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The biggest feeling after being a mother is that I am in a hurry and have no time. Eating is hurried, bathing and washing is hurried, and everything must be done in a hurry. When the baby is awake, time belongs to the baby. When the baby is asleep, time belongs to the housework, but there is no time for the mother herself.
How many mothers, after having children, the makeup on the dresser has long been full of ash. Not only is there no time, but also no energy to pick up yourself, a little time, just want to rest, simply lazy to clean up after themselves, unkempt is the norm. When I go out to walk my baby, I clean up casually, and I rarely think about dressing myself. But for the sake of the child, but also for the mother herself, the mother takes the child out to walk the baby is best dressed up, the benefits are too much, no matter how busy do not be lazy.
Both mom and child are confident
Girls need to go out, but sometimes lazy to dress up, will be fully armed, wear a mask and hat, walk outside and pray not to meet acquaintances, the big old people want to hide when they see acquaintances coming, feel that they are embarrassed to see people.
But it is not the same after careful dressing, wearing beautiful makeup, the whole person is full of confidence, and the waist bar is very straight when walking on the road. Mother takes the baby out, it is inevitable to meet acquaintances, dress up slightly, have self-confidence, go out to meet acquaintances, warmly go up to say hello, is conducive to social interaction. Dressing up is not only for others to look good, but also to make yourself feel good.
For kids. Don't look at the children small, they also have vanity and will also compete. The mother dressed beautifully, they were also happy in their hearts, thinking that their mother was the most beautiful, the most eye-catching presence in the crowd, going out to see the little friends, will enthusiastically introduce the mother to the children. When the children around them praise their mothers for being beautiful, the children are happier and prouder than their mothers, are willing to take the initiative to make friends, and their personalities will be more cheerful and generous.
It will make mom love life more
Many mothers after having children, especially a mother with a baby, are busy like a war every day, surrounded by children's and pee farts, lack of sleep, the whole person is dizzy, and feels that it is to stay up again. Many mothers have long forgotten themselves in such a life, there is no passion for life, and occasionally going out to walk the baby seems to be a kind of task, they will not release themselves at all, and their daily life is dull and boring. Over time, many mothers will fall into negative and depressed moods.
But dressing up is different, take the baby out before dressing up, will think that it is not easy to dress up, go out, will never live up to their time and thoughts. So the mother will go out with a happy mood, originally just take the child to the supermarket to buy something, since she is dressed, then go to the garden.
Dressed mothers will make themselves brave enough to go out of the house and feel the world around them more carefully. That is, makeup allows my mother to be liberated from day after day of and housework, and realize that she also has this side. There is no need to give up on yourself for the sake of your children, so that your mother loves life more.
[Topic discussion: When you go out to walk your baby, do you dress up? 】
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