The interval between 0 and 3 years old in infants and young children is defined by WHO as a "window of opportunity" for a person's growth and development.
At the same time, from a physiological point of view, this is a critical period that determines the health of a person's life, this stage of good nutrition is the basis of infant physical growth and brain development, which will affect the baby's lifelong physical and neuropsychological potential to play; can reduce the risk of obesity, hypertension, coronary heart disease and diabetes and other chronic diseases in adulthood; but also correct the occurrence of malnutrition.
At the same time, this period is also the golden period for the baby and the parent to establish parent-child feelings, if the parents can not give the baby a good companion at this time, then the parent-child relationship between the baby and the parents will be somewhat estranged after the baby grows up. Some babies can't feel the warmth of affection, and they will become emotionally indifferent, and even more autistic and don't like to talk.
However, in this golden period of cultivating parent-child relationships, many parents will unconsciously ignore it.
Many new parents ignore parent-child feelings for most of the reasons: too busy at work, busy with mobile phone socializing, lazy....
Work is too busy to ignore, after having children for the material basis of the family to consider is definitely the need to earn money, the family's various expenses are needed to spend money, after the birth of the baby, eating and drinking Lasa is a lot of expenses, wait until the child goes to school, the expenditure on education also needs to spend money, so parents will always ignore the parent-child feelings between the child's job.
Today in the era of information explosion, we receive a lot of information through the mobile phone network every day, from the various information we receive in the WeChat group, to a variety of video software, all kinds of information fills our lives, parents are always involved in these, there is little time to carry out high-quality parent-child companionship for their children.
Lazy is also because really too tired too want to rest and relax, work is very tired after work really don't want to do anything anymore, after work just want to relax, many people just want to immerse themselves in their own world, look at WeChat brush videos, so there is little energy to play with children to promote feelings.
Many parents want to spend time with their children, but as long as they pick up the mobile phone, it is difficult to have time and energy to accompany their children.
So for infants and young children, how should parents establish a good parent-child relationship with their children?
1 Wear parent-child attire
Whether it is home clothes at home, or clothes for going out, you can try to choose some parent-child clothing, exactly the same as the child wears can have a natural sense of intimacy, can let the child experience the love of parents from the bottom of their hearts, which can also increase the child's dependence on parents, and instantly close the distance between parents and children.
2 Cultivate children's reading habits
If the child falls in love with reading, just holding the picture book can read for half a day, parents can also accompany the child to read more, cultivate the child's interest in reading. At the beginning, be patient, you can first accompany your child to read a picture book, parents can also hold a book by themselves, give a demonstration to the baby, and the baby reads a book for parents to read, which can also promote and the child's parent-child feelings.
3 Follow your child's train of thought
Many parents seem to spend a lot of time with their children, but in fact, a lot of companionship is ineffective. For example, parents accompany their children but have been brushing mobile phones, and children and parents do not communicate with each other, which is equivalent to ineffective companionship and does not play any role. The best thing to do is that parents should follow the child's thinking, even if the child's thinking is very imaginative, but also go into the child's heart and communicate with the child.
4 Spend your mind giving gifts to your child
It is true that many festivals now everyone will give gifts to their lovers, in fact, gifts do not matter how important, the heart is the most touching. The same is true for children, parents can prepare a surprise small gift for their children from time to time. It can be a beautiful dress, a good pen, or it can be a handicraft made by yourself, and the child will cherish these items more and look forward to their parents more while feeling surprised.
In fact, everyone knows that the relationship between children and parents is the most difficult to deal with, if the management is too strict, the child will have a rebellious psychology, and the management is too loose will harm the child. Therefore, if you want to have a good parent-child relationship with your child, the best golden training period is still in the child's infant and young age, so that the child will rely on adults, and have a sense of dependence and security.