"Dear Child", starring Qin Hao and Ren Suxi, scored nearly 8 points in Douban.
But I didn't expect to receive praise at the same time, but actually criticized for excessive "betrayal anxiety".
After reading it, many people have become more "cautious" about married life.
So is there any betrayal anxiety?
Let's see what those viewers, especially the female audience, are really saying!
After a female audience member watched it, her view of marriage has been "reshaped".
She said no one ever told her what changes a mother would face, as well as the pain.
Including her mother, she was only urging marriage and did not inform her of these real problems.
And all this she witnessed in the play, Fang Yinuo, played by Ren Suxi, told her.
As the heroine, Fang Yinuo was originally an urban beauty.
She dresses up exquisitely every day to commute to work, full of energy and vitality.
But then she began to remove her makeup in front of the camera, and the completely plain appearance made the melasma on her face clear.
The next shot falls on her stomach, where she holds up a bulging pregnant belly...
She looked in the mirror, left and right, and finally couldn't help but cry.
After becoming pregnant, she found herself in a very poor state of being, and all this was only for her to bear.
Then the audience member posted a picture of his pregnancy.
In fact, she didn't exaggerate at all, because her stomach was covered with stretch marks.
Until she gave birth to the child, a year later, these stretch marks were not removed.
She said those stretch marks were not only ugly, but also tight and made you feel incredibly itchy.
After that, the stretch marks turned white, looking like snakes molting their own skin.
Such a description is a feeling she has personally experienced, and it can be said that it is not at all uncomfortable.
And if you think you have stretch marks on your stomach, you're dead wrong...
The female audience member said that if your weight soars too much during pregnancy, then the thighs will also grow wrinkles.
They covered the roots of the woman's thighs and looked really shocking.
But in addition to these practical problems, after giving birth, the subsequent plot also makes her feel very empathetic.
She saw that Fang Yinuo in the play, after several consecutive feedings in the middle of the night, had a dry mouth.
At this time, Fang Yinuo's husband was asleep next to the pillow, but how to call how to call could not move, let the husband pour himself a glass of water.
Fang Yinuo finally said almost eagerly: "Husband, pour a glass of water, your throat is not good." ”
Humble enough to ask his husband for a cup of water, but his husband slept deeply.
Until sister-in-law Yue took the initiative to come over and hand her a glass of water, Fang Yinuo broke through and broke into tears...
This scene made me a male audience, and I was also deeply touched to see it.
For the care of children, if it only falls on the woman, it is too difficult.
Sleep is not good, normal drinking a glass of water, have become less easy.
Because everything should be based on children, children are comfortable, and adults dare to be comfortable.
But in the play, Xiao Lu, played by Qin Hao, is really an unacceptable husband.
When his wife was facing childbirth, because of a phone call from the company, Xiao Luren left.
And this time, I was stunned that I would not be in the hospital, and I would drink beer at home and sleep until dawn.
By the time he woke up, his wife Fang Yinuo had already given birth to a child, and there was no companionship from her husband at all.
Even the nurse felt that this husband was really unqualified...
However, Fang Yinuo wanted to explain that her husband had gone to send her placenta to her mother-in-law.
Because I am afraid of my mother-in-law's second son, I want to eat this thing.
It's an eye-opening plot, I have to say, bloody and magical, but real.
It can only be said that on the road to marriage, the difficult side of women has been filmed.
This is not betrayal of anxiety, but face to face the facts.
It is also for all unmarried women to have a kind of "rehearsal" before entering marriage, which I think is very meaningful.