Now in this society is it more difficult for men or women to talk about it, recently my girlfriend also asked me such a question, but also because of this quarrel, and even quarreled about breaking up. I think if it is a man to answer this question, he will definitely feel that it is more difficult for men, and if women answer this question, he will definitely feel that it is more difficult for men, and if women answer this question, it will definitely be more difficult for women. Who is not difficult?
1, men are difficult
As the saying goes, boys have tears and do not flick, and they have to endure the grievances of outside work, because there are old and young behind you, you have to resist, and the rich are the uncles, and the ones who have no money are the grandchildren.
Men who make money alone are said to have no sense of responsibility, and men who patronize their homes are laughed at and have no ability.
Handsome people feel unreliable, and ugly people are disliked.
If you marry a wife, you must listen to your wife, love your wife, hurt your wife, not good for your wife, and may still run.
If the family conditions are average, it is not easy to buy a house, a car and a bride price for the mother-in-law.
Excellent men must be able to withstand loneliness, withstand tests, keep prosperity, and withstand temptation. Men can't spit bitter water everywhere when they are hard, and if they vomit too much, they will be like complaining about women, and they will become arrogant. You see, even if we men are kind and have good character, if we don't earn much money, no house and no car, if we don't have any savings at home, even if we have a hard time finding an object. Whoever is like you women, who have a job no matter what kind of work, as long as they are good-looking, no matter what their family background is, they can find a similar man to marry, or marry better. Even if there is no job, not good-looking, looking for an older man, there are still people who want it, someone raises, do not worry about eating and wearing, just eat well and dress well, we men have to struggle hard for the sake of wives and children, and fight hard in society.
Besides, we men can also do housework! Women are not happy, tired, bored, can play a little sex, can cry a lot! We men, tears can only flow to the psychology, light a cigarette, dissolve the depression in life and work, occasionally drink a little wine, relieve fatigue, but also be said by you women.
In particular, we men at home have the feeling of only taking care of their mothers, but also the idea of taking care of their wives, and these two women often disagree, and they are all sprinkled on our men, and we don't have to suffer. Is it easy for us men? It's not easy!
2, women are difficult.
At home, you must do housework, prepare meals, and make money outside, after all, the social pressure is so great now. It is said that women are made of water, not all of them, in fact, there are many made of cement. What about us women? Also to have a child not only after the October pregnancy to give birth to the child but also is likely to break through the "ghost door" more than once, after giving birth to the child also to take the child to restore the figure and also have to face a variety of pressures and bad emotions, not only to work, but also to go home with the baby, laundry and cooking. At night, in order to take care of the children, I can't even sleep well, even like you men, the children are crying like that, and the purring is still like a thunderstorm. Some are even more excessive, afraid of children noisy, actually ran to another house to sleep, this child is not with your surname ah? You men try to have a child at home, one moment to make a child's meal, one moment to coax him to sleep, one moment to accompany him to play with those simple and boring toys, and the other to deal with his and urine. Isn't that much easier than you are in class, you know, you are looking for an aunt with children now, more money than a month?
In the workplace, women's employment is also easy to be discriminated against, having a child, people are afraid that you will have a second child, and people who have a second child are afraid that you will not be able to take into account work and family, and when hiring, they consider a lot, and the job is not easy to find. Singles are urged to marry by the family, and the elderly are ridiculed by society, as if marrying too late is a mistake.
3, men are difficult? Difficult for women? Asked the people who went to work early and returned late every day, and answered: It is difficult not to fight daddy! scold!
Or men have great social pressure, and I haven't heard anyone say that I fight for my mother!
Is it difficult for men or for women? Each has its own difficulties, each has its own easy! It depends on the individual's thoughts and mentality. When you think it's not difficult, maybe he feels sad. When you think he's having a tough time, maybe you're not as happy as him!
Don't say what women are the hardest
Whether it is a man or a woman, there are places where they are tired.
Hard or hard? It's your own feeling!
Children in the countryside will find it more difficult, and they will not be able to get ahead without hard work
Do you find life difficult?