In order to facilitate the future of primary school, I transferred two children to kindergarten, my brother lulu to the big class, and my brother to the small class on the way.
On the first day of school, my brother quickly adapted to the new environment, while my brother encountered a big problem, and on the way home, my brother whispered to me: "Mom, I don't dare to go to the toilet in the kindergarten..."
Before he could finish speaking, Lu Lu suddenly covered his stomach and said; "Can't hold back" I hurried to find him a toilet, but still a step too late, pulled inside his pants.
When I got home, my brother began to count my brother down: "When I was in kindergarten, why didn't I go to the toilet, now I pull it in my pants."
It doesn't matter, there must be a reason for this, can you tell your mother? Comforted his brother and signaled him not to say anything more.
At this time, the younger brother couldn't help but shed tears, looking very pitiful.
I took him and my brother in my arms and said, "My brother will first tell my mother why I didn't go to the toilet, and then my brother will share what happened today."
Back at home, and my mother and brother who loved me, Tutu finally said his difficulties: "The toilet in the kindergarten is different from our home, and I am afraid that I will make a mistake, so when the teacher took me to the toilet, I did not raise my hand."
At this time, my brother also spoke: "I dare to raise my hand to the toilet, but I am also shy, I dare not play with my classmates, only talk to another new girl like me." 」
"Mom, "I don't dare to go to the kindergarten toilet", "Mom, I don't dare to play with other children", mom's approach, let the child dare to express their inner thoughts.
The brother's main problem is that when he first arrived in a new environment, he was not familiar with other children, which was caused by the strangeness, but the younger brother was different, the kindergarten things were not touched by him, and the process, habits, etc. had to be learned from scratch.
However, the most fundamental problem encountered by the two is to overcome shyness and bravely express their ideas, so parents must be patient when their children encounter problems.
Guidance is an indispensable step, in addition to the help of the teacher, parents should also make their own efforts, then the following methods you may wish to try.
First of all, parents should learn to listen patiently and communicate with their children to help their children build self-confidence, and slowly develop a good habit of listening to others.
Secondly, through some games to cultivate children's expressiveness, so that children have the opportunity to express in interaction.
Finally, let the child listen to the little story to see how other children do not dare to talk in kindergarten, do not dare to go to the toilet when they solve this problem.
For example, in the book "I Love Kindergarten", there are many similar small stories, one of which is that children and children want to go to the toilet and do not tell the teacher, go home, and even in order not to go to the toilet in the kindergarten, they will deliberately drink less water and soup.
However, once the kindergarten lunch was too tempting, there were a lot of fruits, Tong Tong also ate like other children, and before long, Tong Tong wanted to go to the toilet, but he still endured until his stomach hurt, which was really uncomfortable.
Finally, he said to the teacher, "Teacher, I want to go to the toilet", and then the child was no longer afraid to go to the toilet.
This set of picture books has a total of six themes, such as "Eat More, Grow Up", "You Are My Good Friend", "I Am the Best in Kindergarten" and so on.
It can solve the problems encountered by children when entering kindergarten, help children eliminate the inner uneasiness and fear when they arrive in an unfamiliar environment, and gradually adapt to kindergarten.
"Teacher, I want to go to the toilet", after reading this book with my brother, also gave him great encouragement.
He said happily: "When children want to go to the toilet, they must raise their hands, and I will be as brave as a child in the future and tell the teacher in time."
After reading the book "You Are My Good Friend" to his brother, he realized that it was not because he was isolated, but because he had just arrived in a new environment, and the children did not know themselves, and he had to dare to join them.
"Eat more, grow up" has such a little friend Beanie, see how he changed the picky eater, do not like to eat vegetables.
Missing your mom in kindergarten? Xiao Nuoyi in "Mom, I want to go to kindergarten", thinking that his mother is about to cry, how did he overcome this later?
The first time a child goes to kindergarten, it is inevitable that there will be discomfort, dare not communicate with others, and even shyness, then we, as parents, must actively ask about the child's situation, communicate with him, and help him solve problems when encountered.
If you also have 2-6-year-old children at home, then you may wish to also prepare this set of books to read with your children, so that children dare to express themselves and fall in love with kindergarten.