Now that the kindergarten has been open for a few months, the children in the family should be deeply touched, the children are always crying and crying and don't want to go to the kindergarten, which makes the family very annoyed and wants to know what this is all about.
My little nephew is in this state, and then the sister-in-law went to school to understand, and found that the reason why the little nephew did not want to go to kindergarten was because he was in a strange environment, had no friends, and the teacher also nicknamed the child "Li Naughty", so the nephew was very unhappy, and even resisted going to school. After that, the sister-in-law went to find the teacher who led the class, and the result was not yet theory, but the teacher complained first, and after the conversation, the sister-in-law learned that the little nephew was so naughty in the kindergarten.
Because the little nephew has grandparents in pain when he is at home, the little nephew will cry and cry when he encounters something unpleasant, and in order to follow it, the old people will meet his requirements. Kindergarten is very different from home, and the little nephew cries and makes the teachers very headache.
Especially when the little nephew eats, he is very uneasy at home, and when he eats a mouthful of food, the whole clothes have rice stains and grease, which looks dirty, and when he goes to school, it brings a lot of trouble to the teachers.
Because there are adults at home, he still can't wear his own shoes, undress, and every time he finishes playing with the toys, he doesn't know how to put them back in place. The personality is even more domineering and willful, and the slightest dissatisfaction will shout. The teacher had communicated with her sister-in-law before, but the sister-in-law who spoiled the child did not care too much, and felt that if the child was a little lively, it would be better to be smarter in the future. This time, the teacher was more direct, and he hoped that the little nephew could "withdraw from school, which can be regarded as making the sister-in-law pay attention to it."
After listening to a complaint from my sister-in-law, I was also very helpless, because the family was particularly spoiled for the child, which led to the child's personality becoming lawless, I talked to them about this problem before, but they did not pay attention to it, still used to the child, this time to understand the seriousness of the matter.
To know that a person's personality is very much related to the cultivation of childhood, if you can let the child develop good habits, then it is greatly beneficial for its growth. However, children develop bad habits from an early age, and it is difficult to correct them when they grow up, which has a great impact on future life.
After that, the family also understood the truth that "spoiling children is actually harming children", so they went to consult the head of the kindergarten, how to let the children develop good habits and be a child who is loved by others?
The director of the kindergarten admitted that these 5 habits have not been cultivated well, and parents should pay attention to:
First, exercise habits
Now there are many small children who eat and sleep at home every day and watch TV. This will lead to anorexia in children, and weight will also increase, physical fitness decline, so usually adults must take children to exercise more, strengthen children's immunity, and after exercise, children's appetite will increase greatly.
Our family now holds mountain climbing exercises from time to time, and will also go out to camping and other outdoor activities, so that the little nephew has more contact with nature and breathes fresh air, this time not only grows taller, physical fitness is much better, and eating is also very regular.
Second, the habit of living a regular life
Before the little nephew especially like to play mobile phones to watch cartoons, every day will stay up until very late to go to bed, if you do not let it watch will cry, which leads to its life more and more irregular, the body immunity declines, often sick.
After that, my sister-in-law made up her mind to go to bed early and get up early every day, and eat regularly, watch TV regularly, and go out on outings from time to time, the little nephew not only slept regularly, but even basically did not watch cartoons.
Third, the habit of emotional management
Emotions are the most useful weapon for children, because they know that when they are unhappy, as long as they cry twice, their parents will obey themselves, so the little nephew has always used this trick and tried everything.
Now the family's determination to rectify is very consistent, so it will no longer manage the little nephew to fool around, if it puts forward bad requirements will not agree anymore, will slowly wait for him to calm down after reading a picture book, let him learn to manage his temper, the little nephew's favorite to listen to is this "Children's Emotional Management and Character Development Picture Book", because he can understand the meaning, know that bad temper will hurt relatives, encounter problems to learn to communicate with parents.
Fourth, personal hygiene habits
You must know that health habits must be cultivated from an early age, otherwise they will become sloppy when they grow up, and developing good hygiene habits can also make the body healthier, enhance their own image, and be welcomed by friends.
So the little nephew did not brush his teeth before going to bed, the habit of not absorbing should also be changed, since my sister-in-law read the book "Children's Emotional Management and Character Cultivation Picture Book" to the little nephew, telling the children that if they do not absorb and do not brush their teeth, they will generate bacteria and harm the body, and then the little nephew will obediently wash before going to bed and develop good habits.
Fifth, the habit of reading before going to bed
Before the adults in the family are very busy, so no one will accompany the little nephew to learn to read, but after listening to the advice of the head of the kindergarten, my brother and my sister-in-law will take some time to read the "Children's Emotional Management and Character Cultivation Picture Book" to the children every day, so that the children feel the warmth of companionship, and the personality is also much better, and now they have learned to dress themselves, and they will also help the adults to do housework, and they will not cry and cry when things happen, but intuitively say their needs!
Now the teachers in the kindergarten are constantly praising the little nephew, which makes the little nephew full of confidence, and every day on the way to the kindergarten, he sings songs. This "Children's Emotional Management and Character Cultivation Picture Book" has played a great role in it, which can help children develop good habits in an all-round way, which is much more useful than scolding and preaching!
And this picture book can also cultivate children's social skills, emotional control ability, so that children become more confident, brave, generous, dare to accept failure.
In order to make it easy for children to read, the font of this picture book is enlarged, and it also has pinyin annotations, which can allow children to learn and increase their knowledge while learning, and it does not look like it will bother their eyes.
While cultivating children's reading ability, it also allows children to develop good habits, and such a good picture book is worth every parent.