Nowadays, many children have been exposed to mobile phones, computers and televisions since childhood, and more and more games are on the market.
But these electronic products are very detrimental to the healthy growth of children. Recently, a girl from a relative's family is now three years old.
Now his parents are also preparing for his kindergarten, but they find that their children are a little slow to respond.
Mom and Dad greeted her and ignored her, but they were very active, they couldn't calm down, their sensitivity to those outside things was also very poor, and they couldn't concentrate on playing games.
Her parents were very worried about the child's situation, so they took the baby to the hospital as soon as possible for consultation. After a detailed consultation, it was found that the child's grandmother coaxed the child to watch anime this year.
After the doctor knew, he concluded that the child had a personality problem because he watched TV and played with the tablet for a long time, and psychology usually called this problem the "imprint effect".
1. What is this "imprinting effect"?
In the 1910s, a German behaviorist discovered a very interesting phenomenon when observing geese, such as a goose that had just broken out of its shell, and after seeing its mother, it would instinctively follow its mother, but the first thing he saw was not his mother's words.
But other living animals, and not just animals, blindly follow themselves as long as this thing is moving.
And this reaction is irreversible, that is, if you look for the first one, you will not look for the second one, so you will react again to the things you see later.
This is called the "imprint effect," but it doesn't just exist in animals, it also exists in humans.
This daughter is like a goose who has just opened her eyes, taking the TV and tablet as her dearest person, anime is the most important way to connect with the outside world, so over time, these anime and mobile phone tablets have slowly replaced the company of parents.
2. The harm caused by the "imprint effect" formed by watching TV for a long time on children
Many parents in the child, usually with TV, animation or mobile phone games to appease the child, sometimes parents are doing housework, afraid of the child to give their own mobile phone to him, some children must open the tablet to watch video when eating.
But for those young children who watch TV for a long time, watching anime will become the deepest imprint in her mind.
In child psychology, it is believed that this "imprinting effect" occurs in the two years from birth to two years of age, and the baby can hear the sound after half a month of growth after birth. At this time, show him TV, and the baby's brain will be engraved with the mark of television.
These imprints are usually manifested in these aspects of the ability to express limited, watching TV is passive to listen to the content of the program, there is no opportunity to speak, so there will be late speech, or even the phenomenon of normal communication.
Logical thinking ability is slow, children passively accept those large amounts of plot input, the brain does not need to think, the child's logical ability will not be able to get proper exercise, so the baby's intellectual development also has a very large impact and restrictions.
Babies watch TV for a long time, and by the time they are two or three years old, they usually show their personality problems.
For example, do not pay attention to their mother, intense activities, can not be quiet, like to hum some advertising songs and music, but like a lot of mechanical things, and can operate, has a wide range of knowledge.
1. Strict control of the time children watch TV should be carried out
Some experts recommend that children should not watch TV until the age of two, and also avoid children living in an environment with a TV.
After the baby reaches the age of three, the time spent watching TV every day should also be strictly managed, and preschool children can watch a little after writing homework at night.
2. Parents most accompany their babies to watch TV together
Watching anime should not be the only way for children to have childhood, children should watch them together in the company of their parents.
This can not only make the parent-child relationship closer, but also interact with the child through the exchange of character plots, help the child understand the content of the story, and cultivate and develop the child's language expression ability.
3, to selectively watch anime TV
Nowadays, there are more and more televisions and anime, and not all televisions are suitable for children.
When choosing anime for children, we should also pay attention to whether the content of these animations is healthy, whether it is exquisite, and whether the camera exchange time is too fast, which will affect the child's concentration training.
4. Strengthen the parent-child relationship and let the child principle electronic products
Parents should lead by example when raising their children, do not be a low-headed family, so that when they are trained, their children will also learn from them. Baby's I can not square TV, do not turn on the TV when eating, do not take the mobile phone.
When mothers do housework, don't let their children watch TV alone in the living room. Parents should strengthen the parent-child relationship with their children, tell stories to their children, make games, go out on outings, and so on.
summary:
As the famous British psychologist Eric Sigman said, "We must limit our salt intake and fat intake to our usual, and strictly control the time children spend watching TV every day." ”
Children are curious about everything in the world before the age of two, don't give the child to the mobile phone TV for their own convenience.
Their hearts are not formed in the concept of who their parents are, do not let the children take the TV anime as their own parents, to accompany the children more, away from electronic products to give the children a healthy and normal childhood.
【Transferred from: Sohu original - blossom life 】