We always say that the network is a line of love. With the gradual development of the Internet, communication between people only requires a network cable.
Therefore, the cost of confession has also decreased, and the phenomenon of online dating has gradually risen.
But at the same time, it seems that there are more and more people cheating on feelings. Some people may be having a good chat with you one second and sweet talking to others the next.
It can be seen that people who often talk to you may not be sincere with you. So how do you tell? Just look at these three points and it is enough.
[1] He has you in his future
If you rarely talk about the future when you usually chat, and rarely talk about each other's plans, then the other party will most likely not plan you into your own future.
The person who really wants to be with you is hoping to enter the marriage with you, to the end, and he will definitely put you in the future life.
Maybe the future he imagines may not be realized, but those who never mention the future must not be sincere with you, he just wants to enjoy the present.
[ii] When you need him, he will appear in time
The person who truly loves you, he will tell you with actions that he loves you. And the guy who's just playing, he's just talking, and when you need him, he'll just tell you to drink more hot water.
The person who loves you, when he learns that you have a stomachache during your menstrual period, will definitely help you cook red date ginger tea and put it at the head of your bed; when you are sick, he will definitely rush to the hospital immediately.
People who don't love you will only tell you to drink more hot water, let you buy your own medicine, and even when you are impatient, they will say to you: "Are you bothered, won't you go to the hospital, tell me what to do?" ”
[3] I like to share the little things in my life with you, and I also like to listen to you tell your stories
The person who truly loves you is eager to know everything about you, he will seize every opportunity to know more about you, and he wants you to know more about him.
So, from time to time, he will share with you the things he has encountered in his life, even if he goes to the gym today and sweats, and yesterday morning he forgot to buy breakfast in a hurry. Although childish and boring, he is happy to share it with you.
In the same way, he likes to listen to you and want to know what you are doing on a daily basis. After listening to the story you tell, it is as if I have experienced it with you.
【Conclusion】 The people who love you are full of you
The people who love you are full of you and think of you all the time.
People who don't love you have you in their mouths, saying that they will be good to you for a lifetime, but never acting; often talking to you, but rarely asking you to meet; even if they meet you, it is only to satisfy themselves.
Therefore, don't be deceived by good love words, see if the other party is really treating you, if not sincerely, you must leave as soon as possible.