In the face of children's education, many parents maintain an open attitude, constantly learn a variety of advanced parenting concepts, and hope to grow and progress with their children.
This is not only reflected in ordinary parents, but also celebrity parents have the same performance.
Affected by the epidemic, Cecilia Cheung did not go out, but lived with her three sons day and night, and from time to time she would also send out some dynamics about her son.
Although her shoulders are not very broad, but taking care of her three sons, in an orderly manner, not only handles life very warmly, but also is not the "tiger mother" in most families in the study of her three sons.
From the dynamics of him and his three sons, it can be seen that even staying at home, the life of three children is very rich.
The youngest son who is in kindergarten is a toy car, the handsome second son is learning to play drums, and he looks like he is sitting in front of the skeleton, looking very eye-catching.
Cecilia Cheung accompanied her eldest son who was in middle school to do homework, and played Lego games with him in his spare time, facing the 7,000 pieces of Lego, the eldest son was obviously a little resistant, and even asked: whether to pile up a year's time.
In the face of the eldest son's complaints, he told his son in very firm language: There is no problem this year, what is the most important thing? The son was very adamant about telling Cecilia Cheung, don't give Up.
From its dialogue, it can be seen that this family must be very harmonious, even during the epidemic, life is very rich.
However, after watching Cecilia Cheung and her three children get along, many mothers silently gave a thumbs up.
If you know something about Cecilia Cheung, you will find that she has her own characteristics in children's education, which is worth learning from most mothers.
【Cecilia Cheung's parenting experience, points worth learning from】
1, hobbies, to cater to the child's preferences
Hobbies are the best teachers, this sentence must be known to most parents, but not all parents can do it.
Anything that is not of interest, even if there is pressure and temptation from the outside world, still cannot make it shine.
Therefore, in the development and cultivation of children's interests and hobbies, parents must respect their children's choices.
Only in this way can the choices made be the most advantageous, and the results that parents expect can be created, at least in the child's inner world.
2, encouragement and trust, is very critical and important
In the process of growing up, children may face many stagnant scenes, which cannot be ignored, even in the adult world, this kind of bad emotions will often appear.
In the face of this situation, parents must give their children stronger encouragement and trust, which is the first step in children's growth and self-confidence.
As long as parents can maintain strong confidence in their children, they will definitely have a hundred times more enthusiasm, overcome one difficulty after another, and thus create results that make them happy.
3. The power of words and deeds is very powerful
In the process of children's growth and education, parents' nagging and urging have no role or meaning.
Instead of cooing in your child's ear every day and annoying them, it is better to lead by example and make the child see what the parents do.
The power of this kind of words and deeds is far more effective than daily nagging, and it can also produce a powerful touch in the child's heart.
4, companionship, will become the best way of education
In the process of children's growth, I hope to stay by my child's side for a long time and do not want to miss every moment of my child's growth.
However, the best companionship is not companionship in the sense of time, but more of an integration in the spiritual sense.
Only when the spiritual world reaches a state of resonance can it have a positive and guiding effect on the child.
Always accompanying the child is likely to cause the child's boredom, so parents should adjust the way they get along with their children.
5, inner health and sunshine, is the top priority
Nowadays, most parents pay more attention to their children's mental health, so as to avoid their frustration and retreat.
In fact, this is inseparable from the establishment of children's self-confidence, as long as parents can give positive and correct guidance, the child's inner world will also be very sunny, which will play a positive role in their future learning and growth.
【Author's Message】
Hua Luogeng once said that burying his head in hard work is the first, and only when he is white can he know that he is stupid. Diligence and clumsiness are good lessons, and one point of hard work is a point of talent.
The growth of children is accompanied by a lot of ups and downs and hardships, and as a parent, the inner feelings are the richest.
However, in the process of children's growth, they will also face many choices, and parents who are slightly careless may push their children in the opposite direction of success.
Therefore, in the stage of children's growth and foundation laying, the parents' words and deeds and educational concepts will have a huge impact on children directly.
But for children who are more competitive, their shining points are also very rich, which makes them create a more gratifying situation.
Therefore, in the cultivation and education of children, the above problems and points, parents must repeatedly consider, to create a good growth environment for children.
Today's topic sharing: Do you think: In the education and companionship of children, what aspects should be paid attention to as young parents? Feel free to share your parenting experience below.