With the take-off of the economy, the people's living standards have been greatly improved, and now children eat well, dress well, have fun, and have a better learning environment.
But now the development of society is very rapid, everyone's pressure will be particularly large, not only adults are very stressful, many children also have a lot of pressure.
Some children even suffer from various psychological diseases, for example, some good children in the eyes of others have suffered from depression, and even suicide has occurred, which makes parents very confused now.
In fact, the child's depression does not appear overnight, it is a long-term result, before the child's depression was discovered, the child has a lot of abnormal performance.
For example, I often say some inexplicable things, and some negative mantras appear.
If parents are not vigilant, depression continues to develop and may become severe depression, which may have an impact on the safety of children's lives, and even some children lose their lives.
Therefore, parents must pay more attention to their children, especially some abnormal expressions of children.
In fact, children will have many manifestations of depression, and careful parents can avoid many tragedies if they can find these manifestations.
For example, children often say the following words, so they must be highly vigilant.
1) I really shouldn't have come into this world
Some children have depression, their evaluation of themselves is morbidized, they think that they can't do anything well, and when they encounter a little blow, they will have particularly large mood swings, a particularly bad mood, and even repeat "I really shouldn't have come to this world."
If the child often uses this as a mantra, parents must be particularly vigilant, because this situation shows that the child's evaluation of himself is super low, and the reduction of this evaluation leads to the child's belief that he has no value in this world, which may produce the idea of taking his own life.
If parents find that their children often say such a frustrated word, they must sit down with their children seriously to talk, and find that the signs are not right, it is best to take their children to seek medical treatment in time.
After the professional diagnosis and treatment of the psychologist, the child will re-recognize his own value and will not develop into an irreparable consequence of life.
2, is it all good if I die
Many children, after being criticized by teachers or parents, may be angry and shout "Is it okay if I die?" ”
The child's sentence seems to be an angry sentence, but the in-depth analysis shows that the child's evaluation of himself is too low, and it is not a normal thing for the child to have a low evaluation of himself.
If the child often says this, parents need to be vigilant, it is best to actively do a depression diagnosis, after the diagnosis results come out, you need to diagnose and treat in time.
3, I am a waste, can not do anything well
Children will have an evaluation of themselves, some children may be influenced by their parents may be too demanding of themselves, when a thing can not be done successfully, he will evaluate himself too low, thinking that the reason why he does not do well is that he is a waste, and he can't do anything well.
In fact, this kind of low evaluation is really an important feature of depression, if parents find that the child often says this, it means that the child must have a cause, we must be vigilant, and actively take the child to see a psychologist.
Children are the hope of every family, parents should not always be busy with work and ignore their children, must give their children full care.
If the child has these conditions, parents need to be vigilant and can follow the following methods.
1. Consult the doctor quickly, but do not let the child know
If the child always repeats these words repeatedly, or when he encounters emotional excitement, the above situation will occur, parents need special attention.
It is best to actively seek the help of a psychologist, and with the help of a psychologist, help the child adjust his cognition, so that the child realizes his own value, likes the world, and likes himself.
2. If necessary, let the child cooperate with the psychologist to do homework
If the child is depressed, he needs the help of a psychologist to come out, and if the child is willing, he can take the child to a psychologist.
With the help of a psychologist, let the psychologist complete the homework, parents should cooperate with the child's treatment, I believe that mild depression can get better. If necessary, you can also take some medications to improve your mood.
3, parents do not treat their children as porcelain dolls
Although parents should pay special attention to the child's emotions, but also do not when the child is a porcelain doll, a touch will break, it is best to follow the psychiatrist's method to help the child adjust cognition, but do not show excessive concern, otherwise it will put a lot of pressure on the child.
Children always say these words in this article, parents must be vigilant, may be a manifestation of children's depression, parents must find ways to deal with, to avoid an irreparable situation, causing major harm to the family.