There are some people who look at ten thousand years, and there are some people who want to be together but it seems that ten thousand years will pass.
Cultivating a relationship is very difficult, the first person who does not look at it, want to enter their own eyes, the other party needs to make a lot of efforts.
With the development of the commodity economy, women are becoming more and more realistic today, and when facing feelings, they do not only look at feelings, but may also think of other needs in this regard.
People are more selfish, and when these greedy thoughts plant seeds in our hearts, women will become very snobbish when choosing men.
If a man wants a woman to have a long-term affection for you, you have to satisfy the man spiritually, and at the same time, you have to satisfy the man materially.
You must know that at first glance, the other party does not look at you, if you want to have a long-term relationship, you can not use your own appearance, so you have to work hard from the following three points.
01.
Long-term care for women
Women need to be concerned, women are not the same as men, men are manly husbands, women are just a little woman.
Regardless of this woman's original family? Women are eager to be cared for.
Many women are a woman in life, but when this woman finds a good man, she will suddenly become a small woman.
No one wants to be a fierce and vigorous woman who does everything by herself, but because there is no one to rely on, she is forced to become a female man by life.
Women want to be a more gentle person, rely on each other's shoulders to coddle, live a life of clothing to reach out, food to open their mouths, but many women do not have this condition.
When a woman is sick, there is no man to take to the hospital, and there is no man to accompany a woman when she is mentally helpless. So at this time, if a man appears and often cares for this woman, over time, the woman will also rely on each other. When the other party is not around them, women will also feel particularly unaccustomed.
So as a man, you must be warm, and you must give women enough warmth.
When men are not in love, they must warm women well, so that women will get closer and closer to themselves, and know how to care about each other when they encounter something.
After men fall in love, they must also know how to care for each other, so that the love between the two of you can be more and more long-lasting, rather than giving up halfway.
02.
Have enough money
Men want to make this woman love themselves for a long time, or have a long-term affection for themselves, then men must have enough money, when you have money, you have money to buy gifts for this woman, you buy gifts for women, women will be happy, over time, women will also feel that you are good.
For example, this woman is going to travel, but you don't have money, then the opportunities for the two of you to develop will be less and less, and the chances of success will be smaller and smaller.
If this woman encounters a little difficulty in life and is in urgent need of money at this time, but you have not seen it, so other men have helped this woman, women will feel that other men are more suitable with themselves, because they need such people, but you can't help yourself.
Therefore, as a man, you must know how to make good money, you are not good at making money when you are young, then people around you will look down on you, and it will be particularly difficult when you find a wife.
In the city, it is more and more difficult for men who have no car and no house to find objects, and when these men look for objects, the objects will open conditions for such men, but this man has none.
Men must have enough money, which is also a hardware foundation for you, because the current society needs money, we live under the shadow of capital, so we naturally have to work hard to move bricks.
If a man doesn't have money, you want to invite this woman to dinner, you feel tight, and if the woman is expensive, you feel sad. But if when eating together, women order are relatively cheap, for a long time, women will also feel very shabby with people like you, so women will also retreat in their hearts.
There are some men whose economic base is not as good as women's, if you pursue women in this way, women will feel that you are a person who is plotting against you, and some people will think that you are looking at your own money, although you do not have this idea, but women will also want to be crooked.
03.
Have a good career
Men must have a good career, and career is the best way out for a man.
Women are not the same as men, so there is a saying that goes like this:
"Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man."
When a woman marries a very good man, the second half of the woman's life can be very good, the woman's career can be bad, but it cannot be married badly, if the marriage is not good, your life will be ruined.
Men can't change their status quo through marriage, at least most men do, but men can change their class through their own careers.
If a man has a very good career, in the eyes of women, there is also a plus, if the woman has not found the object of her choice after a long time, at this time and see that your career is also good, I think you are also very capable, so at this time, women will also consider you, you two may still have a chance.
If your career is unstable, then women are not willing to be with people like you, because women feel that it is particularly insecure to be with you, and maybe in the future two people will have to worry about eating, but also worry about the child's milk powder money, so women will think a lot.
So men can't give up their careers no matter what, and some men give up their careers for their women, and such men are very stupid. You have a good career, you can give this woman the life she wants, you can firmly grasp this woman.
Many women will explain that they want a true love when they look for a man, but after being with this man, they tell this man:
"You didn't show up."
Women are always so duplicitous, in fact, women are also more realistic, mouth and mouth thinking about spiritual things, in fact, material and spiritual can not be less.
If a man does not seize the opportunity to meet for the first time when meeting a woman, and does not let this woman look at you at the first glance, then you can only let this woman have a long-term affection for you.
The three most important conditions for long-term love are the above three, one is spiritual and the other two are material. Only when both the spirit and the material are achieved will women be attracted to you.