Tutoring children with homework is an unavoidable task for parents, and now it has become a pain in the hearts of many parents.
Children who usually look very smart and cute have changed their appearance when writing homework, either grinding and rubbing, dragging and dragging, or perfunctory, the homework is written in a mess, and there are always mistakes...
Looking at the way the children write homework, the parents are angry that their blood pressure rises, but they have no choice, so the humorous parents adapted the "Divine Comedy" "Lonely Brave" that the primary school students are familiar with, singing their own voices, which makes people can't help but be funny.
A mother sang to her son, "Every time I help you with your homework, I want to cry..."
Yes, the son raised the bar with his mother at every turn, and wrote that he did not know where to run.
The mother was angry and accused her son: "Write, look, I have the answer on my face..." Every word can hear the mother's mood of "hating iron is not steel".
There is also a father with the momentum of a broken boat, took over the "heavy responsibility" of tutoring homework, and sang to the child word by word: "Tutoring homework is like a battlefield, your mother makes you angry enough, today I come to tutor you, you better know each other ..."
However, after a battle of wits with the child, Dad had to admit: "Writing a homework can break my heart." ”
It seems that Dad finally understands why Mom lost, and this tutoring homework is really not something that ordinary people can do.
Another father mercilessly criticized his daughter in the lyrics: "Every day in school' 'waves', but dare to 'be tough' with your mother... Learn? Will it? Did you listen to the lecture in class..."
Netizens listened to this song "LoneLy Homework Edition", in addition to feeling funny, more or more of the infinite sympathy for parents, especially those who are also parents, there will be a taste of empathy.
The author also listened to a lot of "Lone Brave Homework Edition" and found that the lyrics exposed some common problems encountered by parents:
Children are inefficient in writing homework and take an infinitely longer time to complete
This situation has a lot to do with the child's lack of time concept. This kind of problem will not only be manifested in writing homework, but also in the child's usual life and learning, there may be procrastination, rubbing, and poor efficiency.
For this situation, many parents deal with it by chasing after the child and constantly urging, so that the child may be able to complete various tasks in time, but it has not changed the fundamental problem, and parents also have to pay more energy, and for a long time, it is inevitable that they will feel haggard.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's time concept and organization, and usually encourage children to arrange learning tasks by themselves.
For example, homework, children can first write the homework assigned by the teacher on the notepad neatly, and then sort according to the amount of homework, the difficulty, and then complete it in the order they like.
In this way, the child's mind will be very clear, he will know what he is doing, what he will do next, and he will not crash like a "headless fly".
Parents can also remind their children to estimate the completion time of each task, and the child will have a sense of urgency, can achieve self-supervision, and does not have to be bothered by parents.
Children have difficulty concentrating, and their thoughts are easy to "anchor"
On the one hand, this situation occurs because the child's concentration is poor and he cannot concentrate on homework for a long time; on the other hand, we must also consider whether the external environment interferes with the child, so that he cannot maintain concentration.
For example, some parents will ask their children "is the homework finished" every once in a while, which is actually a kind of interference, which will interrupt the child's thinking and bring some psychological pressure to the child.
Therefore, when children write homework, we should avoid artificial interference, do not frequently ask questions to children, and do not send food and drink, so as not to affect learning.
We should also pay attention to avoid making loud chatter, making phone calls, playing music, etc. around the child, and creating a quieter environment for the child is more conducive to achieving the realm of "concentration".
Of course, if the child's self-control is poor, we can not let it go, we may wish to read books around the child, which can have a subtle impact on the child.
Children do not listen carefully to lectures and have difficulty completing homework
The effect of classroom listening is a problem that parents tend to ignore, but it is actually very important.
Children who "desert" in class, miss important knowledge points, or do not have a clear grasp of certain concepts, will soon be reflected in the homework.
At this time, parents should pay attention to helping their children relive the key knowledge that the teacher has taught in class, and strive to make up for mistakes and omissions.
But this is not a "cure" method after all, the key is to cultivate children's good habits of listening carefully to lectures, and at the same time, we must do a good job in pre-class and post-class review, so as to gradually form a perfect knowledge structure and make the child's knowledge foundation more solid.
There are many problems when your child writes homework, what do you need to add, welcome to leave valuable comments in the comment area.