Although, the appearance value is not the most important thing for a person. But in this era of looking at faces, if you look good and have temperament, then in the case of equal ability conditions, good-looking people will be more popular.
And, first impressions matter. If you are polite, polite, and talkative, plus a handsome and good-looking face. Then I think that no matter who sees this person, the first impression will be particularly good.
Therefore, if your own ability is online and you have the blessing of appearance, then this person will get more opportunities.
We also want our children to look good. Even if it is not a surprise, at least it must not be left behind. After all, if the child looks too sorry, he himself will have inferiority among his classmates.
But we will find that some children, when they were young, looked good, with fleshy faces and big watery eyes. But as he grew up, he became more and more "ugly".
What's going on?
One: Good genes are important
Half of a child's appearance is determined by the genes of the parents. After all, no matter how old a child is, he can't escape heredity.
Generally speaking, if the parents are good-looking, the child is no different. And if the parents look average, then the child may be ordinary.
But do you know how children generally inherit the characteristics of their parents?
I read that the parenting encyclopedia says that the characteristics of parents that are more obvious can be passed on to children, while the recessive characteristics are most likely not inherited.
For example, if one parent has a single eyelid and the other is a double eyelid, the child will most likely inherit the double eyelid. Like this, there are also high nose bridges, long eyelashes, big eyes, etc.
If one parent has white skin and the other has dark skin, the child's skin color will be synthesized and yellowish.
Therefore, if you want your child to have a high appearance, parents still have to have good conditions for themselves, so that they can give their children a good foundation.
Two: Why do some children "grow up beautiful and ugly when they are young"?
Some children inherit the good genes of their parents, so they look good and different from an early age. But why, the older they get, the uglier they get?
This is because, related to the following factors, the child can not escape the "ugly" law, parents to see if your child is in the middle?
●Use too many eyes
If we were to describe a person who has "Aura". Then our evaluation must be inseparable from his eyes. You see how clear his eyes are, how beautiful, how godly he is.
But nowadays too many children, because of homework and playing with electronic products, cause too much use of the eyes. They had brought up their glasses early on, and their astigmatized, dry eyes looked unfocused.
A pair of watery eyes turned into empty and godless eyes, and the child's appearance naturally fell a lot.
●Hunchback
There are also some children who usually do not develop good living habits. For example, walking with shoulders shrugged, the whole person looks temperamental. When reading a book, I like to bow my chest, and such a posture may lead to a hunchback.
No matter how good the face is, it will also be pulled across by this temperament.
● Do not pay attention to appearance
In addition to the child's appearance online, the external performance is also very important.
If you are gluttonous, usually exercise less, and your body is too fat, the good-looking facial features will also be buried in the extra meat.
In addition, there are some living habits that will also affect the appearance, such as poor clothing, no hygiene, casual scolding and so on.
The above factors will affect the child's appearance. We usually pay more attention not to make children more and more "ugly".
Three: how to cultivate good habits
In fact, we usually pay attention to the appearance of the child, not limited to his face, but more to let them cultivate a good living habit. For example, the following.
★ Protect your eyesight
If the child is heavy with homework, then no matter how busy, remember to take a regular break to relax the tired eyes. You can look out into the distance or apply hot water to your eyes.
Also, limit the amount of time your child spends looking at your phone. Do not exceed a certain amount of time each day to avoid hurting the eyes.
Usually when reading books, you should pay attention to sitting posture, and the eyes are separated from the books at a certain distance. Usually walk with your head held high and your back not bowed.
In this way, the child can have a pair of bright and clear eyes, but also maintain a good image, temperament.
★ Eat a sensible diet
I have a child next to me, the family is spoiled badly, what he wants to eat, the family immediately bought it, and there is no control. Only in the first grade, he already weighed more than 80 pounds. Although he has white skin and big eyes, he is always called ugly because he is too fat.
Moreover, the fat in childhood is really difficult to lose later. Being too obese may also cause children to have low self-esteem.
Therefore, parents should usually pay attention to their children's diet, try to be nutritionally balanced, reasonable with reasonable collocation, and do not take snacks as the main meal. Usually, you can also exercise more to increase your spirit.
In this way, the child not only has a strong body, but also has a temperamental appearance.
★ Cultivate child connotations
Appearance is important, but the most important thing is to have a connotative mind. In this way, children can rely on strength to win what they want in the future.
Usually take your child to read more books, develop hobbies and interests, and cultivate his self-confidence.
A child with self-confidence and connotation can exude beauty from the inside out.
What do you think?
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