Are you still struggling with not knowing how to get along with your children? In order to get along better with their children, the ancients had seven parents who did not blame, do you know which seven are not? Let's take a look!
First, do not blame the public
Some parents especially like to count their children in front of others, such as: you see how good people's little sister dances, what will you order. You see people have scored a hundred points again, why can't you improve a little? In fact, this is very destructive of children's self-esteem and self-confidence, and the child's personality is easy to become timid, cowardly, and inferior.
Second, regret and no responsibility
If the child himself already knows that he is wrong, at this time, he should first calm the child's emotions and do not come up and blame. We criticize children so that they can reflect and know their mistakes. If the child knows that he is wrong and criticizes him, it will only make it more difficult for the child to forgive himself, resulting in a weakening of the ability to resist setbacks.
Third, the twilight is not responsible
Sometimes the parents come home late, the child has gone to bed to prepare for bed, the parents began to discipline him, and finally the child cried and fell asleep, especially prone to nightmares. In the long run, it will affect the physical and mental health of the child.
Fourth, diet is not responsible
The child is eating a meal, the parents began to scold him, a few words down, the child will not have the heart to eat, a moment is likely to have stomach pain. If this is the case for a long time, it is very harmful to the child's body. No matter how big the matter, as parents, we have to wait until the child has finished eating, put down the bowl, and then say.
Fifth, rejoicing is not responsible
When we are celebrating the festival together, we often say "don't patronize and play during the festival, and your homework should also be improved in time." When you are happy, don't be a parent who pours cold water on it.
Sixth, sorrow is not responsible
When a child cries, parents must not say"What is crying, shut me up; is it not your fault, still crying". Children are sad and crying, it is the time when emotions need to be vented, and this time criticism is worse, making children more sad. This can seriously affect the parent-child relationship.
7. Illness is not responsible
When a child is sick, this is when he is very vulnerable and needs the love of his parents. Parents blame him at this time, and the child is likely to remember and hate you.
I hope that parents can know this "seven no responsibilities" and avoid the above seven environments to educate their children and become more responsible parents.
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