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As we all know, entertainment stars are the richest beings. Those stars at the top of the pyramid are not to be said. Even if it is an eighteen-line star, the money earned by a play may be beyond the reach of ordinary people in a lifetime. And those well-known stars will not be bad money, buying a house is a matter of minutes.
And a female star said in the show that she still can't afford to buy a house, the key is that she is not in a state of being without this person, from a well-known model on Taobao to entering the show business circle to make movies, she has now emerged, she is Zhang Ruonan. From the role of Gu Senxiang in "Sorrow Against the River", she was recognized by many netizens, and then the drama and advertising continued, and it is reasonable to say that according to the income of the entertainment industry, she could have bought a house long ago. Why did she say she couldn't afford a house?
According to her, she was born in a rural family in Wenzhou, the eldest daughter of the family, there are two younger sisters and a younger brother below, all the money she earns is used to support the family, and the younger brother is not yet married, and the family all depends on her to support. Her name is Zhang Ruonan, Nan used to be a male word, and the family just wants a boy.
Hey, watching this section where she says her family, it's really sad. It looks like an only daughter who was pampered by her parents and grew up in a wealthy family, and she did not expect to be born in a native family that favored sons and daughters, and experienced such a sad experience. It is also quite lamentable that under the glamorous appearance of female stars, there is also such a tragic life.
Son preference exists in most families
Although we now feel that we live in the 21st century, the era of equality, advocating equality between men and women. But back to reality, you will find that there is still a large market for son preference, especially in rural areas, this idea is deeply rooted, it is impossible to have no boys in the family, in order to have a boy, you can have several children.
And many girls in this family are actually like Zhang Ruonan, who have been required to take care of their brothers and take care of the family since they were young, and they have taken on the burden of the family early on themselves and taken the responsibility that should have been their parents to themselves. The point is that many patriarchal parents still feel that there is nothing wrong with their daughters, and they are accustomed to squeezing their daughters. Even he didn't want to fight, so he waited for his daughter to raise her son for herself and then raise herself. If the daughter is a little out of breath, it is even worse, and she has to suck her daughter's blood desperately.
The original family produced many daughters to become Voldemort
Many girls also know that raising their brother is the responsibility of their parents, not their own, and there is no need to take everything into their own hands. But they grew up in the original family that favored sons over daughters, and have been accustomed to that kind of family education and family environment since childhood, and they have also brainwashed themselves successfully, as girls, they should dedicate themselves to their brothers and families.
Therefore, many girls with unfair families have more contradictory personalities. Knowing that it is not right to be a brother and a demon, it is not fair to himself, but he can't get rid of it, and he hopes to get more recognition from his family through fudi's behavior, so as to improve his sense of existence. Few girls jump out in time, get rid of the control of the original family, and get a new life, which has to be said to be a very sad thing.
【Topic Discussion: Do you have girls who grew up in patriarchal families around you? 】
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