Love is very beautiful, marriage is very realistic, especially for women, marriage is not a child's play, only choose the right person, the rest of your life will have happiness to speak of, but if you choose the wrong person, you will also be wronged, even if you divorce because of this, you will also be pointed out in the name of the second marriage, so it is best not to get married easily, and do not talk about divorce easily.
When you meet the right person, you need to cherish it well, when you meet someone who is not ladylike, you must also dare to stop the loss in time, treat any feelings, you must weigh the pros and cons before you can make the right choice, rather than losing your due sanity by relying on a momentary good feeling and impulse, sometimes love too blindly, you will only make decisions that you regret, so if you want to get married, you must be cautious.
Liu Xi grew up in a single-parent family, her mother usually has to work two jobs alone, can not give her daughter more companionship and care, fortunately, Liu Xi is very sensible, basically did not let the mother worry, and she is also more precocious than children of the same age, but there will be inferiority in the heart.
After graduating from college, Liu Xi also successfully found a satisfactory job, but she grew up in a single-parent family, her personality is also very weak, and she lacks love, and cares more about the eyes of the people around her, no matter who she gets along with, she is always a promise, and she does not dare to express her opinions, even if she encounters unfair treatment, she will blindly choose to obey.
Until at a party, she met Wang Fan, the emotional road has developed, but also for the first time there is a feeling of being cared for and loved, when in love, Wang Fan is almost obedient to Liu Xi, on call, as long as he encounters difficulties, or need to find someone to talk to, his boyfriend will accompany him.
Gradually, Liu Xi could not do without Wang Fan and liked to rely on him, but with the passage of time, the freshness would pass away, and the enthusiasm would also decrease, and so would Wang Fan, who had no patience for Liu Xi in the past, and no longer had sweet words and warm greetings.
Women are emotional, the change in the boyfriend's attitude, she can naturally feel easily, but for love, more will also choose self-deception, although feeling Wang Fan's perfunctory and indifferent, but Liu Xi will comfort herself, the boyfriend is just recently busy, the pressure is too much, wait for a while will be good, for this relationship, Liu Xi has been seeking perfection.
Later, the two people were ready to get married, Liu Xi was naturally very happy, but after arriving at her boyfriend's house, she found that the future mother-in-law was particularly strong, and the sense of superiority was full, not only cooperating with Wang Fan, degrading herself to nothing, but also liked to direct herself to do things, all kinds of pickiness and difficulty, in Liu Xi's view, the other party is to make themselves obedient, it is best to have no right to speak after marriage, only everything is based on them.
After two days in the man's home, in the face of the mother-in-law's various dismounts, let Liu Xi feel depressed and disgusted, after going back she thought clearly, some people will not cherish and be grateful because of their own efforts, and they have no opinion, they will be led by Wang Fan everywhere, coupled with the weakness and inferiority of their own personality, they will be suppressed by the man's family, after thinking about these, Liu Xi took the initiative to break up, but the boyfriend did not agree, in his heart, Liu Xi is a cowardly person, should not learn to resist and refuse, After all, he had long been accustomed to his girlfriend's resignation.
Finally, he said angrily: Everyone knows that I am getting married, you now mention breaking up, let me put my face, even if my family does not buy a house at that time, if you do not give a bride price, you must marry me. The boyfriend's attitude has strengthened Liu Xi's determination to break up, and she directly replied: I am not married, break up, you will only consider yourself, but you will never defend me, you want to marry me, nothing more than to think that I am obedient, so when your parents are difficult for me, you will stand idly by and think that I must be based on them, how dare I marry a man like you? Later, Wang Fan pestered for a long time, but Liu Xi did not give him any more chances.
Beautiful love can not be sought, but for the sake of feelings but abandoned the bottom line, only know to blindly tolerate, that after stepping into marriage will only be wronged, so when subjected to unfair treatment, you must dare to resist, rather than blind obedience, you know, a temporary concession can not be exchanged for long-term happiness, will only make the other party more unscrupulous, in a relationship, the lover seven points is good, remember to leave three points to love themselves, so as not to let yourself be too passive, in order to grasp their own happiness.