It may be that the entertainment industry has been too boring in the past two years, and an ancient grave digging incident can emerge every three forks and five.
Enough to be shocking but harmless, that is, he laughs a terrier, and the party can also take the opportunity to turn red, such as "You are my god" and "My skin is unfolded"; Those who step on the red line are not so fun, and the light will be criticized by the mouth, and the heavy will be in danger of collapsing.
No, actress Bai Lu has recently become the unfortunate minestepper.
The fuse of the matter stemmed from Li Chen in "Running Man", who attracted doubts and dissatisfaction from netizens because of the sentence "their two girls will be our burden" in the latest episode of the program, but the big black bull quickly admitted and apologized and let himself get out in time before public opinion fermented.
But who would have thought that the fire of war quietly burned to another guest who was also resident in "Running Man" - the newly promoted little flower Bailu, because of the same nature of remarks, this girl also said, and more than once.
What exactly did you say? At first glance, it is nothing, mainly like to call themselves "male guests", "boys" and "men" in Weibo and various interviews, and also use "super girl" to describe feminine shapes, actions and characters.
So commonplace and so wrong to sound.
The most wrong thing is Sister Bai's famous saying - "male bullies and little", openly calling women, isn't this scolding?
In terms of context, she should be in response to the "female bully and the little dog", because of the lack of vocabulary to play an untimely mess, itself is not malicious, it is really unintentional.
But it is precisely such "commonplace" and "unintentional moves" that make this matter particularly valuable for discussion. Pulling out the bends of the unconscious little by little is much more interesting and meaningful than directly engaging in naked moral judgment.
What's wrong with White Deer?
Netizens called Bailu a "spirit man", which is quite accurate.
In general, her pickpocketed remarks contain two inertia of thinking: first, habitually regard themselves as men and stand with men; Second, inadvertently devalue femininity and female groups. These two inertia of thinking are of course connected - it seems that as long as she stands with a man and makes herself look like a man, she can stand high and point at women with disgust and teasing.
But she herself is also a gender woman, why should women embarrass women?
The key is here, she calls herself a man over and over again, constantly drawing a line with feminine characteristics, just to weaken her gender attributes, because female identity does not make her feel honorable and proud, not only cannot, but even makes her feel inferior and weak, but wearing a male identity is like wearing a layer of heavy burly armor, walking two steps and shaking three times, and no one dares to cast a contemptuous look.
It is still misogyny under the patriarchal society that is at work.
Gender women will be given many negative definitions, weakness and incompetence are one of them, Li Chen's casual phrase "women are a burden" and we have heard since childhood "girls don't have to fight too hard, just do an easier job", are all gentle responses to this traditional concept of gender.
The male of the main body of the patriarchal society represents strength and courage, so masculinity is a positive word, "super girl" is a scolding word, and men with a feminine temperament will be ridiculed and bullied, in essence, this is to divide people's high and low advantages and disadvantages by gender, that is, "regardless of men and women, like women, they are inferior."
Therefore, when a woman is more afraid of weakness, the easier it is to be full of disgust for her female identity, disgusted to a certain extent, she will desperately cut her biological sex, forcibly run into the male camp, and the so-called strong to be together, so as to shield her own weakness. They may even act misogynistic than many men, thus proving their identity and loyalty to men.
It seems that they are very grinning, but in fact, they are extremely unaccepting of themselves in their hearts, to put it bluntly, mentally kneeling, unable to calmly admit their uniqueness, richness and preciousness, so they can only reinvent themselves by cutting and carving, throw themselves into another camp, and enjoy the power and glory of the male camp at the cost of castrating themselves.
This is laziness on the road to self-growth, and it is also helplessness under the discipline of patriarchal society. It is said that the more elite a woman is, the more likely she is to become a "spiritual man" with a fear of weakness. After all, a woman who wants to climb the ladder in her career often encounters a lot of obstacles and stigma:
Either the "gentle trap" mentioned above - "girls don't have to fight so hard", "the most important thing for a woman is to marry a good man", "a woman is incomplete without a man and children", it seems that a little more enterprising and enterprising, it does not meet the definition and standards of "real woman" in the traditional sense, and choosing comfort and being willing to be a vassal is to show the true colors of a woman;
Or when you get to a high position on your own, it's usually all sorts of gossip – "A woman has done this far, do you believe she is on her own?" "It's not so much that the ability is strong, but that people are open-minded", it seems that the first magic weapon for women's success is always "relying on men to get to the top", and the ability factor is always minimal.
You see, this is very embarrassing, you don't want to be stupid and beautiful, people say you are not like a woman, you finally make some achievements, people say you "sleep". What's the whole thing?
Turning around, men don't have such troubles! Hard-working, striving for the first, righteous, no one will always come to persuade him to "don't fight too hard, just be a quiet beautiful man", career success, more eyes will naturally focus on his talent and efforts, rather than "the woman behind it".
That being the case, women who don't want to stand still and don't want to fall into the gentle trap simply choose to switch genders and package themselves like a man.
When it comes to packaging, this packaging method is also quite exquisite, you have to be moderate, you can't really look like a man from beginning to end.
From Bai Lu, who calls himself a "male guest", to "Fan Ye" and "Brother Qi" in the early years, which is not a big beauty who is suitable for heavy makeup and light wear? They will not be neutral in dressing up at all, or how to be beautiful, the money spent on skin care and decoration will not be less, tireless, proudly called brother, grandpa is probably their only effort to get closer to a spiritual man, right?
Otherwise, they're not stupid. Adults always expect to come to everything under the premise that reality allows as much as possible, a strong feeling is wanted, and the welfare of being a beautiful woman cannot be lost.
As we all know, under the patriarchal society, it is not your biological sex that is female can become a "real woman" for granted, and only those who can stimulate male desire can be, so beautiful women have never lacked flowers, not beautiful enough to be cared for, wealth, knowledge, personality and other levels of advantages are also incidentally worthless, barely strong, it seems that there is no appearance of this layer of lighting, your whole person is not activated, a gray existence, no matter how many advantages do not have the qualifications to be seen. Therefore, for thousands of years, women have always spared no effort to become beautiful, and women who desire to become beautiful are still the best leeks.
In this case, of course, women who are already very beautiful will not easily lose their advantages, and they call their grandfather brother in their mouths, and they will not let their feminine charm be damaged, but it is a self-promotion within the safety range.
And women who are really very masculine in appearance, whether you call them brother or not, will attract curious eyes and mocking words, and it is inevitable that they will encounter identity crises and social rejection because they are not "woman-like" enough.
What were the good words "Brother Chun" and "Brother Zeng" back then? On the surface, it is called brother, but in fact, mockery and disparagement prevail, right?
Now Li Yuchun, who is full of aura, was beaten and angry in the spit of online violence and the sword and shadow of implicit discrimination in the early years, and even if the audience threw bottles, the official awards can be said to be "the most influential male singer Li Yuchun", how dignified and malicious must this be?
Therefore, if it is not a last resort, no one will be willing to "women pretend to be men" to find guilt, even if they dress, they must be on the basis of maintaining beauty, and cannot subvert the traditional universal aesthetics too much.
Persona is a fleeting thing
Those female stars who call their brothers and grandfathers, to some extent, are similar to the thin man standing foodie character, in addition to the subconscious level of "fear of weakness", there is also the need to deliberately create affinity - "It is said that girls have many hearts and eyes, then I pretend that the grandfathers can just appear to be big and have no heart and no lungs, and everyone is willing to make friends with me." Boys will not be embarrassed to approach because the goddess is cold, and girls will feel that this girl is real, not troublesome, and not green tea and becomes a girlfriend powder. ”
This small strategy might have worked a few years ago, but it clearly doesn't work now.
It can be seen from the "fuss" of public opinion in the Li Chen and Bailu incident that netizens (especially the majority of female netizens) are becoming more and more "pretentious" and "sensitive", and those "commonplace" and "unintentional moves" have become sand that cannot be rubbed in their eyes.
This is the inevitability of the development of feminist thought to a new stage, and the gradual awakening of women is like a door that has been kicked open, and if it is opened, it cannot go back, because the light of the new world has shone in.
It is impossible to keep the original state, and it is an inevitable trend to remove the old cloth and the new. Instead of silently following many commonplace, they began to ask: "It's always been like this, right?" ”
In such a stage of alternation between the old and the new, overkill is inevitable, and hasn't the New Culture Movement also regarded "bringing down Kongjiadian" as the strongest slogan? There are many reforms, first press it from one end to the other, and then let it slowly bounce back into the middle, and the thorns and knocks again and again can loosen those rock-solid roots. Today's "sensitivity" and "hypocrisy" are precisely to establish tomorrow's new "conventions" and "commonplace".
Hasn't the "foot-wrapping wind" that was ubiquitous a hundred years ago been thrown into the trash can of history? Doesn't the "female man" that was popular on the Internet a few years ago sound a little weird now? The process of civilization has always progressed gradually in the cycle of breaking-reconstruction. And the entertainment industry as a conspicuous mirror can reflect the wind of the change of the times, don't believe you see, in recent years, the feminist perspective of "nitpicking" why not "spiritual men are not honorable"?
Not long ago, Dong Xuan was live broadcast in Xiaohongshu, when recommending shoes, he said that girls should not wear too high heels on dates, which made many female viewers instantly bow their heads, just, why should he take care of his face in this way? Is there a problem with female high and male low? Men's self-esteem is so fragile that women wear flat shoes to sustain it?
Also, Gao Ye, who had just become popular with his "sister-in-law", saw the marketing number saying that he had not been in love so far and clarified in person: "This is a swearing." This remark also caused a lot of dissatisfaction - "Clarification is clarification, but how can it be considered swearing?" Is 35 years old a shame for Xiaobai? What do you think of making the mother and fetus single when you say that? ”
And two years ago, Yang Mi posted a photo of doing difficult yoga movements on social media, originally intended to launch a challenge, lead the whole network to follow suit, and complete a wave of heat KPIs for himself, but it attracted a full screen of doubts and criticism, professionals said that this set of actions may hurt the body, it is not recommended to follow easily, ordinary netizens believe that doing difficult movements is fake, showing a good body is real, this is promoting female competition, creating body anxiety, refusal! Then, Yang Mi apologized and deleted this dynamic.
Shrewd as a sister Mi, I am afraid that I never expected that a few years ago, touching her belly button with her backhand attracted a wave of amazing praise, how can I change my scolding now?
It can only be said that in the 21st century, with the rapid development, the trend of public opinion has changed every few years, and it is really difficult to have any tricks that can be tried once and for all.
Once upon a time, the majority of ordinary women would still be fascinated by the delicate bodies and happy marriages of female celebrities (at least it seems), but now, rejecting the abduction of women by appearance, age and marriage has become the mainstream voice, and simplicity, casualness, and relaxation have become beautiful new labels that cover chopstick legs and ant waist.
As for love and marriage, those high-profile shows of affection have separated a large number of pairs, even Zhang Yuqi, who has always been tiger-headed and crazy for love, has used the "wise man does not fall in love" mobile phone case, "make money" and "stay away from men" have become the most popular slogans for women nowadays.
Of course, what is happening now may not be the best, and I don't like gender antagonism and confrontation in any sense, but it is still that sentence, the era of rapid change, must not bypass the "overkill" paragraph. Today's "fuss" is just preparing for tomorrow's light clouds and breeze.
Little advice that is not mature
In such a "special period", this bag sincerely suggests that all female stars, or don't stand up blindly, act well, and be proficient in professionalism is the most solid and lasting foundation.
And as an ordinary melon, it doesn't hurt to pick and choose the thorns appropriately, but don't expect to look for feminist models from female stars, you will only return again and again with anticipation.
You know, superior appearance is always the primary threshold for them to enter the industry, and the entertainment industry itself is a professional field dominated by male condensation, and it is really a little difficult for them to break the framework they rely on to survive. Moreover, celebrities also provide the most mundane life fantasies (such as becoming beautiful, getting rich, glamorous), rather than the most avant-garde life ideals.
What's more, most of them do not read much, and feminism is estimated to need fan science, let alone lead. To practice and promote feminism, it depends on the most ordinary majority, yes, you who read here at this moment.
Author: Miss Bovary
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