Isakovsky said that love is not one heart beating another heart, but a spark of two hearts colliding together. This shows that love needs two feelings to be happy, and love is two-way.
Many men complain about women's hearts, needles under the sea, always feel that it is difficult to chase women, and the truth is that the women they like do not like them. There are also many men who often blame their inability to chase women on the reason that they have no money, and the deeper reason is that women don't like them.
So the question is, in this money-oriented society, is it a way out for boys to make girls like themselves, destined to become rich immediately? Of course not.
Women are always emotional and pay more attention to love, so the key is whether you understand women, whether you have the ability to make girls like you, not simply material problems. Chasing women is very simple, you have these three things, and now she will love you very much without money
01. Have a heart
Zhuangzi said: The true one is sincere to the extreme, not refined and insincere, and cannot move people." The meaning of this sentence is that if you are not sincere enough, you will not be able to impress others.
We often say that since ancient times, deep affection cannot be retained, only routines win people's hearts. There is some truth to it, but it's not all true. In my opinion, routine is just a technique, and sincerity is the way.
Because girls are more emotional and fragile, very insecure animals, so when girls choose men, many of them are very important to whether you are sincere with her.
Girls also understand that only if you have sincerity to her, your relationship is stable enough, and you have the possibility of marriage.
This is also why the older generation, including many girls, still recognize the truth of honest men.
Honest men look more sincere and reliable, not as careful as scumbags, and easier to make girls feel safe, so that girls will let down their guard and be more willing to contact them.
02. Sense of responsibility and responsibility
Ma Yun once said: A good company is a responsibility, a responsibility, and a kindness. Isn't that the case with a good man in a woman's heart? A good man in a woman's heart is also responsible and responsible.
For this reason, when many girls examine a boy, they often ask about the man's original family, and the relationship between the man and the original family, especially with the parents.
If a boy shows that he is filial to his parents and cares for his family in front of the girl, then the girl will have a better feeling for the boy. Because in the eyes of girls, it is not easy for a man who knows how to understand his parents, and the men who are filial to their parents are often more responsible and responsible for the family or others.
Tu Lei once said: What gives a woman hope is not love, but the responsibility of men... What do you think responsibility is?
You think the responsibility is to stay together for life and throw a few dollars at home. The real responsibility is to care about how every minute and every second of your loved one feels.
In fact, many women do not want much, they do not have the luxury of asking you to be rich and expensive, only hope that you can care about and value her feelings, so that women will also feel that you have her in your heart, are willing to be responsible for her, and are naturally more willing to give themselves to you.
03. Capable
There is a saying that goes: it is not poverty that makes people despair, but the lack of hope.
A lot of men can't catch up with women, are frustrated with women, and always blame the problem on money.
There are also two questions that men can ask themselves: first. How much have you spent on women? Or how much have you spent on the woman you like? second. Do you think you have other advantages in your body that girls like in addition to money?
Many men don't spend much money on women when they chase women, he doesn't chase the girl, and he only pushes the responsibility on the woman. Such men are doomed to be incompetent and selfish, and they have no merit in attracting women.
It's not that women don't want to follow him, it's that women don't see hope in him and she feels powerless. The terrible thing is not that he is poor, but that he has been poor all the time.
Many women don't worship gold materially, they really like you, and they are not afraid to suffer and suffer with you. It's just that we people always need a little hope to live a life.
Imagine a woman who has been following you, never ending suffering, enduring poverty, who wants? Not to mention herself, she also thinks about her own children. Are you a woman, would you?
Now there are a lot of techniques on the Internet to teach you to chase women, what to catch, what to be hot and cold. Admittedly, these tricks and routines sometimes have an effect on women as well.
I think it is still the writer's late love is right, what secrets, skills are not their own efforts to be reliable, when you are not valuable, your secret in the eyes of others is to seek perfection, your skills in the eyes of others is a low voice, only if you work hard to be strong, all the difficulties can really pass. The summary is that when you men have no money, it is the most correct way to chase women by sincerely working hard to make money.