"Mother-in-law, don't you have a daughter, when you are old, look for your daughter to take care of you!"

01.

There is no blood relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, if you not only did not take the handle when the daughter-in-law needed help, but even fell into the well, then when you need to take care of it, don't blame the daughter-in-law for learning.

Of course, some mothers-in-law do not help at the beginning because they are not afraid, because many mothers-in-law, especially those with daughters, will be very confident and feel that they will not fall into the hands of their daughters-in-law in the future.

Li Lin and Wang Qiang are college classmates, and they can meet fellow villagers from the same city in a foreign land, which is naturally a little more cordial.

Not to mention that the two later worked part-time, and they were in the same company, so they were naturally more familiar.

Over time, the two have feelings for each other, and it is impossible to talk about who pursues whom, in short, the first semester of college, the two are naturally together.

During the love period, the feelings are good, and after graduation, they also jointly decided to return to their hometown, and marriage is naturally a natural thing.

During this marriage, Li Lin's parents did not say much, although they were a little worried about the strong temper of their mother, but when they saw that their daughter really liked it, they pressed this point of dissatisfaction.

Wang Qiang's mother was not satisfied with this daughter-in-law, because she felt that Li Lin's mouth was not sweet enough.

Wang Qiang cried and laughed, and finally convinced his mother.

Mother-in-law likes others to pat themselves on the back, daughter-in-law mouth is stupid, such a combination of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, can think of future life will have friction.

02.

After marriage, it is under the same roof as her mother-in-law, because Li Lin's parents can't get all the down payments, but Wang Qiang's mother is not willing to bear a part of the down payment, so the separate marriage room does not have to think.

Originally, Li Lin was not worried, thinking that as long as she worked hard, her mother-in-law would be as close as a mother and daughter sooner or later.

Unfortunately, she was too naïve, and her mother-in-law only had her own daughter in her heart, so she would not think of handling a good relationship with her daughter-in-law, and she never thought of counting on her daughter-in-law in the future.

Life under the same roof is simply a chicken feather, no matter how the daughter-in-law is soft and small, the mother-in-law is a variety of thorns.

The wife is wronged, the husband is also in the eyes, how to persuade their mother is useless.

The mother said that she has a daughter, and she does not worry about no one to take care of her in the future.

In this case, a year later, Li Lin proposed to move out and rent a house, and Wang Qiang agreed.

In the following years, the two were very hard, and Wang Qiang's salary was a little higher, so he was still working and maintaining the daily expenses of the family.

Li Lin resigned and began to do her own business, the principal was borrowed, it was really a desperate bet.

Fortunately, she worked hard, and the business was also generous, and slowly the business got on the track and began to make money.

But the hard work is natural, not to mention that in the middle, she is also pregnant and has a child, and a child.

It is fortunate to have her mother's parents, otherwise Li Lin felt that she really couldn't stand it.

When she was pregnant, she bought a house and the family was fully able to live in.

At that time, Wang Qiang called his mother, saying that his wife was pregnant and the family was busy, hoping that his mother could come over to help.

The result was rejected, and finally Li Lin's mother knew the difficulties of her daughter and son-in-law and offered to help.

Just like this until the birth of the child, Li Lin's mother-in-law did not come over once, not to mention knowing that after giving birth to a daughter, it was useless to say that the daughter-in-law was useless.

The child was born for the first few years, and it was really up to a person to carry her, Li Lin wanted to do business, and Wang Qiang had to go to work.

Therefore, after the confinement, Li Lin's mother did not go home, but continued to help with the children and take care of housework.

Her mother always said to her daughter and son-in-law, with me, you two will rest assured to do your own thing, and I will take care of the child.

Li Lin's mother's help to her daughter's family can be said to be unrequited, although her daughter will give her money every month, but in the end she still gave it to the child at the end of the year, on the grounds of pressing the child's old age money.

In other words, in the past few years, it is basically Li Lin's mother raising this child.

In this regard, Li Lin's mother-in-law smiled and said that the child had been taken care of by her grandmother, which was naturally the best. These words reached Li Lin's ears, and she sneered in her heart.

03.

When the child was 4 years old, Li Lin's father fell ill, and her mother had to go back to take care of it.

At this time, although Li Lin's daughter can go to kindergarten, she definitely needs to be picked up.

Wang Qiang called his mother again and said: Mom, come and help us for a while, as long as you pick up and drop off the children, you don't have to do anything else.

And his mother still refused, Li Lin was on the side, listening to these words, angry, said: Mother-in-law, you are like this now, you don't have to come to count on me to take care of it in the future.

Mother-in-law still that sentence, I have a daughter, do not expect you.

After saying that, I hung up the phone, yes, the mother-in-law has a daughter.

Li Lin thought about these years, the mother-in-law bought a car for the sister-in-law as a dowry, and when the sister-in-law bought a house, the mother-in-law also posted money and helped her daughter with children for several years.

Originally, the day came here, and after Li Lin and her mother-in-law, that is, the bridge returned to the bridge road.

She did not interfere with Wang Qiang's frequent visits to her mother-in-law, but she was certainly too lazy to go.

But with the passage of time, the mother-in-law's age has gone up, some problems have also found her, and her body is not as good as before, in fact, the most important thing is that there is really no money in her hand.

After being politely rejected by her daughter several times and three times, the mother-in-law suddenly realized that she might have to rely on her son and daughter-in-law in the future.

But she also knew in her heart that when she had said the words to death, things were done to the extreme, and the daughter-in-law would certainly not take care of her easily.

So she took advantage of her birthday to let her son take his wife and children home for the first time.

The mother-in-law wants to take advantage of the fact that her mother-in-law's relatives are all there, and the seven aunts and eight aunts are in full view of everyone, and propose to go to the city to follow her son and daughter-in-law for the elderly after a period of time, and the daughter-in-law is definitely not good to refuse in person.

But the mother-in-law's wishful thinking was broken, and Li Lin directly disagreed with the mother-in-law to come and live together, and pile by pile, bit by bit, said the previous things.

Finally, Li Lin said that she looked at the relationship between husband and wife, and could accept Wang Qiang's monthly living expenses for his mother, and Wang Qiang wanted to take care of himself, and he moved back to the old house to live and take care of it together.

But she didn't want to live with herself, she felt that she had made concessions, and if her husband forced herself, she would have to divorce.

04.

However, Wang Qiang understands his wife's grievances and heartache over the years, and understands that his mother is really not very kind, so he does not disagree with his wife's statement.

Li Lin's mother-in-law finally regretted it, but it was too late, and no matter how much she regretted it, it would be impossible to eliminate the grievances of her daughter-in-law over the years.

So we say that when we make any decision, we must not be short-sighted, do not just look at the present, so that we can have good results, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually the same.

If this mother-in-law had faced difficulties in the life of her son and daughter-in-law, and she could take the handle, she would have helped. Don't think about having a daughter, and don't expect a daughter-in-law in the future.

Then the grateful daughter-in-law will naturally lend a helping hand when the mother-in-law needs relatives to take care of her in her later years.

Ten years to see the mother-in-law and ten years to see the daughter-in-law, many times, it is really not an empty word.

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