As parents, they all hope that their children can become dragons and phoenixes, be able to get ahead, and break out of their own world.
But when the child really becomes productive, the parents will feel lost, and then they will find that although the child is out of work, he is not happy.
Uncle Wang had only one son in his family, and after the birth of the child, it was just in time for the family planning period, so he did not risk having a second child with a formal job.
At that time, his idea was that children were not more, but how to educate, even if there was only one child, it was a happy thing to be able to cultivate them into talents.
Indeed, under their careful cultivation, the child's performance in all aspects is excellent.
During the university, as a public student of the school, the son of Uncle Wang's family was sent to study at a foreign university, which made Uncle Wang feel very faceless, and everyone praised his children.
After graduating from college, the child stayed abroad to find a good job and also made a foreign girlfriend, so he dismissed his previous plan to return to China after graduation and decided to settle abroad.
After Learning of his son's decision, Uncle Wang suddenly had a very lost feeling.
But he said that he was very supportive of the child's choice, but in his heart, it was not as far as the child, because it meant that it would be difficult for him to meet the child.
When he saw that the other elderly people were surrounded by children and grandchildren, Uncle Wang could only chat with his son who was far away through video.
Especially sometimes he feels headaches and brain fever, and when he wants to go to the hospital and can't find anyone to accompany him, he deeply feels that he is not happy.
Some people say that this is a new type of filial piety, children in their own development at the same time, often neglect to accompany their parents, in the countryside is more obvious.
But since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have been dilemmas, if the child stays with the parents, the parents will feel that they are not out of the way, but after the child really goes away, the parents will be reluctant again.
For children, how should they be filial to their parents?
1. Communicate with parents more
Nowadays, in order to develop their careers, many young people will leave their hometowns to work in other places.
Whether they succeed or fail, they won't return home, which means they'll spend less and less time with their parents.
At this time, although children cannot accompany their parents at all times, they can maintain communication with their parents every day through WeChat and other means.
Even a brief talk about what happened that day and greeting the parents about their physical condition will make the parents feel satisfied.
2. Take time to go home to accompany you
If your child and their parents' homes are not far away, they may wish to drag their families with them to visit their parents on every weekend or holiday.
Sometimes it is not necessary to stay for a long time, but this intention is enough to make parents happy.
Of course, if the child and the parents live farther away, then it is naturally not realistic to go home every three to five.
However, if it is on a special day, or a holiday that should be reunited by the whole family, it is still recommended that the child can take time to go home, I believe it will definitely make the parents have a big surprise.
For parents in their later years, they often have no big requirements for their children, and only hope to meet with their children from time to time.
Regardless of whether the child has a career or not, we should not forget the education and care of our parents, and we must not put the word "filial piety" on our heads and do things that make their parents sad.