The TV series "Dear Child" adapted from the movie "Left and Right" is being broadcast, because this movie has won the Berlin Award, and it is starred by Ren Suxi and Qin Hao, and there are still many netizens looking forward to it.
But after the broadcast, the unanimous reaction of netizens was: too angry!
Xiao Lu, played by Qin Hao, is habitually lying, hypocritical, lazy, irresponsible, irresponsible, and slimy, and cheating, which can be called a bad man.
Qin Hao himself also thinks so, so he sent a "life-saving Microblog" very early: Xiao Lu's behavior should not rise to Qin Hao.
(Source: Qin Hao Weibo)
I have to say that Qin Hao's acting skills this time are still so substitutionary.
(Image source: Internet)
In addition to the relationship between husband and wife, what makes netizens feel suffocated is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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She gave her granddaughter's placenta to her son to wrap wontons,
Is it a bad mother-in-law?
Probably in order to increase the dramatic effect, the behavior of Xiao Mu in the play can be described as very bloody, no matter which behavior is taken out, it can make people feel involved, such as:
Eat your granddaughter's placenta
As an important member of the spawn army, Xiao Mu did not care about the daughter-in-law in production, nor did she care about the child, and she was bent on the placenta and supplemented the nutrition for the second son.
(Image source: Dear Child
After getting the placenta brought by Xiao Lu's wife who had just left the delivery room, Xiao Lu's mother showed a satisfied smile. Xiao Lu asked her to go up to see the child, and she said that she would wash the placenta first.
As a son, Xiao Lu also couldn't stand his mother like this, and complained a few words: "When I don't want children, you urge me to have children every day, I am born, you don't go up, I really obey you." ”
(Image source: Dear Child
Superstitious folk remedies
Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo, as new parents, still know the theory and lack of experience, and want to invite a sister-in-law for a month.
Xiao Mu's first reaction after knowing it was to spend money indiscriminately, because she was distressed that Qian's mouth also began to be unobstructed, preaching to Fang Yinuo, who had just given birth and needed to rest soon.
People can't help but wonder, at this time, let the mother rest well is the right thing to do
After that, the sister-in-law misjudged, and the child was illuminated in the hospital due to excessive bilirubin.
Xiao's mother ignored Fang Yinuo's anxiety, heartache and worry about the baby's blue light alone, and told her what home remedies to use for jaundice treatment, whose children used it like this, and now they are white and fat.
In the hospital, I don't believe that doctors believe in folk remedies, I'm afraid it's not a big smart?
Let the granddaughter use her son's diaper
Because the baby grows fast and the clothes are replaced relatively quickly, it is also possible to wear second-hand clothes occasionally. The baby of the Xiaokang Jun family also wore clothes that his friends and children could not wear at that time.
But letting a granddaughter wear the clothes she wore when she was a child is a bit excessive, inappropriate and unsightly.
And Xiao's mother did this, taking the clothes and diapers that her son wore when he was a child to Fang Yinuo and asking her to use them for the baby.
(Image source: Dear Child
In addition, there are also forcing the daughter-in-law to drink greasy pig hand soup for milking (greasy soup is not conducive to milking, and even easy to cause milk blockage); the granddaughter's poor physique is attributed to the daughter-in-law eating less; when the son and daughter-in-law are intimate, they do not knock on the door and enter directly.
In order to let the son rest well, let the couple sleep in separate rooms, and sleep in a room with their daughter-in-law; chop meat in the kitchen early in the morning, the sound is loud; when holding the child, they like to turn upside down; the surface listens to the daughter-in-law's words to cover the baby with one less layer, and when he goes out, he covers the baby, and the result is that the prickly heat is covered.
(Image source: Dear Child
If the above is the older generation and young people with children's ideological concepts are different, then the occurrence of the following incident can really instantly intensify the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Dropped the baby
Xiao Mu pushed the stroller alone to take the baby out of the house, saw the mahjong stall and could not walk, began to watch others play mahjong, and smoked a cigarette. When they were fascinated, they helped them sort it out, and the hand holding the stroller unconsciously let go.
(Image source: Dear Child
Because it was downhill, the stroller ran away, and the baby was dropped and fell to the head.
(Image source: Dear Child
From the above, it can be seen that Xiao Mu is a very unreliable mother-in-law. But if she is a bad mother-in-law, it is not.
Because she is also the mother-in-law who knows that her daughter-in-law is angry with herself, she lets her son coax her daughter-in-law.
It was the mother-in-law who knew that the younger son was dissatisfied with his sister-in-law and told the younger son to shut up and not stir up dissension. It is the mother-in-law who knows that his son has cheated on him and scolds him for being sorry for his daughter-in-law and not worthy of being a father.
(Image source: Dear Child
It is also the mother-in-law who knows that her daughter-in-law is too nervous after giving birth to a child, so that she can relax more.
The mother-in-law relationship between Xiao Mu and Fang Yinuo is the epitome of many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships: they are not people with bad hearts, but because of the difference in living habits and parenting concepts, they can't get along.
If that's the case, then the best way is not to reconcile, but to increase the physical distance.
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Old people with these habits,
Not suitable with children!
I like to smoke, drink, and play cards
Compared with smoking and drinking, playing cards is a big or small problem, if you play two when you have nothing to do, it is of course okay, but if you can't move when you see a card player, then the matter is relatively big.
In December 2021, the child was lost due to the obsession of the elderly with playing cards.
(Source: World Wide Web)
In August 2020, an elderly man handed over his 11-month-old baby to others to play cards, and then the baby died of suffocation after being fed fudge.
(Source: Henan Business Daily)
Taking care of a small baby is a more troublesome thing, and the elderly who like to play cards are really not suitable for bringing.
Superstitious folk remedies
Can't say that home remedies are useless, but most of the time, folk remedies are really unfriendly to small babies.
Zhang Miao, a pharmacist in charge of Henan Children's Hospital, shared a case in which after the baby was burned, the old man used rats to boil oil (the rats were mashed into a mud after being prepared with sesame oil), and applied to the baby's burned parts, resulting in infection and causing the baby to enter the intensive care unit.
(Image source: City Report)
The superstitious old man is not unsympathetic, but because the concept is too old and does not accept the new parenting view, it is not suitable for children.
Talk likes to be dirty
Although the baby can't speak yet, the brain will automatically store the words heard and express them when they can. If the family members talk dirty, they will be imitated by the children, which will have a negative impact on them.
Contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are inevitable, and as long as they are not issues of principle, they can be resolved through communication. If it is a matter of principle or really cannot get along, you can stop the loss in time by increasing the physical distance.
Well-off jun bar boo
Parents are the first to take care of their children, although the work is usually busy, but can not put the burden of the baby on the elderly.
Of course, the elderly must also know how to divide and feel boundaries, and do not overly participate in the life of their small family.
Only by understanding and accommodating each other can we get along in harmony for a long time.
In the process of taking the baby, have you ever had irreconcilable conflicts with your family? And how to solve it?
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