At that time, Zheng Momo, a high-achieving student at Xiamen University, fell in love with the Indian man Singh, did not hesitate to break with his parents, married India as a "concubine", and also advised his girlfriend to marry there to enjoy happiness.
After marrying, it was very miserable!
Zheng Momo was admitted to the Finance Department of Xiamen University, as a key university in 985, her parents said that even if she did not eat or drink, she would save money to let her complete her studies.
After all, it is a key university, as long as you successfully get a graduation certificate, you don't have to worry about finding a good job, so for the sake of your daughter's future, your parents are not even willing to eat meat.
After graduation, she said that she wanted to study abroad, and her parents said that we did not have the money to support you, but we would try our best, so we borrowed a lot of money from relatives.
However, life abroad gradually changed her outlook on life and marriage, and her personality became stubborn, which was completely different from when she was at home.
In 2008, at a banquet, she met the Indian boy Singh, a foreign country, and the two exchanged in English, and Singh had a sweet mouth, which made her very happy.
Gradually, she had a good feeling for Singer, and foreign men were more straightforward, and what mountain alliance sea oath and sea dry stone rotten set, all used.
And Zheng Momo also fell in love, desperately following this man, but this transnational love affair must be approved by his parents.
When I returned to China to see my parents, my parents were very happy, but when I saw that this future son-in-law was an Indian boy, I was very opposed, and my parents did not want her to marry far away: "We are old, how difficult it should be to see you in the future?" ”
Zheng Momo said, "I will often return to China to see you, and you will always be my parents." ”
Her parents worked hard to cultivate her into a talent, but as soon as she turned around, she married abroad, and the two elders were really too painful.
The father said, "In their country, even if a man marries 3 wives, it is legal, are you going to marry him as a concubine?" Can't our good boys in the country get married? ”
As she spoke, the mother burst into tears, and the daughter who was trained by smashing pots and selling iron was going to be a concubine for someone, who could accept it?
But Zheng Momo said: I heard Singh say that India is developing very well, it is very convenient, it is not at all like you think, I will not marry him.
The mother and father threw out the killer: If you have to marry such a man, we will be without your daughter in the future.
Anyway, you blew them out.
However, the man's parents also objected, saying that if you marry a daughter-in-law back to China, you can't communicate in language and have different living habits, so you should consider it.
However, the personality was determined to marry, so he took Zheng Momo to India to complete the marriage, and when he got off the plane, Zheng Momo was completely dumbfounded.
This airport is not only backward, the highways and infrastructure are not as good as ordinary cities in China, and it is very inconvenient.
The most important thing is that as soon as I returned home, I found that my husband had a big wife and several children.
My husband said, "Actually, I love you, and I don't mean to hide from you, because this situation is normal for us, and I hope you can accept it." ”
In this way, the raw rice is cooked to maturity, what else can I do, after marrying the mother-in-law, and the eldest sister-in-law's family, do not want to see her, nor talk to her.
And this will be a concubine is not good, but also have to abide by the various rules given by the eldest wife, although hungry, but the "beautiful and happy" life is already out of reach.
What was even more unacceptable to her was eating.
Her Husband and family in India eat pilaf with their hands, and one hand is used to go to the toilet, and the other is used to eat, which makes her have no appetite at all, but in the local customs, the mother-in-law does not give her spoons and chopsticks at all.
And this kind of "depressed" life is very unconscious, polygamous family affairs are too much, parents say: "Already like this, you have a lot of days." ”
And the parents are already old, there is no one around to take care of, it is really too pitiful, do not listen to the old man, suffer losses in front of you.
Hu Jing, who is married to her Malaysian husband, said that the people there are similar to those in India, and the meal is strange.
Hu Jing and her husband participated in a mega event, because the activity time was relatively long, the two stayed together to eat lunch.
The lunch provided on the day was simple, a little curry, a little rice. Hu Jing was a little confused, because there was nothing else but this, neither a fork nor a spoon.
However, Hu Jing was very clever, she looked around and found that everyone was directly eating pilaf by hand.
It turned out that this was pilaf by hand, and Hu Jing felt very novel, and she also learned to eat it by grasping the rice with her hands.
After only two bites, Zhu Zhaoxiang patted her. Hu Jing looked up doubtfully and found that not only her husband, but also everyone else was looking at her, whispering while watching.
Hu Jing was very strange and asked her husband, what's wrong? Zhu Zhaoxiang said, you don't use your left hand, you have to eat with your right hand, and your left hand is used to wash PP.
So Hu Jing simply can't accept it, and Zheng Momo is the same, but after so many years, she is also used to it, it can be said that she has sacrificed a lot for love, as to whether it is worth it, it depends on the individual.
Netizens said: Her parents raised her so big, it is really painful for the second elder, in the end she did not get anything, and when she was sick, she did not get the care of her daughter. Teach a lesson to a good Chinese woman, think twice when things happen. Let them know: there is no regret medicine in the world.
But some netizens said: Singh is a high caste, may not be so miserable! As long as you can accept the local habits.
But isn't it fragrant in China? In the case of Yi Qing, Zheng Momo said: The situation here is too serious, and the door does not dare to go out.
That's the reality! If the domestic situation is better, eat Ma Ma Xiang, not to say that it is against transnational love, but to choose carefully, there are also people who are happy, this depends on the individual!
Parents do not want their daughters to marry far away, what can they do if they are wronged.
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