Wen | Yuan's mother's parenting diary original, welcome to forward and share personally
What is it like to be a mom?
To experience the torture of pregnancy in October, to accept their out-of-shape, yellow-skinned, unkempt appearance, but also to endure sleepy feeding night milk, all their time and energy on a little guy, and may even lose themselves, become anxious, self-blame...
Such a "bad" feeling, but still make me and many mothers can't stop, hard work does exist, but the happiness and sweetness of being a mother is also real!
Remembering a video brushed a few days ago, the family monitor recorded that a small couple kissed and hugged the baby when the child was asleep, and liked it so much that the father sat up several times and looked at the cute baby in his wife's arms, and the love was overflowing. It is not at all the appearance of being broken by the baby's crying during the day.
Watching the behavior of the couple in the video is like looking in the mirror and thinking of myself, often crying in anger by the two babies during the day, hiding in the room and gambling that they will no longer care about them, and will have their own life and career;
But every night when it was late at night, I couldn't help but run into their room to tuck them in the corners, tidy up their school bags, and sometimes sit and listen to their breathing when they slept...
In fact, "split personality" is the most true feeling and state of parents to their children.
Jiangshan is easy to change and difficult to move, but parents are an exception
A person's temperament, lifestyle habits, and behaviors and hobbies are difficult to change, but if you look closely at those who have become parents around them, you will find that there is nothing for them that cannot be changed for children.
In the eyes of the mother, the child's and fart may be fragrant
The baby's and pee fart is extremely powerful, so big that the fathers are disgusted with that, but the mothers are like a sense of smell failure, no matter how dirty and smelly, changing diapers, washing clothes are all out of the question, and even can't help but kiss the baby's fart, if you don't really love the child, who can eat at ease against a lump of poop?
Mom has a baby, and her incompetence has become superpowered
Women's growth seems to be in the night of giving birth to a baby, before giving birth to a baby is still a little princess who needs to be taken care of, after giving birth to a baby, she will have to go to the hall and get down to the kitchen, and all the big and small things outside the home are all resisted by one person.
If there is really any superpower, it must be the love of parents for their children!
After a man becomes a father, teammates can not be wanted
I have a deep feeling about this, before having children, my husband was like a boy who didn't grow up, every day I was never absent from playing games with colleagues, once I was angry and directly turned off the chassis and he also quarreled with me, I thought he was addicted to games all his life and no one cared, until the appearance of his son.
The son often presses his computer and grabs his mobile phone, causing him to lose the game, but the husband has never been angry, in order to spend more time with the child, he also sacrificed the time to play the game, and the teammates do not exist.
Pain and joy, that's parents
When I was a child, my mother often said that she knew that I was so disobedient and strangled me to death when she was born, but she still felt sorry for me to accompany me, gave me the best, and let me have my own family and life.
Now that I'm a mother, I have countless moments of hard work and want to give up, but as long as the child shouts "Mom" out of his mouth, I love him like a demon and spoil him.
When parents are not tired, but happiness is also true! The depth of love is so deep that it is reproachful, and the polarization of parents to their children is still because they love too deeply.
The birth and arrival of a child is actually happy for parents and families, after having a child, they will become busy but happy, parents and children are accompanied by each other, growing together, and a lot of happiness and satisfaction are also because of the existence of children!
People in the world always say that because of their parents, children have the opportunity to open their eyes to the world and grow up happily, but I want to say that in fact, children are the medicine to cure their parents.
【Today's Interaction】
How have you changed since you had children? What happiness have you gained?