The older generation likes to choose one and end, a job until retirement, young people leave without a word is the norm;
The older generation is willing to repair and repair, the clothes are sewn and repaired to continue to wear, and the young people throw things away when they are broken, and change them if they are not pleasing to the eye;
The older generation is used to saving money, saving is their bottom line, young people love to consume, and the things they like must not wait.
Contemporary young people are always ridiculed as the "Beat Generation", in fact, they have found their own "top match" lifestyle compared to the "standard life".
I have heard the beautiful love story of the older generation, 30 years after the death of grandma, grandpa still has to peel off the egg white and egg yolk to eat when eating eggs, he said that grandma does not like to eat egg yolk.
I've seen older generations helping each other across the street, wrinkled hands clasped tightly, figures trembling but snuggling up to each other, that's the look of love.
The old days became slower, the cars, the horses, the mail were slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
The love of the older generation often needs an intermediary to lead the rope, see a few faces can be married, and then slowly run in after marriage, slowly become each other's dependence, accompanied by a lifetime, simple and pure.
According to official disclosures, the number of marriage registrations in 2020 totaled 8.1433 million pairs, a decrease of 1.13 million pairs compared with 2019, so far, the number of marriage registrations in the mainland has declined for 7 consecutive years.
Eating alone;
Go home alone;
A person sees a doctor;
A person visiting the supermarket;
A person swipes his phone.
……
One lives like a team.
For marriage, about love, the current situation of most young people is: no one asks me porridge to be warm, no one stands with me at dusk.
There is an insurmountable gap between the love of the older generation and the love of the young.
Why are there more and more single young people?
Colleagues take over: because they know what they want.
I think about the single young people around me:
Some people soak in the gym after work, pursuing a perfect abs figure;
Some people are constantly planning their careers and thinking about the road to making money and managing money;
Some people are obsessed with studying travel guides and are keen to see different scenery with friends.
They find the focus of their lives, only 24 hours a day, work, growth, travel, financial management, relatives, friends, etc. lined up to move forward, full of people.
Life is so crowded that young people have to cut out the complexity.
They know what they want, what they need to get, what heights they desire to reach, no space to cope with love, no energy to soothe each other's small emotions, no time to grow with each other.
Everything in life is worth trying, but love is a high-risk and low-return investment, you can't see the results, and you have to constantly consume yourself.
The second cup of milk tea is half priced, but buying a cup is obviously more economical; studying all the time will make people bald, but excessive indulgence will be bald faster; the money saved by the lover can make himself more confident in double 11.
Pleasing yourself is much more important than pleasing love.
A few years ago, I opened my mouth and closed my mouth to be a friend who "wanted to fall in love", and in recent years, I have changed like a person, and I have begun to immerse myself in the study of workplace rules, develop a side job, and pass the time by fitness and reading.
The turning point of change is a serious illness of a loved one.
She said that in the face of life, old age, illness and death, people are the most insignificant;
She said that the moment her loved ones were sent to the ICU, she understood the despair of insufficient balance;
She said that it is difficult to buy an inch of time, which is vividly reflected in the face of the god of death.
The hospital is always filled with the smell of formalin, and it is always filled with the taste of life and the world.
A few pieces of broken silver can relieve the world's sorrows.
We are all practical and will one day understand that love is not a necessity of life, money is.
Some people experience life and death, and understand that savings are the bottom of life;
Some people enjoy their time alone and understand that love is not a compulsory course in life;
Some people are hurt in a relationship and understand that it is better to love others than to love themselves.
Contemporary young people need 100% to live their own lives, 100% to please themselves, 100% to work hard to earn money, and only 50% love.
Love has always been the icing on the cake, not the charcoal in the snow.
On the road of transformation, happiness will unconsciously knock on the door.
Effervescent tablets placed in water, often ending the boiling reaction in just a few minutes;
Love from the beginning of the bubble to the boiling, from the boiling to the calm, there is also a time limit.
When love is absent, learn to live your own life. To live your own life is to fall in love with yourself, to treat yourself as your lover, and to spoil yourself.
Enough to pamper yourself, you can play with ease in the period of peace of love, do not suffer from gains and losses, do not mourn the spring and autumn.