Xiao Gao believes that if the father originally wanted to find his wife, he should discuss it with his children, and the father has spent a lot of money on his girlfriend in recent years. Gao Laohan said lightly that in fact, the money spent on his girlfriend is not much, that is, the two major things are spent more. One is that his girlfriend's daughter got married and he accompanied him to send 50,000, and the other is that his girlfriend's son bought a car and he borrowed 70,000. Hearing that his father spent 120,000 yuan on this girlfriend for only two items made Xiao Gao a little unable to sit still. In his opinion, the father and girlfriend are together, and the daily expenses of the two old people will cost up to 70,000 or 80,000 in a few years, but listening to the old man, I am afraid that 200,000 can not be stopped.
Sure enough, the old man confirmed that he spent more than 200,000 yuan with his girlfriend for seven years, and even the 200,000 pension money from selling the house was also spent. Knowing the truth, Xiao Gao is also bitter, calling out that his father has not been so generous to himself in this life, so why is the old man so willing to spend money on his girlfriend? It turned out that even if he did not receive a license, the old man treated his girlfriend as a family, treating her children as if they were his own children, but he did not care about the feelings of his children. Speaking of his own family, Gao Laohan is a little impatient, and seeing this, the reporter also looks down on the high-level old man's powerful and arbitrary approach. The reporter believes that it is his freedom for the old man to find a wife, but as a child and his family, he has the right to know, including large expenditures, and should be discussed with his family.
For the family's worries, the old man has always been dismissive, and has been defending his girlfriend's family. It is understood that during the more than 20 days that Gao Laohan was hospitalized, his sons and daughters took turns to take care of him in the hospital, and his girlfriend and his girlfriend's two children only came to the hospital to visit him two or three times. In this regard, the reporter believes that if the old man is really sick, he must count on his children. In order to completely help their family resolve the conflict, the reporter proposed that the girlfriend of the old man also come to the scene, but no matter how the old man persuaded him on the phone, the girlfriend still refused to come to the scene.
Seeing this situation, the reporter believes that the reason why the tall old man has come to this day is also related to the lack of concern for the elderly by his children. In the face of the reporter's persuasion, Xiao Gao also realized his own problems and said that he would care more about his father in the future, in fact, marriage is free, and everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness. Now young people have to go to work, rarely can have time to accompany the elderly, then the elderly are inevitably lonely, if there is a person to accompany the elderly, the elderly can reduce loneliness. But the elderly remarry still have to discuss with their children, do you support the old man's approach?
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