a few short moments: the child is born, the child will climb, will sit, the child will call mom and dad, can walk, the child will be a toddler... More often, it makes you feel anxious and angry.
Being a parent is not a worry in itself, every day when you wake up, you have to face various problems related to your child and pay attention to the "bad" things in your child. If there are problems all over the child, then there must be something wrong with you.
The flaws in parental education are reflected in the children!
When children are born, they are like a blank piece of paper, and the imprints of shortcomings and problems smeared later are all done by our parents, and the growth of children is traceable to parents...
So, what actions of parents lead to bad behavior in their children?
Your today is your child's tomorrow,
If you shout at your child today, don't blame him for calling you tomorrow;
You are not as good as others in training children today,
Don't blame him tomorrow for complaining that you are not as powerful as other people's parents;
If you demand perfection for your child everywhere, don't blame him for being inferior and cowardly;
If you don't have clear boundaries yourself, don't blame him for being irresponsible.
So
True education should be a practice,
It is the innocence, selflessness and agility of the child
Washed away the impetuous, utilitarian, arrogant psychological process of adulthood.
Good education,
It should be the parents through the child's mirror,
Constantly discovering oneself, correcting oneself, and excavating oneself,
And use the new me to set an example and example for the children.
We are in the process of education,
Met a better version of myself.
If your child likes to complain about everything, it is because you are always picky of him; if your child likes confrontation, it is because you are hostile and coercive to him; if your child does not speak to you, it is because you catch your child's words and turn over the old account. If your child is lazy and dependent, it's because you're doing and deciding too much for your child...
No one is a natural education master, nor is it born to be a parent, it does not matter if you make mistakes, the key is in the process of educating children, you can respect each other with your children, educate together, and grow together.
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