Time passes
For better or worse
Just it's you
01
Feelings are always desirable, but what does a good relationship look like?
Some people say that they are obedient to you and put it in the palm of their hands, and some people say that the wind and rain are not abandoned, but I think the most important thing about good feelings is to be practical.
A truly good relationship will not make you suffer, will not make you afraid that he will leave you one day, and do not worry about whether he will not like you.
On the contrary, as long as he is there, you have an inexplicable sense of security.
My heart is at peace, and good feelings will also make you feel at ease.
You may take it for granted on a daily basis, but it has penetrated deep into your bone marrow and body and becomes a part of your body. Once you really lose you will have heartache, which is not a substitute for freshness.
On the contrary, the so-called freshness has been painstakingly maintained, but who can have such energy?
02
Good feelings are the passage of time, and I still love you.
I love you even more than you did in the past, and it is said in "Lover" that I love your battered face more now than when you were younger.
People who have truly experienced love will understand the meaning of this sentence, will know that this is the mark left by two people who have been together, and it is the love that they have experienced for many years together.
Let people feel warm, long-term, than those warm but fleeting feelings, such love is more reassuring and down-to-earth.
Just like Jiang Defu and Anjie in "Parental Love", when they were young, they all had a little temper, especially Anjie had a lot of pickiness about Jiang Defu.
But seeing them dancing together when they are old, and the family eats, who can say that this feeling is more desirable.
Compared with their heat when they were young, I believe that everyone prefers to experience the quiet years after experiencing various storms, and such a safe and smooth is what everyone likes.
03
I remember Anjie walking with Jiang Defu on the beach and saying to him: Thank you for letting me have no worries about food and clothing, and my spirit is happy.
Anjie understands Jiang Defu's goodness, Jiang Defu also understands Anjie, the two people have passed for many years, and their feelings have not only not faded, but have lasted for a long time.
Emotional preservation is necessary, but in the end it is not freshness, but because of trust, tolerance, mutual progress, more understanding of each other, there are advantages, there are shortcomings.
At this time, it must be generous, tolerant, and appreciative in order to let two people go further.
Hal's Moving Castle says, "Love, not looking for a perfect man." It's about learning to look at the person with perfect eyes and appreciate the person who isn't perfect. ”
I love you, not because you're perfect, but because it's you, and I love your strengths and weaknesses.
The advantages make me appreciate you better, and the disadvantages make me understand you better and get along better.
04
The core of the family is the relationship between husband and wife, the relationship between husband and wife is superior to everything, and when two people have bad feelings, it is difficult for the family to be harmonious.
If you want to have a good relationship between husband and wife, then you must learn to appreciate each other, see each other's advantages, respect from the heart, and love each other.
Many people look at the advantages before marriage, pick shortcomings after marriage, so that everyone is unhappy, in fact, on the contrary, before marriage, you must pick people well, the other party's sense of responsibility, character is what you have to pay attention to.
After marriage, grasp the big and let go of the small, don't hold on to a small matter, and the whole family is restless every day.
"The rest of my life please teach more" Lin Zhi School's family is warm and warm, and I envy the feelings between her parents more than the feelings of the school.
Teacher Lin has stomach cancer, his wife does not abandon the care, and he is afraid of the diagnosis to make his wife and daughter worried, Ms. Li cried to persuade Teacher Lin to review.
In order to make Teacher Lin recover, Ms. Li would rather endure a foreign country.
05
Whether it is respectful as guests, or noisy, as long as they love each other until they are old, they are all in love with each other.
Feelings need peace of mind, in this impetuous era, we must truly understand the meaning of home, understand the true meaning of feelings.
Tolerance and understanding are needed no matter what stage of feelings they go to, feelings are not changed without feeling, but learn to operate, let it repair and grow again.
It is not easy to meet, and it is good and cherished, whether it is love, friendship or family affection, time is the best way to test them.
Withstanding the smoke and fire of the years is the true feeling.