What exactly does marriage bring to women? Before entering marriage, many people often imagine it too beautifully, thinking that there will be men to take care of themselves, after all, there is a place to shelter from the wind and rain. In fact, most of the wind and rain are brought by the person next to you.
After marriage, most women will sacrifice more, after all, every mother is sad about their children and family, they are willing to give up their jobs, just to make the family live happier, but in the end it is still wrongly paid, even if the woman pays everything, it may not necessarily be able to exchange for the man's pity, but may be disliked by the other party Without a common language, and even will be attracted by outsiders, betraying the marriage, and what about women? Having been out of touch with society for too long, and having long lost the ability to support herself, how dare such a woman strive for her own happiness?
When she first got married, Li Li was the director of the company, and her performance was booming, but because the morning sickness was too serious, she could only recuperate at home, and the company could not wait for Li Li, so she had to resign. The child was born, but the mother-in-law admitted that she would not come to see the child, Li Li wanted to find a nanny, but when she saw various nannies abusing the child, she did not dare, and in the end, she had to take the child at home.
It was not easy for Dabao to go to school, but Li Li found herself pregnant again and began a new round of fighting. Her original plan to go to work was disrupted, pulling two children alone, it can be said that it is more tiring than going to work, but her husband comes home late every day, returns home to do nothing, and thinks that Li Li is very leisurely at home, and she is too tired to work, blindly envious of Li Li's life.
Later, the children all went to school, but the husband said, there is no shortage of your money at home, you should clean up the housework at home, pick up the children, don't go to work. Li Li began her life as a full-time housewife.
Gradually, Li Li found that her husband almost did not communicate with herself, the two people would quarrel because of a small matter, they would not care about each other's feelings, and the feelings of the two people were gradually fading.
Her husband often stayed up at night for various reasons, and Li Li thought that her husband was too busy at work at first, but later found that her husband's mobile phone had chat records with other women.
The husband admitted that he had betrayed the marriage, but he said that he was too lonely, and Li Li had nothing to say, so he found a confidant outside. However, he said that he would not take the initiative to divorce Li Li and would still raise Li Li.
Listening to her husband's words so harsh, Li Li was eager to divorce immediately, but she was afraid, she had been out of touch with society for twenty years, blindly washing and cooking with her baby, she had long lost the ability to support herself. And now in the face of the man's betrayal, Li Li did not have the courage to leave.
In fact, in a relationship, there is never any gratitude, if you want to be cherished by the other party, you must improve yourself, keep up with the pace of the other party's progress, if you are disconnected from society, and the other party has no common language, even if you pay more for marriage, it is useless, after all, you can not save your feelings. Therefore, women should strive to improve themselves, and only excellent themselves will be treated well by the people around them.