Lu Lu is a 10-year-old child, in the 4th grade of primary school, his parents divorced, and his father went to Guangzhou to work.
As left-behind children, LuLu and grandma have been living together.
Two months ago, the child told his grandmother that he should fill in the school registration number, let his grandmother take out the bank card, and tell his grandmother,
Look at the phone and wink, then nod again.
After doing these two actions, Grandma, who never knew how to access the Internet, did not know that LuLu had tied up her bank card and mobile phone.
Next, the child played two games, recharged a lot like water, and spent more than 50,000 yuan that Grandma had painstakingly saved until only 200 yuan was left.
Lu Lu said: "I bought equipment, five thousand and fifteen thousand, bought 50,000 equipment." ”
How did he get his bank card password?
It turned out that he let his grandmother do face recognition and successfully bound the mobile phone and the bank card.
At present, Grandma is still trying to find a way to get back the money, and hopes to get back the savings of many years.
What was particularly impressive was when the reporter asked Grandma "Is this your grandson?" ”
The old man replied, "This is a wolf I raised!" ”
Coincidentally, almost a month ago,
In Henan, a 7-year-old boy, still with his sister, went to fly a kite on the yellow river. The sister looked at the mobile phone, and it was only three minutes, and the younger brother was gone.
"At that time, my brother was crouching not far from me, and there were two women with a child flying kites next to me."
"There was a woman who wore a black bottom and black pants, loose-fitting pants, and a high-leg boot like a khaki like Martin boots."
The sister described what one of the women was wearing.
It is this handsome little boy, called Little Shuaida.
Seeing such a report, it is really heart-wrenching, where has the child gone?
The terrain on the yellow river is very open, was it abducted? The local police have intervened, and after investigation, there is no sign of being abducted, and the search at the scene and in the water has not found the child.
If you fall into the water, the chances of survival are slim; if you are abducted, there is at least hope.
Therefore, Handsome Dad's parents even hope that the child was abducted.
So far, no information about the child has come back.
After this incident, many netizens suspected that her sister was playing with her mobile phone to the point of concentration, believing that she was lying and criticizing her sister.
What Ting Dad wants to say is that my sister must also be very uncomfortable with herself, and we should not point the finger at the child.
But playing games with mobile phones does affect the feeling of time.
Often when we play games, we feel that time passes so quickly, and the game will make us completely immersed in it and ignore the things around us.
Impact of playing mobile games:
1, easy to indulge, adults are often deeply involved in it, children's self-control is worse, more likely to indulge.
2, affect learning, playing games requires a lot of time, it can be said that there is no more time-consuming than playing games, and businesses will continue to develop new levels in order to attract players, some games are even endless patterns, and what you want is to stick you firmly.
3, the game will come up with consumption tricks in all aspects: new equipment to money, special supplies to money, children want these need to spend money, which makes children in order to get these equipment, had to deceive adults.
How to prevent such a problem
It is the curse of mobile games again, and the merchants of these games, in order to make money, really will not have too much bottom line. Children are ignorant and greedy, there is no adult supervision around them, it is easier to fall into such a trap, and they cannot extricate themselves.
On the one hand, it is hoped that the state will strictly control such games, and if there are minors caught in it, once it is confirmed, in addition to the full refund, it is best to give the corresponding fines, and use economic means to make these businesses not have no bottom line.
At the same time, for children to play games, need to strengthen monitoring, if found that there are a large number of abnormal recharge situation, the merchant must do further verification of the identity to confirm.
On the other hand, for parents, it is necessary to strengthen the management of their children, especially when it comes to actions such as payment. Parents are not around their children, parents should also do a good job of preventive injections with their elders, do not easily bundle bank cards with mobile phones.
If you find that your child has abnormal behavior, you must be aware and guided in time.
More attention should be paid to the physical and mental health of left-behind children
Left-behind children are cared for by their elders, without the care and companionship of their parents for a long time, lack of security, and the physical condition of the elders cannot always follow the children, and even sometimes need the children to take care of the elderly in turn.
In the current situation, children are taking online classes at home, and they need to use electronic devices such as mobile phones and computers to listen to the lessons. It also increases the child's exposure to games.
It is recommended that parents communicate well with their elders, after the online class, they must take the mobile phone back, do not let the child carry it with them, so that the situation of separation from supervision, the child's chance of playing the game is greatly increased.
In the end, if conditions permit, parents still try to take their children with them.
The growth of children is inseparable from the company of parents, many parents want to go out to work, earn money to support their families, and have no time to take care of their children. It should be known that once the companionship of the child is missed in the early childhood, not only the parent-child relationship is estranged, the child's habits are not cultivated well, and when he returns to his parents later, he often conflicts because of habits and personality.
At that time, when you come back to educate your children, you often feel very difficult and the effect is poor.
Mobile phones are not flood beasts, the most critical thing is to see the problem, make up for the dead, strengthen supervision, and more critically, parents try to accompany their children to grow up.
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