Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems are a headache, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are like natural enemies, are two opposites, most families, there are large or small mother-in-law contradictions, smart daughters-in-law will reconcile contradictions, find ways to eliminate contradictions in the invisible, for example, to the mother-in-law who has been single for many years to introduce an object.
When Xiaoye and her husband Zhigang fell in love, he knew that Zhigang was a child who grew up in a single family, his father left early, it was his mother who raised him as an adult, and he worked hard to provide him with college, Zhigang understood that his mother's difficulty was not easy, so he was extra filial to his mother. At home everything follows his mother, and his mother tells him to go east and he does not go west.
After getting married, my mother and Xiaoye Zhigang lived together, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was inevitable. Mother always feels that the son is snatched away by the daughter-in-law, she can not see the daughter-in-law wrapped around the son, do not like to see them kiss and warm together, especially hate the son to the daughter-in-law to bring water, add food, carry bags, take shoes, etc., as long as the mother sees the son doing this, the heart is uncomfortable and sour, how can the son he has worked so hard to raise, how can he carefully serve other women?
The mother was uncomfortable looking for the daughter-in-law's business, cold talk to the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law bought her clothes, she picked thorns, too ugly, too expensive, too old-fashioned, too cheap, bought her something to eat, she can still pick faults, bought sweets and said that she was expecting her to get diabetes, bought elbows and said that she had high blood pressure, in short, what the daughter-in-law did was wrong.
Daughter-in-law Xiaoye at first can understand the mother-in-law, think that she is a woman, pulling the child to grow up alone, it is indeed not easy, the mother-in-law has a strange temper, the mouth is mean to let her go more, but the mother-in-law has become more and more fierce, more and more excessive to herself, she is also a person, but also has a temper, so when the mother-in-law said her again, Xiaoye unceremoniously shook back!
The daughter-in-law, who has always been like a little sheep, will actually fight back, the mother-in-law will not do it, she can't talk about the daughter-in-law in a reasonable way, but she will cry two times and hang herself three times, the old man will cry, you will become unreasonable no matter how reasonable you are, Xiaoye is no longer able to speak the Tao, and she can't stand the mother-in-law crying and crying grievances!
Once the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a quarrel and a quarrel, the family will not be able to live in peace, every day either the mother-in-law cries or the daughter-in-law shed tears, Zhigang coaxed the mother and coaxed the wife, both ends of the anger, making him physically and mentally exhausted. It is not easy for his mother to raise fish herself, and his wife is also distressed by his grievances with him, but he can't fight between the two women, and the family of three is suffering together under the eaves.
Later, Xiaoye really couldn't stand this kind of daily quarrel life, moved back to her mother's house, and Zhigang separated herself, she was also uncomfortable, Zhigang was also remembering his wife at home, and after two days he also followed his wife to live in his father-in-law's house, the two were not happy for a few days, Zhigang's mother was at home looking for death and life to ask her son to come back to accompany her, Zhigang was reluctant to let his wife and rest assured that his mother could not rest assured, so he had to run at both ends.
If this continues, this day will not be able to pass! Xiaoye loves Zhigang, and Zhigang also loves his wife deeply, and they are separated by the big trouble of their mother, and they can't ignore it. Xiaoye was troubled, Zhigang also collapsed, the mother-in-law was uncomfortable, obviously they were all family, and there was no deep hatred, how could they get along like this?
The problem of no solution is finally solved, Xiaoye thinks about it, if you want to live a good life, you must first think about it from the perspective of your mother-in-law, your mother-in-law is actually a poor woman, she has no spiritual sustenance, she gives all her love to her son, her son is her whole world, she sacrificed herself for her son, she does not love herself nor her daughter-in-law, she always feels that her daughter-in-law is here to rob her son, and regards her daughter-in-law as a "love enemy", if she finds a companion for her mother-in-law and makes her body and mind dependent, is she not so free to interfere in her son's life?
Xiaoye told her husband that she wanted to find an old partner for her mother-in-law, Zhigang was very angry at first, and then she thought about it, she had a home, her mother was lonely for half a lifetime, and then finding an old partner for her was not necessarily a bad thing. Zhi Gang revealed this meaning to her mother, and her mother also began to resist, and later since seeing the blind date that Xiaoye arranged for her, her mind has changed.
Because Xiaoye introduced to her mother-in-law is not someone else, it is a uncle of Xiaoye's family, the old man is handsome, the pension is thousands of dollars a month, and the personality is cheerful and humorous, it is simply the "Diamond King Old Fifth" of the elderly, he is the old partner who died a few years ago, and the children are not around, so he wants to find a companion and spend his old age in peace.
Xiaoye's mother-in-law is also good-looking, can make a good dish, loves to be clean, and the old man will be in love at a glance. Needless to say, the two elderly people fell in love at first sight, goodbye and fell in love, and began a romantic twilight love, sunset red is also very beautiful! Not long after, the two old people moved in together, officially registered their marriage, and held a simple wedding ceremony, and Xiaoye's mother-in-law also learned from young people, taking wedding photos, wearing bridal clothes, and wearing wedding rings.
The woman has the nourishment of love, the mood is smooth, often smiles, she is no longer the mean and picky evil mother-in-law, the attitude towards Xiaoye's daughter-in-law is much better, and the daughter-in-law is satisfied with how she does it. Xiaoye this trick is really high! He and his husband can live a sweet and sweet world of two people, the mother-in-law is also very satisfied with today's life, the uncle is also grateful to Xiaoye for introducing him to a good old partner, it can be described as killing three birds with one stone, everyone is satisfied!